Raman broke Ishitas trust, which broke me. My POV.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hey, I just wanted to share my thoughts about todays episode. This is all going to be my point of view. So please no bashing if I don't have the same point of view as you.

1. Ishita, way to go!! ' In this society where woman doesn't even dare to tell her husband in private of being molested, she told the whole family. And that to raised a voice against her brother-in-law.

Should she have told it to Raman first? Yes, she could indeed.. But why does she have too? The whole family should be hers, not just her husband. She is speaking out the truth not a lie? Why being scared of telling the truth. A In-law family should be as your own family!

2. Sarika, Toshi and Simmi. A proof that woman are the biggest enemies of a woman. Sarika by letting Parmeet threat her. Toshi and Simmi by showing that a son-in-law is always more respected and trusted than a daughter-in-law. Toshi, worst of the worst. I hate Simmi, for slapping a innocent. No comments for this kind of woman.

3. Raman, he made me cry. He could have handled the situation better. I know he is hurt and confused. But Ishita had a though day, hours before there was an attempt of rape on her and then she spent time in jail. But alas, does her husband break her trust? Yes. A biggie. Had that happened to me, I would never set my foot in that household. I would try to take my daughter with me.

4. Romi. He is sweet and all, loves his family? Yes. But does he respect woman? The things he is doing with other girls. What if some other guy did those things to Rinky or Ruhi in the future? Would he accept that? He sleeps around by drugging girls??? What if that happened to his sister??? I hope he got a new moral today.

5. If a woman is again and again saying something about being molested, and she have values and morals. Then obviously it will be some truth to it? I mean think about how hard it is for a woman with dignity to tell all those things to her family? "

To hell with the Bhallas for me right now. I could feel the pain Ishita went through today.
First that perverse, then jail, then slapped and then distrust from everyone in her own family. Gosh, if they want her back after the proofs are out. They should be begging and Ishita should still not give in. She should insult the family again and again and they should keep begging. Gosh, the pain I felt seeing Ishita. Being a girl, I could not stand that.

What I do have to give applauds for is Karan and Divyankas acting! Like woow!!! And everyone else for that matter!! Great cast!!'
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written and I completely agree with you...today when Ishita was at her most vulnerable and she needed support from her lawful wedded husband she got none...heartbreaking indeed..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: 4856

<font size="2">Very well written and I completely agree with you...today when Ishita was at her most vulnerable and she needed support from her lawful wedded husband she got none...heartbreaking indeed..!! </font>





Thank you so much! Yeah that is the thing, gosh my heart is still aching
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Posted: 11 years ago
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PERFECT POST i felt SAME lik u said...!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

PERFECT POST i felt SAME lik u said...!!



Thank you so much! Yeah, I can imagine that many felt so today. I saw the episode before my family, and then when they were watching, I went there to see their reaction. Mum where as broken and lost as I was. And Dad was repeating that Ishitas mobile was at home, how would she be able to text??

Gosh, I felt so bad for Ishita :(
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautifully written...you spoke my heart... 👏
to hell with Bhallas...my full concentration was on ishu...as a girl myself...I could feel the misery and pain ishu going through...divz nailed it with her superb natural flawless acting...

raman is a disappointment...I wish he was silent...his one disclosure tagged ishu as characterless by his useless morons...everything was going good till he opens his mouth in the end...for the first time...I wish him to shut up...I agree he is shocked...confused...dilemma...due to his past there is trusting issues and fear in him...but that doesn't mean he disclose his marital relationship status openly...his one disclosure totally shatter ishu...it broke her self-confidence and self-esteem...

like you say...if it was me. I would bring my daughter with me and leave the mad house...my self-respect and dignity is very important for me...noone has the right to break and crush it...not even my husband...the father of my daughter...I would not want my daughter to live in such environment where perverts roams around freely...poor jugement of people...self-obsessed...drunkards...it will be a bad effect on my daughter and it will affect my daughter's future
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ishita way to go and please don't give up on your fight to bring out the truth. Can't believe sarika is so freakin scared of him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written post! Have to whole-heartedly agree with everything you mentioned 😊
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Sorry should have mentioned first thing it is a wonderfully written post
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Raman is a selfish idiot. Always in each and every situation Ishitha supported him. She helped him in the cases where he was wrong also and showed him the right thing. But he is such a disgusting person. He would have kept his mouth shut. Instead of doing that he wanted a proof and wanted to check the mobile. Blow on Ishitha's face when she asked him will you check the messages and he said yes was so bad. Over and above that, such a sensitive secret of their relationship must not have been reveled to anyone. That to he told that in a very wrong situation. That made Toshi and Simmi believe that he was desperate to go to Param. Ishitha and Raman had been sharing a same room for so many days now, she has never instigated him on anything. Was that not sufficient for him to believe she is beyond sex . She has a gr8 heart to help everyone and caring about so many people. Atleast he must have understood that his has been brought up with gr8 moral values. Will she do this . If a husband cannot think in this line then there is no use. I always felt that Raman and Ishitha might not share physical relationship., But they had true love for each other. But I was wrong. Probably Ishitha only has love for him, but he is just a selfish man. Disgusting Mr Raman Kumar Bhalla. Go hang urself.
Ishitha must never step into Bhalla house ever. The Bhallas must plead to see Ishitha's Face.
Disgusting people with no moral values and gratitude.

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