Raman....why the Discrimination Dude??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Thanks.

Actually, I found you sometimes criticizing Ramz, sometimes defending. You are in a balancing mode😃.

Oh yes! Double standard all the way... I'm totally flabbergasted by this side of RKB when it comes to Adi. What's worse is, he takes out his guilty feelings in anger form at Ruhi and Ishita. How does that work. You get angry at your loved ones??? Yes to a certain extend but not to an extend of hurting them... when Ruhi learns about her dad's impartiality, how would the young mind feel??? Gosh! it's so hurting from a child's perspective

I think this discrimination of Raman is actually a social message as to how male child is given preference over female child in our society.

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

The main point is Raman will always want what he doesn't have, but won't value much which he already has. Did I make sense?
BTW, this Ishita throwing was after the DNA drama. And, after this DNA thing revealed, he loved Ruhi so much and even his hatred for her went.

i noe... i remember the scene...well i dont mean to say that raman is completely right nw bt he isnt completely wrng here... why dont we all think as ourselves in raman's place.. he has a fear of loosing his wife as well as his son... for the first time adi called raman "dad"...(so u can imagine a father's happiness) n asked a favor frm him... how can a fathr let it go... he will try any means out (evn if its wrng) to give his son watevr he(adi) needs... he knows dat adi doesnt have any future wid shagun bt he also knows that adi has got "addicted" to shagun... n he cant see his son inpain... i noe raman is jus acting selfish here but life isnt always a sugar coated jelly u need to accept the bitter truth n sometimes act a bit selfish... dats wat raman is doing!!!

well its always a human tendency to run behind things he doesnt have ignoring the things he has... one needs to realise that wat u must stress on more n this realisation hasnt cime fr raman yet!!!... it will take sum time but raman will surely realise that he must concentrate on the things he has (ruhi, ishu) rathr than the things he doesnt!!!😊

tanni these are rules he made for Ishita only and this rule do not imply for him so he feels to be free... Otherwise he would at least given an explanation to Ishita while he was carrying Shagun or may be she was too heavy he preferred to rush to his car...

Well... I don't know if my point is enough to justify his actions but still... i will go ahead with it... In the past, Raman was totally heartless who lost his belief in relationships and women...in particular. Still, he didn't except the same from Ishita. The old betrayed RKB came into action and did what he couldn't do with Shagun...blasted her and was about to throw her out...

Raman is most of the time selfish, still he is. Let's see what Ishita's effect makes him. If still he can't get over his selfishness and Adi obsession, then I would say, he never was a conventional good man