Balika Vadhu 21st March 2014 Written Update - Page 3

Originally posted by: Missesha

I am ok with this story. What only surprises me is that every male character in BV, be it Shyam, Shiv, Dr. Abhishek and now Anuj, are always so calm and understanding, that they never have any issue with the woman's past. But in reality, guys are not that easy either. They are also bound by society's pressures and cannot simply overlook such pasts. It almost appears as fairy-tales.

I would have liked if Anuj said that he will think about the rishta, just as an initial jerk to Sa and family. And to show Sa, how it feels to handle society and rejection.

I suppose Anuj hasn't told about Sa's truth to his parents, and that will create more drama when they find out about Sa's past through those stupid posters.

I hope someone throws Mrs. Cobra in jail too for such low acts. Hope Cvs don't glorify the fact that for the sake of revenge , a rapist's family can do such cheap acts. It will be sending out wrong message.

Originally posted by: Missesha

What only surprises me is that every male character in BV, be it Shyam, Shiv, Dr. Abhishek and now Anuj, are always so calm and understanding, that they never have any issue with the woman's past. But in reality, guys are not that easy either. They are also bound by society's pressures and cannot simply overlook such pasts. It almost appears as fairy-tales.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

They have shown Shyam reacting to Suguna when she called out Pratap's name at a "crucial point" other than that they have not actually shown how it affected him.

Shiv I suppose is a larger than life character and in many ways moulded in the same way as Anandi and he infact is a male version of Anandi so he could understand what she went through and like her for what those things made her.

He was shown in his lesser form during Sanchi Jagya Ganga Saga.He was shown as a brother who could close his eyes to the shortcomings of his little sister live in denial making himslef believe that she is changing and after the engagement broke the past relationship of his wife with Jagya hit him for the first time then.Wish they could have shown it in more detail.But I think at that time the makers had to go back and change it a bit because in some scenes they went overboard like showing Shiv being disrespectful towards Bhairon.

It would be nice if they show some more convincing situations where he is confronted with Anandi's relationship with J and her past.

They shouldn't have shown Anuj accepting this fact so readily.They could have shown him taking time to accept this.

Originally posted by: tellygeek

yes, I agree. The disappointment is lately with respect to treatment meted out to Anandi and Shiv's characters

Till Anandi agreed to marriage with Shiv, Shiv was projected as a young, dashing ambitious professional aspiring to make a significant difference to his work. He had a life of his own which was shown well too. But things have changed drastically after Ansh marriage I Anandi had immersed herself in Shekhar family and Shiv seems very happy with it, he is reduced to a common family man with his inconspicuous dynamism.

I feel their relationship has reached a dead happy boring ending, If not professional track, I would have liked to see healthy conflicts in their relationship as husband and wife, for e.g Shiv thinks of ways to bring her out of family matters and motivates her to pursue her career, as he knows she can really add value to society being in a responsibile position himself. And with Anandi, there are many possibilities.The director never showed her self-retrospection of her past relationship with Jagya and correcting them with Shiv.

But then the producers have to do justice to all the actors !

Originally posted by: aparnauma

They have shown Shyam reacting to Suguna when she called out Pratap's name at a "crucial point" other than that they have not actually shown how it affected him.

Shiv I suppose is a larger than life character and in many ways moulded in the same way as Anandi and he infact is a male version of Anandi so he could understand what she went through and like her for what those things made her.

He was shown in his lesser form during Sanchi Jagya Ganga Saga.He was shown as a brother who could close his eyes to the shortcomings of his little sister live in denial making himslef believe that she is changing and after the engagement broke the past relationship of his wife with Jagya hit him for the first time then.Wish they could have shown it in more detail.But I think at that time the makers had to go back and change it a bit because in some scenes they went overboard like showing Shiv being disrespectful towards Bhairon.

It would be nice if they show some more convincing situations where he is confronted with Anandi's relationship with J and her past.

They shouldn't have shown Anuj accepting this fact so readily.They could have shown him taking time to accept this.