Suraiya wasn't fair with Nafeesa!

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Preeti

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Posted: 11 years ago

As much as we've called them the 3 witches and hated them for plotting against and trying to separate Zain and Aliya, the viewers have finally seen why Nafeesa is actually 'supporting' suraiya! After all that has happened in her life and with the marriage of Shazia to Fahad, she has lost the position she held in Suraiyas eyes. With this she wants to regain it. As any woman whose husband went off with another woman and then her mother in law readily accepts the other woman it is obviously painful and something that can never be forgotten.

Just because Suraiya wanted a grandson doesn't mean she had the right to go ahead and get her son married off to another woman although he had already committed adultery by being with her and going to the extent of her getting pregnant. Suraiya should not have decided that the two need to get married. I asked a friend of mine and she said that although a man is allowed to marry again in islam he has to ask his first wife's permission; something which Nafeesa wasn't asked!

Although Usman wasn't happy with the marriage, we saw that he was speechless in front of his wife allowed sketched and also saw who has the upper hand in their relationship.

We have seen how unhappy Nafeesa is with her husbands second marriage, she only just found out that she won't be able to have anymore children ands when gets a big shock of finding out her husband has been seeing another woman and not only that, her mother in law decides that the other woman may be carrying the grandson she so dearly desires.

As a woman, Suraiya she failed there in all aspects, not only has she been unfair to Nafeesa but also shows that she has a favourite amongst the two women. Even when the doctor revealed of Nafeesa not having any more children I thought maybe suraiya would feel bad and console Nafeesa but who am I kidding even when she went to enquire of treatment, she only did because she so badly wanted Fahad and Nafeesa to try for a boy. Now I just want Nafeesa to change and create a great bond with Aliya; it will be worth watching!

Edited by .lostatsea. - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

Even when these two used to be plotting, Nafeesa usually stood quiet and nodded for everything. Nafeesa deserves to do worse to Suraiya I honestly can't blame her she's reached her tolerance threshold and it was only a matter of time before she snapped as Suraiya wasnt evil enough,First she ruined her elder's sons life by becoming greedy for a grand son and now she is after her other sons life. She needs to lay off a bit, crazy mother. ,

what could have Usman done something to stop it he wasnt even aware of it.

No wonder Suraiya is always bit more warmer towards Shazia than she is to Nafeesa. Fahad is also fault no this for he never spoke up but readily agreed with his mother, wimp.

Not just ask his wife for agreement he is also required to keep them both happy and balanced, and that isnt possible hence the man should not remarry while married for if he cant keep all his wives happy.

What could have Usman done at that point he was just as shocked as Nafeesa was. He knew his wife wasnt the best but yet did he ever think that she could be the reason of ruining her owns sons life.

Although it would be great to see Nafeesa creating a bond with Aliyah, i think she might be just using her as a pawn but than again you never whats going to happen

Edited by _Littles12_ - 11 years ago

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shona1993

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Posted: 11 years ago

Great post! I agree with you.

I am actually highly dissapointed with Fahad. I used to think how can this innocent man be in this situation but now it is clear that it is not only Shazia or Surayas faults but the major fault is in Fahad. Yes one can be seduced but he should have had more character to not become seduced. How could he do that to his wife and children? I felt nafeesas pain so badly.. She is not wrong in her place..

And I now wish that Usman brings another wife. No, why not three more wife's as four are aloud in Islam and it is ok with Suraya as he will love those wife's too. She said that Fahad loves Shazia so the marriage is justified so why can't Usman bring three more wife's? Ok, I know it would be out of character for Usman but Suraya would so deserve it and is in need to learn many lessons..

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Posted: 11 years ago

I agree with everything you said!

Suri is totally wrong for what she did to Nafeesa!

I feel for Nafeesa and I don't blame her at all for her thirst for revenge.

I'm actually cheering for her, I just hope that she doesn't cause more damage for herself along the way. At this point, you can see that she's not scared because she already lost everything but I'm hoping that we get to see her good side coming out...which by the looks of it is not anytime soon.

Fahad ..it's better if I don't even go there! This man is just...🤬😡

Usman!! Ah I feel for this man for having a psychopathic wife! After everything that Suri has done, I don't know how he still has the patience to live with her and explain to her nicely over and over again! but I'm damn sure that what Suri is plotting right now against Aaliya is the last straw!

