Kumud and Kabir, in the same boat

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kumud and Kabir are very different in personality and style. They both care for the family, especially for Saras. But they have one thing in common right now.


They are both being pushed into something for which they are not ready yet.


For Kumud, it's a six-month trip to an unknown and large city away from family and friends.


For Kabir, it's a permanent relationship to an unknown girl and family away from his bachelor and private lifestyle.



Although the two have different personalities, they were both incredibly victimized by Guman and just recently brought her to justice. Whatever new changes they are being asked to make, and fairly soon, is not and should not be a test of their love.


Kabir went through a lot just to make sure the Desais kept their haveli. And his life became at risk the minute he did it.


Kumud also suffered Guman's wrath ever since she came back to town only to face being sold off and permanently separated from her family.



Noone is giving these people any space, instead they are telling them how to feel about the situation. Someone please tell me how this is fair. 😆😕

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kumud is not being asked to go with an alien, but her husband who she is supposed to be madly in love with.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well trina i agree to some extent tht they shld not be rushed or forced to do something.

But where i disagree is that Kumud, in her love for family is being a lil unfair to Saras, she's not even ready to discuss y she's reluctant to leave. Atleast she should talk to Saras abt it.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Me just want 23rd March 2013 wali kumud back who stood infront of whole village just to protect Saras 😳


Edited by Gul.S_Ef - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gul.S_Ef


well trina i agree to some extent tht they shld not be rushed or forced to do something.

But where i disagree is that Kumud, in her love for family is being a lil unfair to Saras, she's not even ready to discuss y she's reluctant to leave. Atleast she should talk to Saras abt it.




I agree...DISCUSS...that is what Kumud should do, Saras would definitely understand her fears and apprehensions.


In real world thats what we do, we discuss and solve most of our problems and thats why we don't have this much drama in our own life 😆. In Daily soap world they don't do such practical things and we the viewers get dished out with oodles of drama.
Edited by Simmer - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gul.S_Ef


Me just want 23rd March 2013 wali kumud back who stood infront of whole village just to protect Saras 😳




@bold ...AMEN, INSHA ALLAH, Tere Mouh mein ghee shakkar etc etc for your thought 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kiranpreethee

Kumud is not being asked to go with an alien, but her husband who she is supposed to be madly in love with.




I agree she isn't being asked to go with an alien, but she is being asked to go right after one of the biggest nightmares of her life and far away from her home and everything she knows and loves. Yes, she is madly in love with him, but if he is equally madly in love with her would he not have asked her why she didn't want to go or better yet, guessed she is still getting used to an existence without criminals threatening her life and those around her? Does she need to prove her love by forgetting about her teaching position, her family members, and her own need for time by rushing off again for six months? Is she supposed to say yes I will go with you just so you have someone to cook your meals and do your laundry and keep the bed warm at night? I think she wants a more passionate and heartfelt reason than the ones he's come up with so far. Not too unreasonable imho.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Simmer



I agree...DISCUSS...that is what Kumud should do, Saras would definitely understand her fears and apprehensions.


In real world thats what we do, we discuss and solve most of our problems and thats why we don't have this much drama in our own life 😆. In Daily soap world they don't do such practical things and we the viewers get dished out with oodles of drama.



I agree with both of you, they need to sit down and discuss this. I think they just needed an excuse to get the whole family involved as usual. The weird part is that the majority of the family has gotten in to their shoulders where Yash and Dugba have conveniently disappeared.


With six days of episodes they aren't going to do anything fast. But considering how super dramatic the kidnapping tracks were, I am happy at least these people are able to do some funny scenes and give people a break from the suspense.


We all know Kumud will follow Saras or he will come back for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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See, Kumud doesn't have to go with Saras
She can say no to accompanying him

But the problem is her lack of communication and the way she shuts him out

What I gather from her behavior again and again is how dare he do anything that I don't want him to

That really bothers me!

The main key of a happy relationship

That of the two talking things out in private and only if that fails

Airing them to the family - is missing in Saras and Kumud

She doesn't tell him anything, yet demands obedience from him

The whole Chandni bazaar mess wouldn't have happened if she had taken him into confidence

Even now she hasn't spoken to him, she is angry but won't say why!

I mean locking your husband out of the bedroom, is pretty bad thing to do!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: trina_saras




I agree she isn't being asked to go with an alien, but she is being asked to go right after one of the biggest nightmares of her life and far away from her home and everything she knows and loves. Yes, she is madly in love with him, but if he is equally madly in love with her would he not have asked her why she didn't want to go or better yet, guessed she is still getting used to an existence without criminals threatening her life and those around her? Does she need to prove her love by forgetting about her teaching position, her family members, and her own need for time by rushing off again for six months? Is she supposed to say yes I will go with you just so you have someone to cook your meals and do your laundry and keep the bed warm at night? I think she wants a more passionate and heartfelt reason than the ones he's come up with so far. Not too unreasonable imho.


Kumud does not know the word communication with her husband. For her Saras is there to serve her and her family. If she really has an issue why not discuss with her husband.
And when you leave home, lie to your husband and go alone to a red light district you cannot expect to be welcomed by saints. Her brush with criminals started when she failed to trust the people most closed to her.
What passionate reason do you need to accompany your husband than always wanting to be near the one you love so much (In throry here)
And the excuse of her job is a joke, no serious teacher leaves her class without asking for leave and disappears for days on end and expect people to take her seriously.


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