Kumud and Kabir, in the same boat

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trina_saras

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: kiranpreethee

Kumud does not know the word communication with her husband. For her Saras is there to serve her and her family. If she really has an issue why not discuss with her husband.
And when you leave home, lie to your husband and go alone to a red light district you cannot expect to be welcomed by saints. Her brush with criminals started when she failed to trust the people most closed to her.
What passionate reason do you need to accompany your husband than always wanting to be near the one you love so much (In throry here)
And the excuse of her job is a joke, no serious teacher leaves her class without asking for leave and disappears for days on end and expect people to take her seriously.

I think the word communication here goes two ways. If Kumud doesn't know it, then Saras also doesn't know it either. They each could have sat the other down and discussed it, why lay the blame only on her shoulders? Saras has served her and her family, true. But hasn't Kumud been there for Saras and his family? Wasn't Kumud there to help Danny with his marriage? Is she not the one who helped Saras with his dream of establishing a school in his mother's name?

Yes, I get that she would want to be near the one she loves. But my point was that she was willingly separated from several people she loves for someone she also cared for, since there was noone better to support him in finding his brother.

I don't think it's too unreasonable for her to need a more solid motivation to leave her entire family for six months than blindly follow him only to perform household chores. It's not that she doesn't love him. But can Saras even understand where she is coming from? True she shouldn't have gone to Chandni Bar by herself. But she did it regardless, and I think it's only human to need a bit of time to digest whatever has happened in that family. Even Danny and LN are adjusting to the events, then why can't Kumud in the comfort of her own home?

Anyway, this was not meant to be a topic about Kumud and Saras, but about Kumud and Kabir and how they are in a similar situation. So I am not wanting to comment further on her views regarding her husband since there are plenty of other topics on the forum for that.

Edited by trina_saras - 11 years ago

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sky_fighter

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

yes i agree but her logic that whenever she leaves the house and something bad happens to it is stupid
if something bad is destined to happen
so it will happen regardless of her being there or not
and she is going to an unknown city with her HUSBAND whom she loves the most so i dont think kumud and kabir are in she same boat here
kabir has other issues which are very huge in comparison with kumud
the issues of kumud are created by the writers just to drag this issue

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trina_saras

@trina_saras

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: blue_an
yes i agree but her logic that whenever she leaves the house and something bad happens to it is stupid
if something bad is destined to happen
so it will happen regardless of her being there or not
and she is going to an unknown city with her HUSBAND whom she loves the most so i dont think kumud and kabir are in she same boat here
kabir has other issues which are very huge in comparison with kumud
the issues of kumud are created by the writers just to drag this issue

It's true that she is going to an unknown city with her husband. But she just came back from an unknown country with him and without a single complaint there about how tired she was or whether she missed her family or anything. All she did was encourage and support him. If he is truly her husband, he could have sat her down and asked her what her problem was with going to Mumbai instead of trying to show how much he sucks at doing his own housework.

Kumud and Kabir have both faced unknown situations, having been held captive because of Guman. They both care about the family. They both almost lost their life only because of daring to get in this woman's way. They are both facing pressure from the entire family to do something they don't want to do. Yes Kabir has other issues but my point is that he is resistant to change just like Kumud is currently. I am not saying they are identical but the family is trying to make these two do what it wants, rather than hear them out. Thanks for sharing your views. =)

Edited by trina_saras - 11 years ago