One son's life is already ruined, Usman won't stand it at all if Zain's life is ruined! And Aliya's! He'll kill Suri for that I'm sure! She's gonna get it read bad!

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Posted: 11 years ago

Res...Great post but just to clear any misconceptions...if a husband wants a second wife he doesn't need to ask his first wife's permission...But Fahad having an affair whilst married though was totally and utterly wrong not only in the eyes of his wife but in the eyes of Allah too (and of course any other normal human being with even half a brain)

But once he does marry again he needs to treat both his wives equally...that means his time, his money and whatever else if given to one should be given equally to the other...I don't see that happening here...

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Preeti

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: _Littles12_
Even when these two used to be plotting, Nafeesa usually stood quiet and nodded for everything. Nafeesa deserves to do worse to Suraiya I honestly can't blame her she's reached her tolerance threshold and it was only a matter of time before she snapped as Suraiya wasnt evil enough,First she ruined her elder's sons life by becoming greedy for a grand son and now she is after her other sons life. She needs to lay off a bit, crazy mother. ,

what could have Usman done something to stop it he wasnt even aware of it.

No wonder Suraiya is always bit more warmer towards Shazia than she is to Nafeesa. Fahad is also fault no this for he never spoke up but readily agreed with his mother, wimp.

Not just ask his wife for agreement he is also required to keep them both happy and balanced, and that isnt possible hence the man should not remarry while married for if he cant keep all his wives happy.

What could have Usman done at that point he was just as shocked as Nafeesa was. He knew his wife wasnt the best but yet did he ever think that she could be the reason of ruining her owns sons life.

Although it would be great to see Nafeesa creating a bond with Aliyah, i think she might be just using her as a pawn but than again you never whats going to happen

Totally agree. Nafeesa said it herself a couple of times as to how she always agreed to everything suraiya said because maybe, just maybe she would warm up to her a little more.

Shazia doesn't care either, she just likes how she has a son which is what suraiya wanted and her entry to the house. She also has more respect from suraiya due to this and it has been shown many many times. I've never seen Suraiya telling Shazia off for anything she has done. And lest we forget, Shazia is always taunting Nafeesa of how she came into the house and how she took Fahad away from her and how he only loves her. That's just digging her wounds deeper than they already are!

In general I feel as if suraiya has been asked bad mother. She never taught her sons the right things and I'm sure if Usman wasn't their father then they would have been lead astray. And not to forget how she said to Fahad when he was stuck in the case with the Don that he should have come to her and she would have sorted the problem out for him. She's the one who pushed him to get married a second time but he is also the one who had an affair in the first place!!

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Preeti

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: shona1993
Great post! I agree with you.

I am actually highly dissapointed with Fahad. I used to think how can this innocent man be in this situation but now it is clear that it is not only Shazia or Surayas faults but the major fault is in Fahad. Yes one can be seduced but he should have had more character to not become seduced. How could he do that to his wife and children? I felt nafeesas pain so badly.. She is not wrong in her place..

And I now wish that Usman brings another wife. No, why not three more wife's as four are aloud in Islam and it is ok with Suraya as he will love those wife's too. She said that Fahad loves Shazia so the marriage is justified so why can't Usman bring three more wife's? Ok, I know it would be out of character for Usman but Suraya would so deserve it and is in need to learn many lessons..

Absolutely, I thought he had been manipulated by Shazia but u can seen he is as fault as anyone else is. As a married man he is not even to look at another woman and this is what he has done.

I haven't seen him apologising to Nafeesa for whatever happened. When he asked his mother about her she said that nothing can be done now and that it shouldn't bother her due to the life she is living.

And the topic of Usman marrying again, even if it's Suraiya's dream, I would live to see her reaction. It will be a scene worth watching!

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Preeti

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Saheba-
I agree with everything you said!
Suri is totally wrong for what she did to Nafeesa!
I feel for Nafeesa and I don't blame her at all for her thirst for revenge.
I'm actually cheering for her, I just hope that she doesn't cause more damage for herself along the way. At this point, you can see that she's not scared because she already lost everything but I'm hoping that we get to see her good side coming out...which by the looks of it is not anytime soon.

Fahad ..it's better if I don't even go there! This man is just...🤬😡

Usman!! Ah I feel for this man for having a psychopathic wife! After everything that Suri has done, I don't know how he still has the patience to live with her and explain to her nicely over and over again! but I'm damn sure that what Suri is plotting right now against Aaliya is the last straw!

