Ruq wants Jalal to do a reverse yoga pose to see her painting? - Page 13

Originally posted by: MaddyO

<font color="#0000ff">Anyways, about your statement on Jalal's
outburst on Jodha about Rahim's safety and Shehanaz's fault, do you
really think he should not shout, if Jodha tries to defend Shehanaz
claiming she is childlike? I can't say much on that at the moment unless
i hear what Jodha said to Shehanaz and what words of Jodha brought that
outburst from Jalal. But I can tell one thing right now is that Ruqu
will use this vulnerability of Jalal for her benefit and will announce
her pregnancy to enhance the crack in their relationship (provided Jodha
feels offended by his outburst and not understand his love for Rahim,
his only child now)</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Jaya - my reply about this is - it is not Jalal shout on Jodha but he doing it in public that is very sad to watch. I know he was concerned about Rahim.

But the thing is how is Jodha responsible for this? She wasn't even around, nor has Jodha seen Shehnaz behave badly with anybody. How is she to know? What about SB who is Rahim's mother, all the bandis just standing around there and the soldiers (of course CVs wanted to show long jump of Jalal - never mind if Sujamal was criticized for similar one!) were doing?

How is Jodha alone responsible? Maybe Jodha defends Shehnaz and Jalal gets angry - we will see what they show - again I am not upset at Jalal's anger - upset that Jalal does that publicly!

For Jalal whatever Ruk does he hides and never even shouts at her no matter how big her plotting or how she constantly insults Jodha everywhere. He just takes it and further pampers Ruk.

Jalal is very ready to shout at Jodha in public - wow guess just 2 days Jodha is back in Agra and Jalal is back to his ways! Not Jalal's anger his PUBLIC DISPLAY OF ANGER is what is sad to see.

Please it should not be said it is only Ruk and SB around - when it came to Rukayya JALAL TOOK HER BACK TO HER HOJARA AND HID HER PLOT from everybody AND GOT ANGRY WITH HER - NOT IN FRONT OF SB AND JODHA.

Seems like Jalal does not change for Jodha - or rather should say CVs just can't have enough insults of Jodha in public. Today they gave us MA shout on Jodha in public and tomorrow Jalal.

Guess fun times are back for Jodha in Agra. Jalal has forgotten everything already!

BTW I want to see if Jalal shouts on SB for not keeping an eye on her son!

I am sorry if this is not liked but I WILL NEVER NEVER NEVER AGREE THAT IT IS OK FOR JALAL TO INSULT JODHA IN PUBLIC! Jalal if he has not learnt to treat her with respect then I don't know what to say about him!



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Originally posted by: MaddyO

Anyways, about your statement on Jalal's outburst on Jodha about Rahim's safety and Shehanaz's fault, do you really think he should not shout, if Jodha tries to defend Shehanaz claiming she is childlike? I can't say much on that at the moment unless i hear what Jodha said to Shehanaz and what words of Jodha brought that outburst from Jalal. But I can tell one thing right now is that Ruqu will use this vulnerability of Jalal for her benefit and will announce her pregnancy to enhance the crack in their relationship (provided Jodha feels offended by his outburst and not understand his love for Rahim, his only child now)

Jaya - my reply about this is - it is not Jalal shout on Jodha but he doing it in public that is very sad to watch. I know he was concerned about Rahim.

But the thing is how is Jodha responsible for this? She wasn't even around, nor has Jodha seen Shehnaz behave badly with anybody. How is she to know? What about SB who is Rahim's mother, all the bandis just standing around there and the soldiers (of course CVs wanted to show long jump of Jalal - never mind if Sujamal was criticized for similar one!) were doing?

How is Jodha alone responsible? Maybe Jodha defends Shehnaz and Jalal gets angry - we will see what they show - again I am not upset at Jalal's anger - upset that Jalal does that publicly!

For Jalal whatever Ruk does he hides and never even shouts at her no matter how big her plotting or how she constantly insults Jodha everywhere. He just takes it and further pampers Ruk.

Jalal is very ready to shout at Jodha in public - wow guess just 2 days Jodha is back in Agra and Jalal is back to his ways! Not Jalal's anger his PUBLIC DISPLAY OF ANGER is what is sad to see.

Please it should not be said it is only Ruk and SB around - when it came to Rukayya JALAL TOOK HER BACK TO HER HOJARA AND HID HER PLOT from everybody AND GOT ANGRY WITH HER - NOT IN FRONT OF SB AND JODHA.

Seems like Jalal does not change for Jodha - or rather should say CVs just can't have enough insults of Jodha in public. Today they gave us MA shout on Jodha in public and tomorrow Jalal.

Guess fun times are back for Jodha in Agra. Jalal has forgotten everything already!

BTW I want to see if Jalal shouts on SB for not keeping an eye on her son!

I am sorry if this is not liked but I WILL NEVER NEVER NEVER AGREE THAT IT IS OK FOR JALAL TO INSULT JODHA IN PUBLIC! Jalal if he has not learnt to treat her with respect then I don't know what to say about him!

Originally posted by: Kaana

Maddy, even i would like see the scene fully before concluding, but I just would like to reiterate the point that, while it is definitely required that Jalal treat her with dignity (and I hope jodha sets the expectation right with him), I also would like to draw our attention to the fact as to what might probably be a reason for the seen disparity.

As I mentioned in Ela's thread, one reason could be that, Jodha picks up an argument (I am not saying in the negative but she boldy puts her points across), which in the heat of the moment maybe rubs him offf. It may be a fact that Jodha's POV then is on the right side and Jalal has to see the truth, but as I said none objects him while she does, and so it seem that she is getting bashed publicly, while there is no such opportunity given by others.

I repeat, I am not in favour of Jalal bashing Jodha in public view and I strongly object that, but the point I made is only to say that it is not like only "jodha" is being treated badly in public while others are not, for the reasons mentioned above.

Originally posted by: mishtidoi

I know am butting in, I too object to the public insult, but going by the JA show, if Jalal insults Jodha in public, he also go beyond limits to glorify and praise her in public.

I just wish, that Jodha too,( just as Ruqaiya had explained Jalal during initial episodes of story that their talks of whatever temparament should be private affair ) should tell Jalal, that she feels hurt and disgust when he scolds her in front others..she should make this clear to Jalal