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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Neel in yesterday epi Sandhya is thinking about Sirjee's words. That means there will be a growth in her character. We will have to wait.

From a less confident Sandhya she has atleast got some self belief now. Now Sirjee had made her realize family is her weakness. Between duty and family Sandhya will choose only family which is not the hallmark of an IPS officer.

It is not after marriage Sandhya is like this. Her marriage itself was succumbing to her brother's emotional atyachaar that her bhabi will be seperated from him. So Sandhya as a person wants to be the ideal sister, bahu, patni everything and for this she will keep her duty secondary.

Sandhya needs to be shown coming out of this and dunno what CVs have planned for that.


I think Sandhya still not convince that family comes after and her duty comes first, she still thinks she can handle both side by side, which in reality is utterly wrong, but in the show CVs can do anything, just like how Sandhya got the star performer award and here she is all lovey dovey Bahu and Bhabi. Truly, because Zakir got injured and luckily Sandhya performed well to get that award. Zakir's injury gave Sandhya that opportunity to show her performance... It was like her lucky break..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeelM


I think Sandhya still not convince that family comes after and her duty comes first, she still thinks she can handle both side by side, which in reality is utterly wrong, but in the show CVs can do anything, just like how Sandhya got the star performer award and here she is all lovey dovey Bahu and Bhabi. Truly, because Zakir got injured and luckily Sandhya performed well to get that award. Zakir's injury gave Sandhya that opportunity to show her performance... It was like her lucky break..

i agree 100 % i thought i m the only one who dint like the idea of asking for the leave it wasnt some cycle race or other unnecessary task... it was about shooting ! shooting and gun are very important for an IPS its as important as sword is to a knight ! how will she cope with her problem post IPS it was really crucial ? but i guess cv will provide her a special coach as a reward for her undying love and dedication towards her family !
btw in the task i felt roma and zakir did a extra bit of effort they were the one who were injured and tired still they carry out ! Roma's feet were bruised and crumpled in the end she even fell while taking two buckets of water but still she stood up and completed her task ! kudos to her ! i wish if Officer Singh had given their share of credit as well !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think Sandhya still not convince that family comes after and her duty comes first, she still thinks she can handle both side by side, which in reality is utterly wrong, but in the show CVs can do anything, just like how Sandhya got the star performer award and here she is all lovey dovey Bahu and Bhabi. Truly, because Zakir got injured and luckily Sandhya performed well to get that award. Zakir's injury gave Sandhya that opportunity to show her performance... It was like her lucky break..

i agree 100 % i thought i m the only one who dint like the idea of asking for the leave it wasnt some cycle racing or other unnecessary task... it was about shooting ! shooting and gun are very important for an IPS its as important as sword is to a knight ! how will she cope with her problem post IPS it was really crucial ? but i guess cv will provide her a special coach as a reward for her undying love and dedication towards her family !
btw in the task i felt roma and zakir did a extra bit of effort they were the one who were injured and tired still they carry out ! Roma's feet were bruised and crumpled in the end she even fell while taking two buckets of water but still she stood up and completed her task ! kudos to her ! i wish if Officer Singh had given their share of credit as well !

Well said, Sandhya has to take her IPS taking as her first priority, and needs to learn each and every side of it well.
I felt Roma and all others gave their 100% too. However, CVs need to show that Sandhya attended her loving Chhavi's wedding, to make her Bhabo the great and her dearest saint Chhavi very happy.
I felt Sandhya shouldn't even gor for IPS training.

I'll not be surprised if someday we see Sandhya running after a chor, and bhabo calling her to wash Sooraj's cooking pan. 😆


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said, Sandhya has to take her IPS taking as her first priority, and needs to learn each and every side of it well.
I felt Roma and all others gave their 100% too. However, CVs need to show that Sandhya attended her loving Chhavi's wedding, to make her Bhabo the great and her dearest saint Chhavi very happy.
I felt Sandhya shouldn't even gor for IPS training.

