kripa's Standpoint! - Page 2

Great post as usual Rinku... you certainly have us putting our thinking caps on.

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

On a personal level.... I think Kripa is doing the rite thing .... I mean she needs time for the inner turmoil to settle down ... & more imp : It should be her decision whom she chooses to be with ....

Hiya T!


I'm all for Kripa standing on her own two feet, I'm as independant as the next person...but what gripes me is that until now, she never saw the need to to that...let's go through it, shall we...


She tells daadi she won't marry Prithvi because she wants to be her own person...what does she do..she accepts his proposal...


When she was to meet Josh in his hotel room, she tells Prithvi "how can I go on my Own"


She never takes a decision without checking with prithvi...she actually justs accepts his decisions, without question...


Is this the signs of a lady who wants to go at it on her own???...she has had plenty of time to do so, and never went with it...so why the about turn now...


As for her decision, I agree with Rinku, she is burdened down by her termoil, her moral values are strong...but to me her decision has already been made...


She told her mother: "On one end is Angad, my bachpan ka pyaar, the man I love more than my life, perhaps in a way that I'll never love anyone else"...and..."Pirhvi is my friend...one I care for dearly"...those are her own words, and from that I would say her choice is as easy as pie.


Just my opinion.


Luv

Hafsa

Originally posted by: SRK Addict

She told her mother: "On one end is Angad, my bachpan ka pyaar, the man I love more than my life, perhaps in a way that I'll never love anyone else"...and..."Pirhvi is my friend...one I care for dearly"...those are her own words, and from that I would say her choice is as easy as pie.

hmmmm... when u put it like this H! Luv or gratitude .... the choice becomes evident : choose luv.....

But u have to look at it from a woman's point of view as well: How would u react if 2 men u cared deeply abt put u aside while they debated who should "have" you as a life partner --- without consulting you????

Wouldnt your intelligence be insulted??? Wouldnt you wanna have a say in this most impo decision of ur life???

I still feel I would see red, like Kripa did, and put my foot down and tell both men to go suck an egg!

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

hmmmm... when u put it like this H! Luv or gratitude .... the choice becomes evident : choose luv.....

But u have to look at it from a woman's point of view as well: How would u react if 2 men u cared deeply abt put u aside while they debated who should "have" you as a life partner --- without consulting you????

Wouldnt your intelligence be insulted??? Wouldnt you wanna have a say in this most impo decision of ur life???

I still feel I would see red, like Kripa did, and put my foot down and tell both men to go suck an egg!

Hey T.....ROTFL with the last bit... 😃

I can see where you're coming from, really, I can...but it just doesn't gel for me...I can't seem to put it into words, the uneasiness of her actions...nothing I put down seems the right way of getting my point across... 😕 😕


Lets try again...lets look at her expressions yeaterday...while Angad and Prithvi were talking, she had her back to both of them so they couldn't see what we saw...


She was crying...but there was a glimpse of hope on her face when Prithvi told Angad that she and Angad belong together...then when Angad said he could never take Prithvi's place in her heart, and Prithvi agreed...her face dropped...until he said that his place in her heart was that of a friend...that got her smiling a bit...


Point being: she was happy to hear Prithvi say that he was and will always be her friend...she was sad when Angad said he would never take Prithvi's place in her heart...so what more does she want......her words to her mother, her expressions during the entire thing...it all makes her decision clear to me......it might not be a clean, cut and dry decision......but it isn't as monumental to get the reaction that she had.


...and I still don't think I'm getting my point across very well....and that's seriously beginning to bug me! 😕


Hafsa

Originally posted by: SRK Addict

Point being: she was happy to hear Prithvi say that he was and will always be her friend...she was sad when Angad said he would never take Prithvi's place in her heart...so what more does she want......her words to her mother, her expressions during the entire thing...it all makes her decision clear to me......it might not be a clean, cut and dry decision......but it isn't as monumental to get the reaction that she had.

yes... i agree she was happy ...saw it tooo.... & like u said the decision isnt cut n dry .... it does have shades of grey in it ....

Originally posted by: SRK Addict

...and I still don't think I'm getting my point across very well....and that's seriously beginning to bug me! 😕

Hey ... bug u not! u made perfect sense ..... & yes u did get ur point across ...... very eloquently in fact .... liked the way u did it ....

SO.... instead of working my single (remaining) brain cell over this dilemma , i shall just Bask in the glow of the new, hip, young looking promo which has angad in white & kripa looking smart and oomphy .... in westerns and esp loved her hair in the promo... and angad ... welll I think BASK BASK & DROOL DROOL should cover it all..... 😆

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

yes... i agree she was happy ...saw it tooo.... & like u said the decision isnt cut n dry .... it does have shades of grey in it ....



Hey ... bug u not! u made perfect sense ..... & yes u did get ur point across ...... very eloquently in fact .... liked the way u did it ....

Glad to see you managed to make sense of my ramblings...didn't feel like I was expressing it all too well, thought no one would get it. 😆

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

SO.... instead of working my single (remaining) brain cell over this dilemma , i shall just Bask in the glow of the new, hip, young looking promo which has angad in white & kripa looking smart and oomphy .... in westerns and esp loved her hair in the promo... and angad ... welll I think BASK BASK & DROOL DROOL should cover it all..... 😆

New promo......what new promo?????? 😕

Sexy looking Angad??? BASK BASK & DROOL DROOL???? T,...are you messing with me...sexy Angad promo & I haven't seen it.....not fair 😭 😭

How am I supposed to continue succumbing when I miss this. 😉


Now I have to see it...has anyone uploaded the video???

Help!!! 😆

Hey Love,
Beautiful post 👏👏👏!!
I agree, Kripa does need time to sort out through her own feelings, and come up with the decision herself to go back to Angad. I mean she loves Angad and Prithvi has stepped back, but she needs time to think things through, and be completely sure of going back to Angad. I think its probably part of her the fact that she still fears that she might get hurt just like when she had placd her trust in Angad before. I know I know guys... he has suffered enough, but Prithvi and Angad need not make the decision for her.
SHE should do it herself.

guys...it's ok...she has finally gone back 2 angad

Originally posted by: imemyself

very true ...

once trust is broken it very difficult to mend it ...

i think kripa loves anngad but she cant trust him as yet ..

i also believe that kripa shud not lose herself in angads love ...that does not work ..she has to find herself ...her own identity with out angad and prithvi ...

mE

agree with all of you. she has to rebuild that the trust that Angad will be with her no matter what and she needs time to do that. Also, she needs to be able to know that she can stand on her own two feet and find herself before she can get married to Angad.

maya