It is always right vs wrong

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes keeping humanity above everything it has always been about right vs wrong.
Rudra's current turmoil, his suffering, the conflict and the angst everything has been created only because he somewhat has the ability to judge between right and wrong, truth and false.
He also is very aware of the consequences certain actions can have and yes they could be severe too.
Rudra never wanted or asked Paro to blindly support him without putting her own judgement, he never asked her to trash Mala for his satisfaction, he doesn't have a problem when Paro is tending Mala or her wounds, his only problem is that Paro asks him to judge Mala again, she asks him to put aside his 15 years and consider Mala's 15 years, and why, not because Mala has remorse but because Paro thinks that Mala deserves a salute and acceptance without her being remorseful, only because she is her foster mother.
Dilsher, I can't fathom with him and nor with Paro, because their plan of bringing Mala back could only lead to disastrous effects which Rudra very well knew. Didn't he say that this lady is not trust worthy and can again leave a regressive letter and run away ? See this very thing will happen now, Mala will leave again. And no please Paro don't throw excuses that she did it for Rudra's good and his happiness. If Mala would repent and have remorse and care for Rudra she would bravely face his wrath and agony, she would tolerate his disgust for her and try to heal him, love him so much that he would feel that yes even his mother yearned for him. But no, all she will do is be selfish, be coward and run away, because she could not bear Mohini's taunts, or maybe she will have 1000 more superficial reasons.
Moreover, how could dilsher and Paro sit and watch mohini defending sumer ?. There is a difference between bringing in your son's mother and your son's supposed murderer. I can't understand that how come these two have become so blind for Mala ? What the gurantee that tomorrow Sumer will not try and kill Rudra again? Is it that much a light and negligible matter for Paro, leave paro Dilsher ? Isn't Rudra your only son ?
Rudra always somewhat knew and kept telling that bearing a lifetime bully and taunts can be the worst and its wrong when you allow people to play on you with their words, and see the exactly same thing happened yesterday. He walked away from the house, because he knows he cannot defend Mala and stop her being insulted by Mohini, but it hurts him too, he definitely knew that bringing Mala back in the haveli would be the final nail in the coffin.
Lastly, when you are given a choice to choose between right vs wrong, you choose the right one ofcourse, but Dilsher and Mala couldn't and neither could Paro.
Smilarly when you are given a choice to choose between your loved ones and your own satisfaction, then also you choose your loved ones which Rudra did. Paro and Dilsher brought Mala back, Rudra could easily walk out of the haveli taking paro with him, but it would make Dilsher lose his son and paro lose her god mother thus Rudra chose to swallow mohini's poison and live this painful life and not the other way round. And thats what people do,instead of claiming and preaching, I'm glad that Rudra's words could be harsh or rude but he becomes the victim only to satisfy his loved ones.
Neither Paro and nor Dilsher could instantly or blindly choose to stand with Rudra and support his piece of the story, because that hinders their own belief system, their own judgement, that makes them feel that their point is not being considered and ofcourse they want to prove their point and act according to it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post. ..love your each and every word. .totally agree with you👏
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hey megha
nice post
agree with some parts , disagree with some , will get back
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Originally posted by: sukhminderkaur7

Great post. ..love your each and every word. .totally agree with you👏


lol.. thank you.
nothing to clap , because i have written whatever they have shown so far in the show.😛
And i am liking the current track. Its always great to see Rudra struggling with his feelings, divided between right and wrong, and choose between his side or Paro's side.
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Originally posted by: DexterRocks


lol.. thank you.
nothing to clap , because i have written whatever they have shown so far in the show.😛
And i am liking the current track. Its always great to see Rudra struggling with his feelings, divided between right and wrong, and choose between his side or Paro's side.

Actually I had no expectations from paro but I am really shocked to see dilsher's behaviour and now I just start hating him...he is too becoming dumb day by day.
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Originally posted by: ttt1

hey megha
nice post
agree with some parts , disagree with some , will get back
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hey priya. glad u liked the post.
and yeah always free to disagree. 😳
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Originally posted by: sukhminderkaur7

Actually I had no expectations from paro but I am really shocked to see dilsher's behaviour and now I just start hating him...he is too becoming dumb day by day.


