Ayesha.. goes it alone?!!

Originally posted by: varshitap

Hi Friends,

Today I have left my favorite topic Nikhil- Laajo to rest😉 I decided to talk about the less talked about Ayesha. From the past few episodes we saw Ayesha going through an emotional turmoil as her friend ( If I can call him so ...) Adiraj has landed in prison accused for some high profile murder( Well friends .. a murder is a murder and a very heinous crime...and I know we should not discriminate ) I am just following the line.. as in the show!! This has opened up her character which was otherwise masked in glamour and her self pity!!

Hello again Varshi Varsha😃 Good post hun!

I'm liking Ayesha more and more. She has matured in a sensible person and we can see that she's truly in love with Adi. As for Adi, God knows why he was arrested😕

Ayesha as I saw her is an introvert person , very secretive about herself. She was to some extent extravagant before the Sid episode. She lived for her looks and her status just like her mom Barkha.

She never had a strong bond with her Brother Nikhil or for that matter her mother Barkha whom she prided to emulate!! but there was some sort of comfort she shared with her Dad Inder and also Gunja

She has always tried to crazy Barkha and Nani. That's why she was so rude to Laajo in the beginning. After meeting Adi, she has realised that there's more to life than parties and dsigner sarees.

After the Sid episode we saw her open up as a person who valued love, relationships and was very serious about trust!! She became a pessimistic person who was always having conflicts within her self till she met Adiraj. I think her family had let her down very badly as there was no one whom she could share her conficts with. Here also I must say that Barkha was a bad mom to her who was insulated from what her daughter was going through.

Barkha loves her, more than Nik's... But she's still a selfish mom and a careless one with that.

Adiraj was a breath of fresh air for her. He understood her conflicts without knowing their source!! He carefully made her aware that one should have faith in oneself and not bother about what others think of us. Adiraj could instantly strike a cord with her because he was a rebel , non- conventional and honest ( can call trustworthy) His friendship strengthened her trust in humanity.

Agree with u. Adi us very good for her.. Otherwise she would have remained as shallow as her mom.

Coming to the point everybody thought that she will surely confer her problem with Gunja or maybe Nikhil to get herself and Adiraj out of the crisis but she did not do that!! She just did it alone.

So this has opened up how Ayesha sees her family and how much she feels for Adi who is the only friend she has. It seems she is not comfortable to share it with her family but brave enough to help Adi though it may mean media scrutiny and some unwarranted attention to her and her family.

She has proved that she does not need them anymore...in fact she's acting just like Nik's. But i didn't like her selling Barkha's saree and jewellerys to bail Adi out of jail. She's going to have big problems coze of that and Adi wouldn't appreciate what she has done. Honestly, that wasn't good moved on her part..

So I find Ayesha who was used to playing it safe and hide her intentions ready to face the world courageously , standing up for what she believes in. Do we see the introvert , scared Ayesha turning into a Rebel of course with a cause!! If so how will this all affect her family? or for that matter her relationship with Adi ? ( we all know that Adi has disowned her love .. for the time being)

I think Adi doesn't want hervto get involved in that murder case, that's why he's trying to push her away. But she wouldn't budge! There's going to be some fireworks when Barkha finds out. Even Indar will be warry of it. She might find solace in Nik's...

What do you people feel? Is it time for Barkha to get shocked?!! 😲 ( I will love it .. at least Barkha will leave Laajo and Nikhil alone for sometime!! 😆)

I will like to see Barkha wearing a straitjacket in sound proof chamber😈

So friends waiting for your comments...

Originally posted by: paljay

Hi, nice analysis of Ayesha.

He he Barkha is going to get big time shock when she will hear from media about her daughter. On the top of that Ayesha took Barkha's jewelry and sarees too.

I am glad that Ayesha has become strong after meeting Adi, but I fell she should shred this with at least someone,say Inder as he would have helped her with all this problems, with money too. Inder is a good person only he keeps quiet when it comes to Barkha( which is wrong)

So we all should be ready for big drama by Barkha once everything is out in open and good luck to Ayesha.

