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Posted: 11 years ago
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were only 2

by Baa ...can u stay without Ahem Kokila , i think not

by Jigar ...Gopi bhabi that kid has stayed without her father and family for 8 years why do you again want to snatch it away

these were the 2 arguments that overturned everything .

The Kokila she is your bahu , Ahem don't forget she is your patni etc arguments won't work in this frame of mind .

I disagree with anyone who says Baa has no role and is scared of Kokila . It is she who made Kokila change her mind today . Strength does not lie in talking loudly or giving orders but in convincing ability . She spoke up when needed .

Urmila is as bad as Radha . This duel is actually between them for power . They both have their own agendas .


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Justlikethat1 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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It was sensible of them and it is no surprise that it came from the two most sensible people in MM.

From the beginning Baa was shown as someone who had a streak of practical mind mixed with her traditions. I still smile remembering her nudging the newly married Gopi to stay close to Ahem and giving her advice in that order. She was quiet, firm and perhaps a little naughty, wanting the best for her grandson and Daughter in law 😳

So it is no surprise that she spoke the best possible line to make Kokila agree.

Jigar has a golden heart and he has a way of looking at things from the other's PoV.

Except them, the rest are kind of not there exactly.. And I agree.. Telling Ahem and Koki that Gopi is still a Bahu or Patni is not going to sell. They don't want her. Why would they be swayed. They will get more angry at these arguments than otherwise..

As for Urmila and Radha, it is kind of predictable. Urmila tries to milk any situation to her benefit in some way or the other and Radha currently has a one track mind. They will both do what is best for them.. the others can go drown themselves and they would not care🥱

BTW, do you think that Rashi will be swayed this time by Urmi? I sincerely hope not😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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agree with your points👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think once Gopi gets in firmly and Kokila starts thawing by seeing her positive influence with kids , and telling Vidya to respect and listen to Kokila , quietly taking all responsibility of kitchen or Baa's medicenes etc , ...Once Kokila again makes her bahurani of the house , Rashi will start resenting it as she has become accustomed to holding the keys and splurging money freely . The fact that Kokila took retirement and that the keys came in her hand actually worked for her and Urmila very well , for that was their goal all along .

Rashi Urmila want her in only for Rashi's benefit .

In the duo Rashi is the softer one , she has a sentimental soft spot in her own spoilt way for Gopi . She is used to having her quiet and loyal presence in the background and actually depends on her being there steadily , misses her when she is not there .

Urmila is the hardened greedy one . She is ruthless . She only wants money power .

Actually i love it when Radha gives back Urmila squarely and wins hands down . Urmila needed someone like her , if Madhuben is straightforward , Radha has the capability of being ulta with ulta people . For a long time Urmila railroaded Madhuben's kid Gopi . Well Radha is no Gopi . She can slap Urmila right back exactly with same force . Its a pity they showed Radha going to the level of wanting a kid dead coz she was the perfect answer to this duo . Loved it when she told Rashi , Rashiben keep the keys carefully , u don't know when u lose them forever .

See how Urmila is guiding her daughter now .

Kokila's anger is that Gopi was the one to walk out on the marraige , she cannot waltz back in again and everything will be the same for her is wrong . Kokila had gone even to Rashi's house to stop divorce in Modi family . For Kokila , walking out on a marraige is a sin . Thats her pov .

Ahem's anger is that for 8 years his kid was kept from him .

Their anger is seen but its not based on greed . Not once did they even doubt Gopi's character and that the kid might be someone else's .
They r just 2 very angry people .

Even today Gopi was saying that i will take her away and bring her when she is a bit bigger . Jigar gave her the reality check in his customary kind way . Baa pointed out to Kokila in her kind way . They were kind but did not give up . They convinced angry Kokila Ahem and then even thoughtless Gopi .

They r not gonna be the real trouble makers for Gopi ...the real trouble will come from Radha and Urmila . Urmila wants Radha out at any cost coz she is afraid of her , Radha is one person she cannot manage .