One son's life is already ruined, Usman won't stand it at all if Zain's life is ruined! And Aliya's! He'll kill Suri for that I'm sure! She's gonna get it read bad!

Suraiya has always been insensitive, she has never cared about anyone else's feeling, not even her own children. On the one hand, she is trying to separate her son Zain from the love of his life and on the other hand, she is trying to get her other son Fahad married off multiple times! She claims to love her children but the question is does she really?

Nafeesa has endured enough and tbh I don't blame her. She has been patient all these years and she has got nothing in return, her husband got married a second time, he had an affair and her mother in law does not care about her feelings; she's finally come to a point when she's had enough and I'm sure if it anyone else, they would have burst ages ago. She has nothing to lose now and she knows it. Enough is enough and I can't wait for her to kick Suraiya's ass!

As for Usman mamoo I can't wait for him to recover. He needs to show his wife her place. She's done enough plotting now!!

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Preeti

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -sumaiya-
Res...Great post but just to clear any misconceptions...if a husband wants a second wife he doesn't need to ask his first wife's permission...But Fahad having an affair whilst married though was totally and utterly wrong not only in the eyes of his wife but in the eyes of Allah too (and of course any other normal human being with even half a brain)

But once he does marry again he needs to treat both his wives equally...that means his time, his money and whatever else if given to one should be given equally to the other...I don't see that happening here...

Oh ... I'm sorry if I offended anyone with that. I asked a friend over WhatsApp and she probably thought I was an idiot asking her it out of the blue as I don't even study religion and it's not something you would discuss everyday with someone lol.

As for Fahad and his two wives, he has never been fair to Nafeesa out of the two. If If he truly loved Nafeesa he wouldn't have gone off with Shazia and have any kind of relationship with her. As for Shazia is very manipulative and van get her work done. Nafeesa isn't as cunning Shazia this means that we can see her in a positive avatar soon. Fingers crossed.

Edited by .lostatsea. - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Agreed. Suraiyya was unfair with Nafeesa.

She thinks she is the boss of the house. She doesn't even care for her husband's opinion, so no chance that Nafeesa or Fahad's opinion counts at all. Its her word against anyone else's. This woman sure think she lives in seventh heaven. Time to stand on ground.

Usmaan...this episode shows, not everything is that rosy between Suraiyya and Usmaan. It means there were episodes before too where Usmaan might have not forgiven Suraiyya for her wrongs, like last time he was not talking just before getting into the lift accident.

Fahad - Profligate personality. Full of cowardice and ungentlemanly manner towards women and a general unprincipled existence. What would he know about what is a principle!!!!. Now I believe completely the way the story was shown, how Fahad was a nincompoop until Aliya gave Quran to follow in order to keep his life in order, until Zain stepped into office and was catching discrepancies in his cash withdrawals. Now he has a policeman in the form of his brother at office and policewoman in the form of Aliya, who keeps a watch on him always. Much needed if you ask me!!!

Nafeesa - Weak personality. What's wrong with her? Why would she be afraid of Suraiyya? So much that she does voice her concerns, nor is able to show her husband how he cheated her. She is not even honest to her own hurt self. One who is not honest to his own heart and cannot take care of his or her pain, and tries to go on as if nothing happened, will end up being loser and sinner. And that is Nafeesa. By keeping quiet all these years, she is filled up with toxicity in her heart and mind. She is no more healthy. It really hurts us to see her situation. But it also angers me that she kept quiet at injustice caused to her and she continued to participate in all sinful activities of Suraiyya. And that is the reason, why even a person like Fahad, is able to treat Nafeesa in the same basket as Shazia. Like these days, we see Fahad scolding her much as well. It shows, Nafeesa has zero face value in Fahad's eyes. I cannot be sympathetic to Nafeesa because of her situation. I feel rather upset at her, how can she have turned herself into this kind of person. Why is she so short on self-esteem that she needs someone else to approve her existence. Even now she is not protesting, but trying to use someone else to gain her end...like earlier she used her brother, and later had wished her husband get into more and more debt so that Shazia and her father are exposed. While her schemes are really excellent and her targets deserve that, what Nafeesa misses is that, she never gains anything for herself...except releasing pain through vicious acts. Time to get healthy Baby!!! You need a good life away from Fahad and Suraiyya. Your daughters are too good. Be a good mother and find a different husband maybe. You deserve something better.

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