Originally posted by: varshitap

Hi Friends,

Today I have left my favorite topic Nikhil- Laajo to rest😉 I decided to talk about the less talked about Ayesha. From the past few episodes we saw Ayesha going through an emotional turmoil as her friend ( If I can call him so ...) Adiraj has landed in prison accused for some high profile murder( Well friends .. a murder is a murder and a very heinous crime...and I know we should not discriminate ) I am just following the line.. as in the show!! This has opened up her character which was otherwise masked in glamour and her self pity!! totally agreed that this whole situation confronted her inner human being.Before she was living in a disconnect.she never really allowed herself to think too deep.even with laajo she felt bad for her but still it was like out of sight out of mind for her.But now the person involved is some one she has emotional connectivity with.So she is being forced to confront her inner humanity

Ayesha as I saw her is an introvert person , very secretive about herself. She was to some extent extravagant before the Sid episode. She lived for her looks and her status just like her mom Barkha.she was introvert and lived in a bubble,yet she said some very sensible things at times...when in her anger she told nik that if he couldn't even share his room with his wife,how could he expect them to share their life with her was very wise thing to say,it is different matter that way she said it and her selfishness was big issue then.

She never had a strong bond with her Brother Nikhil or for that matter her mother Barkha whom she prided to emulate!! but there was some sort of comfort she shared with her Dad Inder and also Gunja.yes no bonding with nik,she never felt need to protect her brother even ,it was all about me even with gunja.

After the Sid episode we saw her open up as a person who valued love, relationships and was very serious about trust!! She became a pessimistic person who was always having conflicts within her self till she met Adiraj. I think her family had let her down very badly as there was no one whom she could share her conficts with. Here also I must say that Barkha was a bad mom to her who was insulated from what her daughter was going through.I too feel barkha never really helped her daughter much,but at least she was there,not like with nik where she even ignored his tears as kids..so hence i feel she started to feel she was too imp from childhood,hence this bubble existence.

Adiraj was a breath of fresh air for her. He understood her conflicts without knowing their source!! He carefully made her aware that one should have faith in oneself and not bother about what others think of us. Adiraj could instantly strike a cord with her because he was a rebel , non- conventional and honest ( can call trustworthy) His friendship strengthened her trust in humanity.

Coming to the point everybody thought that she will surely confer her problem with Gunja or maybe Nikhil to get herself and Adiraj out of the crisis but she did not do that!! She just did it alone.

So this has opened up how Ayesha sees her family and how much she feels for Adi who is the only friend she has. It seems she is not comfortable to share it with her family but brave enough to help Adi though it may mean media scrutiny and some unwarranted attention to her and her family.

So I find Ayesha who was used to playing it safe and hide her intentions ready to face the world courageously , standing up for what she believes in. Do we see the introvert , scared Ayesha turning into a Rebel of course with a cause!! If so how will this all affect her family? or for that matter her relationship with Adi ? ( we all know that Adi has disowned her love .. for the time being)

What do you people feel? Is it time for Barkha to get shocked?!! 😲 ( I will love it .. at least Barkha will leave Laajo and Nikhil alone for sometime!! 😆)

So friends waiting for your comments...

Originally posted by: Hema48

Really interesting post! I'm myself a fan of Adisha as I call the lovebirds to be! Enjoyed the analysis of Ayesha's character and we have been seeing increasingly more of her which I enjoy as I have thoroughly enjoyed watching her growth as an individual!

Hi ! Hema ,

Well , I know you are a great fan of Adisha and yes they are the lovebirds to look out for!!

Thanks for liking the post. It means a lot coming from a fan of Adisha.😊 Ayesha's growth from a snobby high society chic to a caring person is the inspiration for this post.

Now my question is : Is Ayesha an introvert or simply a private person who likes to keep her personal life strictly private? I mean would an introvert person argue and put up a fight with those street guys when she just met Adi for the first time? I don't think so but that's my opinion.

My assessment of her is that she was living in Barkha's kind of world before the Sid incident but that incident made a huge impact on her and affected her deeply! It's really sad that at that turning point of her life her mum wasn't even able to understand her pain I feel her dad did but he's very quiet kind of person and doesn't tend to say much.