no he is not dumb, and neither paro is, but they don't tend to think anything beyond their level of thinking and belief system and in a way i think i am happy that CVs showed it in this way, this just proves the irony that Dilsher has not been a very good father to Rudra, and about Paro, well what do u expect ? If she could side with Laila and not give two hoots to Rudra's opinion, why would she do the opposite now, esp when Mala is her foster mother ? Paro is buried under Mala's depths, atleast thats how it comes off from her actions..😆
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no he is not dumb, and neither paro is, but they don't tend to think anything beyond their level of thinking and belief system and in a way i think i am happy that CVs showed it in this way, this just proves the irony that Dilsher has not been a very good father to Rudra, and about Paro, well what do u expect ? If she could side with Laila and not give two hoots to Rudra's opinion, why would she do the opposite now, esp when Mala is her foster mother ? Paro is buried under Mala's depths, atleast thats how it comes off from her actions..😆

exactly. .mala was her foster mother this is enough for paro. .she really love to live in her own self believe and never want to look beyond that. .



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RURDA:it goes without an argument that rudra will be angry at mala , his disturbed childhood was due to that one incident , its easy for paro or mythili or danveer to actually want a patch up ,and things to be beautiful again , but not for rudra and dilsher

dilsher i think somewhere he has matured with age , i think he did a few things wrong , something that he repents , reason he was able to forgive mala , but rudra has done nothing wrong to her

it is not just that mala left him that he is not able to forgive , but the feeling of being treated like he didnot deserve her love , dilsher did nothing great either , he was never made to feel special or cared except for paro , the reason he melted so quickly , her over and over proposing him , saying every little thing she likes about him , made him feel special in years
that is the reason for expectation , with mala back all those feeling are back , the ones he wanted to run away from , he confessed multiple his desire to just move on with paro
thats his reason for anger , the only thing he asked paro ,that he wants to move on from his past , she has her reasons but from rudra's POV , she isnt understanding him
PARO :more than standing by her foster mother , i think what she is trying to make rudra confront his issues , he is not ready yet thats true , but the fact is his mother is a reality , she doesnt have anywhere to go , paro going him in hating her is not goingto solve anything and over that dilsher asked her to bring mala home
somewhere we all justify people from our experience , if paro supports mala inspite of realizing mala was wrong , paro is wrong, paro i think feels there is more to the story , her takurain masa cant be that evil mother , she is trying to solve the riddle

rudra's anger on mala is justified
paro's faith in mala is justified as both are stemmed from their experiences with the same person
it can be argued that rudra and dilsher should be let to handle this situation alone , but again its more than clear that now that mala is in front of them (home or BSD ) this situation is going to not let them move on , then why not face it , rudra is not fully willing right now , paro is intending to help him face it
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Originally posted by: ttt1

RURDA:it goes without an argument that rudra will be angry at mala , his disturbed childhood was due to that one incident , its easy for paro or mythili or danveer to actually want a patch up ,and things to be beautiful again , but not for rudra and dilsher

dilsher i think somewhere he has matured with age , i think he did a few things wrong , something that he repents , reason he was able to forgive mala , but rudra has done nothing wrong to her

it is not just that mala left him that he is not able to forgive , but the feeling of being treated like he didnot deserve her love , dilsher did nothing great either , he was never made to feel special or cared except for paro , the reason he melted so quickly , her over and over proposing him , saying every little thing she likes about him , made him feel special in years
that is the reason for expectation , with mala back all those feeling are back , the ones he wanted to run away from , he confessed multiple his desire to just move on with paro
thats his reason for anger , the only thing he asked paro ,that he wants to move on from his past , she has her reasons but from rudra's POV , she isnt understanding him
PARO :more than standing by her foster mother , i think what she is trying to make rudra confront his issues , he is not ready yet thats true , but the fact is his mother is a reality , she doesnt have anywhere to go , paro going him in hating her is not goingto solve anything and over that dilsher asked her to bring mala home
somewhere we all justify people from our experience , if paro supports mala inspite of realizing mala was wrong , paro is wrong, paro i think feels there is more to the story , her takurain masa cant be that evil mother , she is trying to solve the riddle

rudra's anger on mala is justified
paro's faith in mala is justified as both are stemmed from their experiences with the same person
it can be argued that rudra and dilsher should be let to handle this situation alone , but again its more than clear that now that mala is in front of them (home or BSD ) this situation is going to not let them move on , then why not face it , rudra is not fully willing right now , paro is intending to help him face it

Ok... paro's faith in mala is justified but plz tell me upto which extent...paro treat mala just like a goddess. .sorry yaar I can't digest it..paro could have a
maintain a balance between the two. .but no she is worshipping mala just like a goddess and poor rudra bilkul akela reh gaya.
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