shekhars and haveli people

Shekhars anger against anuj's parents. Though justified is not logical. Thoughtlessly they decided to find a groom for sanchi, failed to tell the groom side in time, justified saying that sanchi told.

They looked so weak and vulnerable. If Kabra had not come in time, they would have time to introspect. It was their mistake to invite anup's parents without telling them the facts.

Haveli people's anger against ratan though justified is illogical. The situation is not ratan's creation and getting angry with him just because he also took care of his own interests is not correct.

Ratan is taking care of his interests at the expense of his own child and his health and well being how acceptable is that? I think what Haweli people feel is more of a disgust towards Ratan than anger and of course they are frustrated and feeling helpless because it involves a small child and it's a life and death issue.In a way it is justified.

Once upon a time those very haveli people readily washed their hands off little mannu and almost threw him on the roads. Because he did not belong to them at that point of time.
Now it is ratan's turn. Mannu does not belong to him anymore and why should he have any feelings being a ruffian?

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Once upon a time those very haveli people readily washed their hands off little mannu and almost threw him on the roads. Because he did not belong to them at that point of time.
Now it is ratan's turn. Mannu does not belong to him anymore and why should he have any feelings being a ruffian?

I know a person who is educated and whose wife divorced him because he was torturing her on a daily basis. She took away her son and now she is working as a teacher keeping her son away from the cruel man. She did not remarry. But this man stopped caring for his son and willed away all his property to some temple.When I asked him why he did not think about his only son, he said that for him he is dead as his son has become closer to his mother.

when sanchi tell truth to anuj but still anuj parents does not want sanchi as bahu so i dont think anuj parents would have accept sanchi as bahu even if truth is disclose by shekhar at begining .anuj parents still would have grudges against shekhars .they would have still insulted shekhars . anuj parents could have think at least they come to know truth by 1 member of shekhars .they should have realize that they r not kept in dark before marriage . but anuj parents created jabardasti ka tamasha

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I know a person who is educated and whose wife divorced him because he was torturing her on a daily basis. She took away her son and now she is working as a teacher keeping her son away from the cruel man. She did not remarry. But this man stopped caring for his son and willed away all his property to some temple.When I asked him why he did not think about his only son, he said that for him he is dead as his son has become closer to his mother.

It shows a man's emotional stupidity towards his understanding the relationships !---how he handles himself ...while defining the true meaning of the life !!

Originally posted by: surabhi01

when sanchi tell truth to anuj but still anuj parents does not want sanchi as bahu so i dont think anuj parents would have accept sanchi as bahu even if truth is disclose by shekhar at begining .anuj parents still would have grudges against shekhars .they would have still insulted shekhars . anuj parents could have think at least they come to know truth by 1 member of shekhars .they should have realize that they r not kept in dark before marriage . but anuj parents created jabardasti ka tamasha

finding groom for sanchi is not wrong but want sanchi marry in hurry is wrong .bus kisi tarah se sanchi ki shadi kar do this is wrong approach of shekhars

agree that anuj's mother behaved too rudely. Instead of saying that we dont want this rishta and walk off. She started taunting and blaming very loudly without realising that the girl in question is also a daughter of somebody.

Helplessness and disappointment from BH people is understood but their expectation that Ratan should help them selflessly is not justified. Because it is not fair that on one hand they don't want Ratan to be anywhere near them, but on the other they need him to help them in their hour of need.

yeah anuj mother could have refuse to proposal at phone only and that too in civilized manner .what is need of come at home and started behaving rudely .