I may be wrong to call her introvert, but I feel that she doesn't share things freely , she is to herself

and she gets aggressive when something doesn't go her way instead of taking time to understand the issue..( initially..) so I felt she is introvert!! And she grew up like this thanks to Barkha😡 Ayesha saw the world through Barkha's perspective before the Sid episode. Barkha has been a bad mom to both her kids... and even to Akash as she could have saved him ,if she was careful enough to be with her kids.. when they needed her the most. Her dad though a sensitive person.. is most of the time indecisive and waits for Barkha to give the go ahead!!🤢 So he has lost his relevance!!😆

So meeting Adi has certainly been a mind opener and she's realised what real life looks like! May be the fact that they come from such extremes in terms of money, life styles etc attracted her to him and she started trusting him slowly for she had developed a trust issue with men! They would have conflicts on different topics from time to time but she would still go back to him! To be honest I found this a bit surprising. I thought what about her ego but the last time they fought (money...) the matter was quite serious and she refused to back down however the circumstances (rain...) caused her to go back to Adi.

The best thing that happened to Ayesha was Adi!! I agree that their financial inequality and the contrast in their way of life might have brought them close to each other. Most of the times it is the conflicts with people which help us understand people better and also ourselves. So for Ayesha all those conflicts with Adi and within herself helped her to look at life in the true sense. Ayesha kept going back to Adi as she had no one to vent her anger on!! I mean her family had no time for her!!

She found Adi's rawness and unconventional way of looking at things more appealing. Ayesha had found answers to some of her questions when she had a fight with Adi as her ego made her take it to him every time!! The last one about money... made Ayesha think.. what Adi really means to her...she refused to go back but all the while she was thinking of him!! the rain made her know that Adi is the only trustworthy person she could approach so she gave her ego a slip!!

About the whole murder matter, I thought Ayesha would have confided in her dad as I believe apart from Gunja he's the one she loves best but this matter of her spending the night at Adi is a tricky one so in the end she decided to go her own way. However she's a bit naive for not thinking deeply about the whole court aspect and obviously when it ones to that point may be then we will get to see all the family members reactions and I'd like to know how her dad would react? Also an interesting fact is that so far none of Adisha have thought deeply about what their friendship really means?

Well I didn't mean to write so much but I like Adisha:)

Well , even I feel Ayesha is most of the time impulsive and nave , so she decided to help Adi come what may!! but this time she is more resolute and determined. I could guess that she will fight this battle alone going by her character and her equation with her family. She could not share this with her father as girls ( in India) find it difficult to share issues related to love or male friends freely with their father...and here a night stay is involved!! .. she may be feeling embarrassed or shy to share it!!...however her going to court as witness may open this in front of her father...I don't know why she is so wary now!!😕 Yes it will be interesting to see how all this will culminate with Adisha realizing what actually they mean to each other.

Originally posted by: Carina

My comments in bold.

Bye Hun. T.C🤗

Thanks a lot for the reply... and liking the post..😊 See you ...Take care🤗

Originally posted by: sami01

good post varsha,some points i put in bold.I feel barkha will be shocked and mad,even inder would be too,no dad can tolerate this business of staying the night.I think she went alone as she doesnt trust anyone ,she lacks self confidence.She doens't think adi or any guy can like her for who she is .Sid made sure of it.I am actually looking forward to how she will take forward this whole mess...

Yeah , there will be lot of fireworks... hope the splinters don't fly out of T.V!!😆😆 better to have a fire extinguisher ready!!😆😆😆 with Barkha getting mad...everything is possible!! Coming to Inder...he may be angry..after all he is her dad ... but what will his anger do?... till now he was angry with Barkha ...which went to the extent of him warning her to get out of the house ( in reference to Nikhil issue) but nothing happened ..he still wants Nikhil to put efforts to reach out to Barkha... pathetic!!😡 Ayesha is confused , she loves Adi... but she is in denial...when Adi just pushed her away... disowning her love...she did not get angry like always but made an effort to do something about it. That's the new change in her which will help her in future... This crisis will bring Nikhil and Ayesha closer... that's what I feel. Lets see.. what happens...

Thanks for the reply.