What I dont understand about Urmi

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Posted: 11 years ago
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At times she is shown a strong woman and opposing wrong.
Eg. when she stood against the men who harassed Aditi, when she stood for Trisha, when she opposed a husband infidelity in the community. Even now the way she stood up for herself against Tauji at mandir before knowing who he was.
But when it comes to standing up for herself at her in-laws then she all she can do is cry.
The minute she found out Tauji is Samrats uncle she suddenly cant stand up for herself.
I agree there has to be some element of respect for in-laws etc. but that doesn't mean she cant stand up for herself like she would if someone else was being victimized.
She has two shades to her personality, when someone else is oppressed she doesn't think twice to oppose even her in-laws or husband and fights for the truth and justice.
Why cant she do same for herself😕

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you 😃 ...but i think cvs wanna show her pure innocent. And they showing dat she is not selfish.
But it's time to stand up for herself 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Urmi did fight initially and stood up for herself, right now she's given up the fight and the reason she is not fighting is that she has nowhere to go. Her parents sent her back to this house even after knowing that her husband was humiliating her and beating her. Initially Ishan stood up for her, but even he walked out. She had one support in Trisha and Trisha was also evicted from her life. We still don't know what happened to Trisha after that night.

There are millions of women in India alone who put up with even worse abuse than what Urmi faces just because they do not have a place to go.

Precisely the reason, why a woman should be financially independent and not give in to social pressures and emotional blackmail.

The thing Urmi should've done when her father blackmailed her was to offer to take that poison herself and turned the tables on him.

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