Originally posted by: rutumodi915
Insiders usually abuse when they know they are at no danger from the victim. They usually choose a child. At that given point of time, the child hardly knows what's going on and doesn;t say anything and even if he/she does, they are just put aisde thinking it might just one new immature thing they are saying.
By the time they find out the magnitude of the situation, it is too late to do anything. They are too embarassed to speak up, specially when the assaulter is an insider. In spite of being aware of the fact that addressing the issue is of utmost importance, they just cannot.
This is a very serious matter and it is very hard to pick a side. Morally, the assaulter should be punished, such terrible people shouldn't even be allowed to live with humans. But then, no one knows about the incidence till then and then one fine day, you can't just let it all out. Not everyone is that that strong.
And, no matter how much you guard your children, you can never be too sure. There are cases when uncles, close family friends, neighbors assault little ones. After all, how many people are you not going to trust? Of course, it is always good to take precuations though.
So, according to me, it is very serious issue and very hard to pick a side here. I hope, though, that God gives strength to those who have to face these harsh realities of life.
very well put..rutumodi915
going to elders with this sort of problem wouldnt have been hard if ...m sorry to say that the elders behave in the RIGHT WAY... instead they go all blaming the poor victims...if the victim could only just trust that her family will help her out.. no wonder suicide also happens after such a deed cause of those some elders mentality that the crimninal is less blamed then the victim themselves
sometimes i feel sorry whille watchin old movies. where the mother and father throw the girl outa the house after such things...soem anil kappor n ashwariya movie..(Thats the only movie i liked Ash)
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