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Posted: 11 years ago
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kokila only knows one thing...how to shout and terrorise others and make them accept her decision...she doesnt care about anyone else...gopi was meera's mother and she is suffering the most...how can she think like that...kokila has no right to keep vidya away from her mother...

baa was so good today... 👏

urmila is much better than radha...radha is a murderer...urmi has been mean and all but she will never stoop to radha's level...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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she won't murder a kid , but she wants Gopi to be at Rashi's feet like a servant . She is afraid of Radha coz she knows she is one step ahead of her and knows no boundaries . She is very afraid of Radha . Her support of Gopi is very temporary , its a temporary roadblock to Radha's race to Modi bahurani . It is a mere temporary strategy .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree Kools and well analyzed👏

Urmila is afraid of Radha. If only they had made Radha a less negative/extreme, she could have been the best thing to have happened.. The perfect nemesis to Urmila and her schemes🥱

Rashi's soft spot for Gopi, it is like the soft spot one has for a dog who will never leave your side, however much you abuse it from time to time..

That is Gopi's and Rashi's relationship most times when they are together.

It is cute to see them together when things cozy up and irritating when either goes to the extreme.. Be it Rashi listening to Urmi and doing all the cruel, dubious things in the name of jealousy or Gopi going on with her Rashi ben rant🤢

Anyway, Rashi will in the end listen to her mom. .When Radha is out of the picture and she will be at the end of this track, sometime in the near future, we will see Rashi and Urmi's struggle to maintain the power they gained again..🤓

I just wish it does to go to the original Koki Vs. Rashi + Urmi after these things end.. That is just recycling the old script and boring

The story is going predictably from where I see.. Ahem will thaw towards Gopi very slowly but he will thaw. He still cares for her and so does she and when they are together living in close proximity, it is difficult not to see why they loved each other before.

Kokila will be the harder nut to crack. She is proud and she will not take to Gopi interfering with the kids or the house very lightly. She has a very distinctive opinion on everything. Gopi has her task cut out for her.

I think Kokila's change will come only with Meera coming back. I do not see her accepting Gopi as her bahurani before that. It is not just about walking out of the marriage Kools. I think Koki's resentment is far deeper. She genuinely blames Gopi for Meera and has never gotten out of that. She is vicious and will surely find ways to hurt.

The fact is that I do not want this to turn into Gopi's struggle to get into either Ahem or Kokila's good books. Gopi made a mistake and so did Ahem. They can sort their differences mutually and lay off the blame game in their own way.

As for Rashi and Urmila... I totally agree.. They are like politicians jumping parties to win and stay in power. They will jump to the side that benefits them the most. Today it is Gopi.

They play to win.. I want a real nemesis to these two. Someone who beats them at their game.. A less extreme version of Radha who does have morals, atleast morals that stop her from going on a killing spree😆


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Posted: 11 years ago
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think Kokila's change will come only with Meera coming back. I do not see her accepting Gopi as her bahurani before that. It is not just about walking out of the marriage Kools. I think Koki's resentment is far deeper. She genuinely blames Gopi for Meera and has never gotten out of that. She is vicious and will surely find ways to hurt.

Agreed but things would have been different if Gopi had stayed on . Koki would have stopped talking to her on a private level but walking out on the marraige , not informing them of a second kid AND the unfortunate death of the first grandshild has made her an embittered woman . As it is she has less patience with mistakes , these 3 in her eyes r unacceptable . I can understand where she comes from coz i actually know her type . She is one of those efficient people impatient with mistakes as they never do it themselves and value discipline as it sets things rolling smoothly ...she is bitterly angry with the walk out . For her , from her pov , its , u make a mistake , u coolly accept it and just leave ! And here ur again , this time with additional mistakes ! She is incensed and incredulous though many won't see her pov .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I do not mind Rashi being a prankster as long as it's reasonable, but I really do not want the old Rashi back who resented Gopi whenever she got more attention than her. 🤢 Rashi knows that Gopi is not greedy for power and money. Once Gopi is accepted by the Modis again, I hope Rashi finds a comfortable foothold in the Modi family and stops being influenced by her mother all the time.
For the near future, I want Radha's truth to be exposed and for her to go to jail or a mental asylum. Then I want Urmila's truth to be exposed. Then I want the show to be over because they begin another ridiculous track like this one.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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👏 well done kools and justlikethat also everyone who has posted on this topic.
Hopefully long term will be Rashi changes for good no longer adding fuel to fire with gopi, i have a feeling even she realises without gopi modi bhavan is empty. we know she wanted it for selfish reasons. That is Rashi

I think the eye opener for Urmilla might be when Gopi rescues Rashi from a near death situation. i also think any kalakaris that urmilla n rashi do will be foiled by bacha party as they are very protective of gopi
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