Barka will now realise she did wrong with nikhil 4r not 4rgiving him

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Posted: 11 years ago
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About today's episode of gustakh dil I think all those things nikhil said to his mum was right why all of the sudden just because lajjo is not here anymore barka wants to forgive nikhil do u know what barka does needs to think straight I mean we all know lajjo was a good daughter in law a good wife and a good friend too but no one can see that but on the bright side we saw lajjo happy back home with her two sisters that was a sweet moment I can't believe that they show nikhil and ishana so happy together And lajjo was there playing with one payal she had and for the precap it is good that nikhil now will know that lajjo loves him although I did want lajjo to tell him herself but it is okay aleast now nikhil will finally find out that lajjo did and always will love him can't wait for tomorrow episode what does everyone else think?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hmm actually my question to barkha is why does she need to forgive Nikhil I mean for what ? for not falling down too with his brother, she is lucky that in that accident both kids could have fallen and gotten killed. HE was mere 7 I heard today in previous episodes he was 9 but anyways point is he was young child who lost so much in that one fall. He lost ability to live his life and he lost his mother. So I feel he is right why is she suddenly trying to make an effort? even now she is trying to forgive him, she doesn't understand his plight and what wrong she did..so lets see
and as per Nikhil and ishaana🤢 no comments😡 cvs...😡
I feel even Laajo too happy was not good thing to show, though I like the song, how next few months will shape is hint by that song
pre cap was interesting, lets see how it goes from there
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Barkha- Nikhil conversation was the best part of the episode. Both actors did a good job.

How can Nikhil will accept her forgiveness now? She has already ruined his childhood, what's the use now.

I am happy to see Lajjo recovered and happy in Sonbarsa, she is back with her antics and running around with her friend Putty.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sami01

hmm actually my question to barkha is why does she need to forgive Nikhil I mean for what ? for not falling down too with his brother, she is lucky that in that accident both kids could have fallen and gotten killed. HE was mere 7 I heard today in previous episodes he was 9 but anyways point is he was young child who lost so much in that one fall. He lost ability to live his life and he lost his mother. So I feel he is right why is she suddenly trying to make an effort? even now she is trying to forgive him, she doesn't understand his plight and what wrong she did..so lets see

and as per Nikhil and ishaana🤢 no comments😡 cvs...😡
I feel even Laajo too happy was not good thing to show, though I like the song, how next few months will shape is hint by that song
pre cap was interesting, lets see how it goes from there



@bold: Exactly!! He didn't do anything wrong that he needs to be forgiven for. It was an accident, pure and simple and until she recognizes and understands this she will not ever truly get past the feeling she has that Nikhil was responsible...The other reason (from FB's) is that not only did she figure that Nikhil at the tender age of 7 (I always thought they said he was 10 but that's a mute point - I'm sure the CM's will keep changing the age to suit themselves😛) would be able to hang on to his older and obviously heavier brother while trying to keep himself on the rooftop, BUT she also blames him for him and Akash being on the roof in the first place. She has assumed that it was Nikhil that instigated his brother into going onto the roof as apparently (according to Barka) that is not something Akash would have thought up or done on his own. So even if she could overlook the fact that he may not have been strong and old enough to hold onto his brother, in the end he is still to blame because she has wrongly assumed that Nikhil is the one to get his brother to go onto the roof in the first place.

I for one am glad that Nikhil has not forgiven her right now. As Nani says, she's expecting to much. She has neglected her own son for the past 15 years and she figures that reaching out to him once will make up for all that😡😡😡🤪


No comment about Nikhil and Ishana as I found it hard to digest their scenes (although I realize they are necessary) but I did find some happiness seeing Nikhil standing by the fish tank in deep thought (I am assuming he was standing there thinking of Laajo before Ishana came and grabbed his attention again).

And I can't wait to watch Laajo's upcoming journey with her schooling!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Barkha's role adds intrigue to the show, yes we see that she has been unfair to Nikhil. Barkha is the grown up version if Ishana. A person whose every whim every wish was met by her parents and in doing so made a spoilt brat into a spoilt adult. Nikhil's Dad was a perfect choice of a meek and mild husband for her, somebody that she could dominate. Ishana too is searching for a similar person in her life.
I suppose that nowadays we have trained bereavement counselling and therapy to iron out mental issues related to death and grief is a very good option.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parm.



@bold: Exactly!! He didn't do anything wrong that he needs to be forgiven for. It was an accident, pure and simple and until she recognizes and understands this she will not ever truly get past the feeling she has that Nikhil was responsible...The other reason (from FB's) is that not only did she figure that Nikhil at the tender age of 7 (I always thought they said he was 10 but that's a mute point - I'm sure the CM's will keep changing the age to suit themselves😛) would be able to hang on to his older and obviously heavier brother while trying to keep himself on the rooftop, BUT she also blames him for him and Akash being on the roof in the first place. She has assumed that it was Nikhil that instigated his brother into going onto the roof as apparently (according to Barka) that is not something Akash would have thought up or done on his own. So even if she could overlook the fact that he may not have been strong and old enough to hold onto his brother, in the end he is still to blame because she has wrongly assumed that Nikhil is the one to get his brother to go onto the roof in the first place.

I for one am glad that Nikhil has not forgiven her right now. As Nani says, she's expecting to much. She has neglected her own son for the past 15 years and she figures that reaching out to him once will make up for all that😡😡😡🤪


No comment about Nikhil and Ishana as I found it hard to digest their scenes (although I realize they are necessary) but I did find some happiness seeing Nikhil standing by the fish tank in deep thought (I am assuming he was standing there thinking of Laajo before Ishana came and grabbed his attention again).

And I can't wait to watch Laajo's upcoming journey with her schooling!!!

I think parm way they said 15 years is because in flash backs we know how his mom had favoritism, she loved akash more and openly said so to a small child, that did not help one bit for whatever happened later, Nikhil feels his mom loved Aakash more and is more angry that why he did not fall instead of Aakash .It is a huge psychological problem and Barkha has long way to go before both she and Nikhil can find their closure. But I also feel Barkha loves Nikhil in her own twisted way.we wil be shown her journey also ,am very much interested to watch that as well.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: londonkababu

Barkha's role adds intrigue to the show, yes we see that she has been unfair to Nikhil. Barkha is the grown up version if Ishana. A person whose every whim every wish was met by her parents and in doing so made a spoilt brat into a spoilt adult. Nikhil's Dad was a perfect choice of a meek and mild husband for her, somebody that she could dominate. Ishana too is searching for a similar person in her life.

I suppose that nowadays we have trained bereavement counselling and therapy to iron out mental issues related to death and grief is a very good option.

yes barkha and Nikhil's relationship is very unique thing in the show, they have this superficially normal relationship with huge flaws. Actually apart from Laajo Nikhil track one track I am, looking forward to is this one, it is still long way to go . And About Ishaana her selfishness is what makes barkha feel ok about her relationship with Nikhil, somehow she cannot bear that Nikhil can have some one as selfless as Laajo in his life, she somehow wants to punish Nikhil for being married and alive while Aakash is no longer there.

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