Is Urmi overreacting?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Samrat said a lie and Urmi also does the same. Why she is posing as if she never lies?
I think Urmi rather overreacted where it was not necessary and does not react when it is necessary.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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In some way you are correct that they both have lied.

But I think Urmi lied to protect the family in case of her helping her Sis-in-law and in helping Trishna knowing the fit SamRAT would throw for helping her out of jail.

In case of SamRAT he lied about having an affair on his Honeymoon to save his skin and lied about why he gave up his childhood friendship with Ishaan again to hide his infidelity.

And SamRAT has this I am above all and nobody can question me attitude that hides his many of his dalliances which in my point of view are hurtful and deceitful lies .

It seems Urmi is slowly but surely waking up to the fact that her husband is not what she had dreamed about before her marriage and so her reactions to all the bullying now seems like overreacting but she just mustering her courage to confront him about what has bugged her about her trip to Goa.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dolly-heart

In some way you are correct that they both have lied.


But I think Urmi lied to protect the family in case of her helping her Sis-in-law and in helping Trishna knowing the fit SamRAT would throw for helping her out of jail.

In case of SamRAT he lied about having an affair on his Honeymoon to save his skin and lied about why he gave up his childhood friendship with Ishaan again to hide his infidelity.

And SamRAT has this I am above all and nobody can question me attitude that hides his many of his dalliances which in my point of view are hurtful and deceitful lies .

It seems Urmi is slowly but surely waking up to the fact that her husband is not what she had dreamed about before her marriage and so her reactions to all the bullying now seems like overreacting but she just mustering her courage to confront him about what has bugged her about her trip to Goa.



Samrat may tell her the truth and say so what..
Then what Urmi will do? Will she leave him?
Or will she stop sharing the bed with him as an indication of her anger?

The problem is not only lying but the behaviour pattern of samrat. His bullying. Urmi has experienced his bullying and she is ready to put up with it. will she tolerate infidelity too?
Seems her mother also experienced something like that.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



Samrat may tell her the truth and say so what..
Then what Urmi will do? Will she leave him?
Or will she stop sharing the bed with him as an indication of her anger?

The problem is not only lying but the behaviour pattern of samrat. His bullying. Urmi has experienced his bullying and she is ready to put up with it. will she tolerate infidelity too?
Seems her mother also experienced something like that.



That seems to be the crux of the story. Will Urmi react as her mother or will she not tolerate and leave SamRAT ??

Her mother may have chosen to stay but still has not forgotten or really forgiven her husband.

Will today's Urmi settle for the same fate or will she be brave and admit she made a mistake and move on ??

The CV's have shown very cleverly how both SamRAT and Urmi's father are both intolerant and judgemental toward anyone they do not like.

We as the audience see that but Urmi is ignorant of the fact of the real reason behind her fathers mistake and how he has hurt her mother.

The whole point of showing all the bullying and emotional abuse by SamRAT is to show us what will women of today that are in such situations do.

Urmi is not an uneducated little village girl that will tolerate this kind of behaviour without showing a different kind of reaction than her mother.

At least that is what I am hoping for to show that there is no reason for women of today to take this kind of Bull Crap from any man.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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the actual story starts now when urmi will leave sam and go bck to her house...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DeliciousAS

the actual story starts now when urmi will leave sam and go bck to her house...


i am sure this will happen..as written in the article we all have read here...

and then love story of ishaan and urmi will start ...😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dolly-heart


That seems to be the crux of the story. Will Urmi react as her mother or will she not tolerate and leave SamRAT ??

Her mother may have chosen to stay but still has not forgotten or really forgiven her husband.

Will today's Urmi settle for the same fate or will she be brave and admit she made a mistake and move on ??

The CV's have shown very cleverly how both SamRAT and Urmi's father are both intolerant and judgemental toward anyone they do not like.

We as the audience see that but Urmi is ignorant of the fact of the real reason behind her fathers mistake and how he has hurt her mother.

The whole point of showing all the bullying and emotional abuse by SamRAT is to show us what will women of today that are in such situations do.

Urmi is not an uneducated little village girl that will tolerate this kind of behaviour without showing a different kind of reaction than her mother.

At least that is what I am hoping for to show that there is no reason for women of today to take this kind of Bull Crap from any man.


well saidšŸ‘
it's going to be a treat to watch how Urmi will deal w/ all of this.. looks like she's finally awakening
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Posted: 11 years ago
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But I dont want ishasn nd urmi hate it..I want sam nd urmi only after urmi teaches him a lesson
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Huge difference here in their lies.
Urmi's over reacting is justified...the guy slept with another women - so he ain't saint lol. Urmi doesn't know Samrat enough, so I am glad she is questioning him to know his real motive for lying.

Also, Samrat puts Urmi in her place when she does something he doesn't approve of, why can't urmi do the same??

PS: I LOVE LOVE LOVE MOHIT MALIK DESPITE HIM BEING A JERK ON THE SHOW!! ā˜ŗļø

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