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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neerjaa


MISTI ITS FOR THE ABOVE LINE , I WAS TALKING ABOUT MYSELF AS I DO NOT UNDERSTAND IF ITS SARCASTIC OR NOT . I WROTE FOR THE FIRST ABOVE ONE . I KNOW YOU NOW FOR A SOME YEARS AND KNOW YOUR POSITIVITY IN WRITING . WHERE IF USED TO GET IRRITATED WITH THE TRACK THEN USED TO WATCH THE EPISODE AGAIN AFTER READING YOUR POSTS . AS FOR ADITI,S TRACK IT SEEMS TO BE REPEATED OF EARLIER SHOWS AND JUST WANTS TO SEE SOME LOGICAL STORY BEHIND HER MOTIVES NOT THE LAME EXPLANATION SHE GAVE ASTHA . SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN SHALOK . ITS TV WORLD WHERE TRP RULES AND WITH THAT STORY ALSO SUFFERS . I STOPPED READING ABOUT ASTHA AS I FOUND HER WITH TEARY EYES AND HER CONTINUOUS CHANTING MANTRA, AS IF YOU ARE MANIPULATING THE OTHER PERSON , MAKING HIM GUILTY . YOU CAN NOT FORCE A PERSON . SHOULD GIVE SPACE SHALOK TO BREATHE , AGREE SHE WANTS TO MAKE HIM HAPPY WHERE SHE IS NOT BOTHERED ABOUT HER SELF RESPECT OR SAY DIGNITY , I WILL NOT MENTION IT WITH EGO . SHALOK KNOWS HOW SHE FEELS THEN WHY TO REMIND HIM ALL THE TIME . LOVE COMES WITHIN . AS FOR SAVING HER AS SHE WAS ASKING SHALOK THAT WHAT WAS THAT , I THINK SHALOK WOULD HAVE DONE THE SAME IF ADITI WOULD HAVE BEEN AT HER PLACE OR ANYOTHER GIRL . ASTHA SAYS SHE CAN READ HIS EYES BUT SHE ALREADY ONCE ALSO READ HIS EYES WHEN SHALOK WAS FAKING HIS LOVE AND WOOING HER . HAS SHALOK EVER SHOWN TO BE THINKING ABOUT HIS BEHAVIOR THAT HORRIBLE NIGHT HE DID WITH HER . nO DOUBT ASTHA ALSO DOES NOT REMEMBER SHE IS FORGIVING AND FORGETTING KIND OF PERSON . SECOND ANJALI IN THE MAKING .

VARAD,S MOCKING, INSULTING SOJAL IS ANY WAY DIFFERENT FROM SHALOK . THEY BOTH ARE PRODUCT OF THE FAMILY ATMOSPHERE WHERE THEY GREW UP . YES BOTH DID NOT HAVE TOTALLY NIRANJAN IN THEM . SORRY BECAME VERY LENGTHY

AGAIN I WAS NOT WRITING ABOUT YOUR POST , PERHAPS YOU ALSO KNOW ME THROUGH MY COMMENTS

Neerja thanks for your explanation. As for the concerned line...I have used the winking emoticon and that means that I am teasing you...its humour and not sarcasm.
Now regarding Astha, I don't see how can one see her as someone who is manipulating Shloke. Manipulation means hiding ones intention and then using a person's weakness or needs to make him or her do something that he or she does not want to do. Astha has openly told Shloke everything and she has also told him that she wants to know what is there in his heart. It is all open from her end, so how can it be manipulation where Astha is concerned? She is challenging him at every step and is seeing to it that he does not run away...so how is it manipulation?
As for Shloke, yes he might have saved some other person too but would he have reacted in the same way. He saved Aditi from falling down the rooftop but did he panic as he panicked for Astha? So even if the action might be similar, doesn't the difference in emotions show the difference between the two.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks k. taddy for the appreciation.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Edited by chitsss - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Misti what i talked about manipulation , its like kids do . Astha is not a mature person if she would have been her approach would have been different to deal with Shalok and to find his happiness . You can not sit all the time with sad face , tears welling in your eyes and asking questions . Why one should go on poking the person . There should be breathing space and mutual respect in every relationship . You can not shadow of a person . If her love is unconditional then why go on expecting , asking him again and again same question and then opening your heart . I know time is running out and she is getting desperate for Shalok,s declaration of love , she never wanted to be away from him despite him insulting , mocking and giving her big jolt the first day . Astha is person who does not know the meaning of ego , self respect or dignity . Her universe is around Shalok , then is there any difference between her and Anjali . ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Misti, sorry I was not able to post my thoughts yesterday. I was so exhausted that after going home, I just went for a walk as it was really nice outside and then fell asleep. In the morning, I had such a hard time waking up even 10 hours of sleep that I again got late. I will combine my thoughts from yesterday in today's comments.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Every one in blaming Varad, i also don't support him, he should be faithful to his wife, but I want to give some reasoning for his behavior towards Astha and Shlok.
When I was young, i mean in school and college , my parents never allowed me to go on school picnics and tours, maybe my safety was their prime concern but i was not allowed to go. It was my one wish i really wanted to do but could not. So when I had my own kids i never stopped them to go on picnics, in fact i would urge them to go. I even sent my son who was studying in grade 3 to Agra on a 2 day trip, I live in Delhi.

What i am trying to say is maybe Varad loved someone and he was not able to marry her, so he wants his brother to have a successful love marriage. Maybe he is trying to fulfill his wish thru his younger brother.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: august123

Every one in blaming Varad, i also don't support him, he should be faithful to his wife, but I want to give some reasoning for his behavior towards Astha and Shlok.

When I was young, i mean in school and college , my parents never allowed me to go on school picnics and tours, maybe my safety was their prime concern but i was not allowed to go. It was my one wish i really wanted to do but could not. So when I had my own kids i never stopped them to go on picnics, in fact i would urge them to go. I even sent my son who was studying in grade 3 to Agra on a 2 day trip, I live in Delhi.

What i am trying to say is maybe Varad loved someone and he was not able to marry her, so he wants his brother to have a successful love marriage. Maybe he is trying to fulfill his wish thru his younger brother.

Varad seems to be caring person , he is not like Niranjan , if he is angry he just left the place , did not ever abused Sojal . i feel sad for Sojal also . Yes agree Varad may be also in love with some girl but could not defy his parents and married the girl of their choice . Shalok also has gone through the same situation which made him bitter and with no respect for women . He at many occasions has asked Shalok to move ahead in life . It can go both ways your experience in life .

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