Thoughts on AD-Bani relationship Part-II - Page 11

Wow...I was gone for a couple hours and I see we have a war zone here...

Meena, Megs - Lets accept as we are told. AD is a villian.

Abha, Raji - I hope u would agree that I have argued both for and against AD as the situation remanded.

I think the only thing bothering me in the last 5 or say pages is, why accepting that AD is a villians makes his supporters feel guilty? Especially, when in the last 10 pages they are ones crying hoarse that he is a villian and hence no good can come from him?????

Another quick question, if someone is black (villian) or grey, and he can be appreciated for his positives, then why do you need to feel guilty when someone else points out his negatives????

Is grey an amalgam of white and black, good and bad. So its okay to point the white, why not the black?

I am not saying that this applies only to AD, but applies to every character in KS since everyone is various shades of grey in this serial.

And each person was bashed for this black part of their character. MJ, you can attest that Bani is bashed (I hope you will agree). Meg you can attest that Jai is bashed. I can called Rakhi (mastep1) Pia's fan to attest she is bashed. Hec* we did not ever spare Tony or Masi.

Then why are we asked to stop pointing black in AD? Why this special treatment metted out to him?

I am lost, and unfortunately this double standards is making surviving in this forum a suffocating place for me...

just my POV....you can argue all you want, I rest my case here.

Thanks,

Rivs

Originally posted by: m3ghna

Well he did tell Bani that Jai and Pia are living as husbad and wife with all the benfits, while he knows that is not true and he has first hand seen how JW detests Pia after the hostage situation yes he did

He also stopped JW from telling Bani the truth by saying that Bani will be devastatedd by the truth thus maintining the leverage over her. AD indeed made the suggestion, and I am not defening him , but finally JW who made the decision. I agree he did it out of love, but again as I said before if he fought for his love or first made sure that AD does indeed love Bani and Bani is not getting manipulated before giving up, I would have loved that. I think he gave up too easily.

He is marrying her while knowing his MIL emotionally blackmailed Bani

In a way, he is getting in forcebully too, because he did not want to marry her against her will. May be both r helpless in front of the wish of a dying person.

So I am not very inclined to be sympathetic

No, Meghna, I don't expect you to and I respect your wishes. Actually, I am not expecting sympathy and I don't think AD needs any 😃 just trying to put forward the diffrent shades of the character (both good and bad) but as you guys have seen the bad already just trying to write about the good.😉😆

Originally posted by: nsb416

I apologize to J'aime and to Meghna. I believe I cam eacross as being accusatory and I didn't mean to. Whatever I write is just my opinion and I hope that no one gets hurt by it.

j'aime and Meghna please reply so I can go to sleep with a clear conscience today 😊

No worries. I just did not realize why I was being attacked for expressing my opinion about a character. I respect everyone's POV's and don't want to impose mine on them or change them. Hope we are all set.

Don't worry about it and I hope you have a good nights sleep.

Originally posted by: nsb416

I apologize to J'aime and to Meghna. I believe I cam eacross as being accusatory and I didn't mean to. Whatever I write is just my opinion and I hope that no one gets hurt by it.

j'aime and Meghna please reply so I can go to sleep with a clear conscience today 😊

Originally posted by: Je_aime

Anju/ Abha / Raji,

I am not hurt or anything. But I dont think i can take unfair accusations against me. I was not trying to put anyone in any guilt trip here. Also, i dont know on what basis did the one other member said I support Jai cos he looks hot. I myself did not know that I like Jai. 😉 Btw, yes some of you guys made serious discussion but i dont know for the past two days, the argument is always going round and round about how AD is a villian. Like i said, i thought he was a grey character. I dont think being a villian allows him to do whatever he is doing. And dont we all talk about Pia even if know she is villain. That is my point. And i hope some of you know, i have always bashed Jai for his mistakes as well, it's not as if i am giving special attention to AD and his mistakes.

Raji,

Megs told exactly what i want to tell. He has already started doing the damage by letting her not go near the truth and that is what i call slow poisoning.

Meena dear,

u know I would never accuse u unfairly or fairly. I won't accuse u, period. 🤗

And I know u r def. not a JW supporter.😆

and for Megs, I already replied.

cheers,

Raji