I'll not be surprised if someday we see Sandhya running after a chor, and bhabo calling her to wash Sooraj's cooking pan. 😆



yes sometimes i wonder wat is the mssg cv giving to us ...Ideal Bahu -is it a bondage or is it a liberation ? is it about flying free in the sky or is it about learning to live ideally in the caged condition ? living the life as per one's wish is it selfishly or is it her right to live ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Neel as a person Sandhya believes family is her first priority like any other woman. All women believe they can do equally well in both areas and live a pressure cooker life. As a career woman I know that you need to let go of something at both ends to have a balanced life.
What if tomorrow a riot breaks and Sandhya has to break her Karvachowth fast. What will she do. Will she be at riot place or karvachowth fast. If she goes to riot place how Bhabo will be handled.

To be frank there are certain areas where the husband can draw the line and wife also needs to communicate the difficulties to her hubby. Sandhya deosnt speak anything about Bhabo's illogical demands to Sooraj. That is what I dont like about her. Why she cant tell him Bhabo called and told me I need to be there. Allow him to handle Bhabo and dont jump in yourself.

She needs to learn this. To allow Sooraj to handle certain things. He has proven time and again he can handle Bhabo in his own way only if she allows him. But she always land him in catch 22 position with her I am Mahan attitude.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Neel as a person Sandhya believes family is her first priority like any other woman. All women believe they can do equally well in both areas and live a pressure cooker life. As a career woman I know that you need to let go of something at both ends to have a balanced life.

What if tomorrow a riot breaks and Sandhya has to break her Karvachowth fast. What will she do. Will she be at riot place or karvachowth fast. If she goes to riot place how Bhabo will be handled.

To be frank there are certain areas where the husband can draw the line and wife also needs to communicate the difficulties to her hubby. Sandhya deosnt speak anything about Bhabo's illogical demands to Sooraj. That is what I dont like about her. Why she cant tell him Bhabo called and told me I need to be there. Allow him to handle Bhabo and dont jump in yourself.

She needs to learn this. To allow Sooraj to handle certain things. He has proven time and again he can handle Bhabo in his own way only if she allows him. But she always land him in catch 22 position with her I am Mahan attitude.




I totally agree with your statements at bold.

As a career woman I feel everyone should choose a career which suited her best with her social and family environments. As far we see Sandhya's mentality towards her family and Bhabo's vachans, I guess she chose a wrong profession, even though it was her dream.

I agree that women do balanced in their family and work, but there are certain profession you cannot balance, because in those profession you have to be ready 24/7. It is not like 9-5 job. On top of it in this profession one has to be dedicated and always ready for transfer. Which will be create a huge riot in RP.

Though I love Sandhya, respect her dreams, her dedications towards her family and her work, but in given unfortunate situations (except Sooraj) she should kill her dream and become a kindergarten teacher in HG.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Exactly Neel. I too love Sandhya for her fighting spirit and never say die attitude. But Bhabo is her achilles heel. Only one person can deal with this Achilles heel and that is Sooraj.
She needs to learn to trust Sooraj more. Sooraj will not get hurt if she speaks to him about Bhabo's demand and ask him his suggestion. He might have a better way to handle it.
But her problem is she fears , she fears losing Sooraj if she speaks about Bhabo. There is a fear in that subconscious mind because after that 15 day test when she cried at Bhabo's mis treatment of her what she got was Sooraj Version 2 who tried to liberate her from marriage. Sandhya who was orphaned at a tender age doesnt have it in her to deal with another trauma of losing a loved one.
Solution to her present problem is only one thing as per me. She should be on the verge of losing Sooraj once again and she cannot do anything about it. And then when Sooraj stands by her she will overcome the trauma and will be a confident person once again.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Exactly Neel. I too love Sandhya for her fighting spirit and never say die attitude. But Bhabo is her achilles heel. Only one person can deal with this Achilles heel and that is Sooraj.

She needs to learn to trust Sooraj more. Sooraj will not get hurt if she speaks to him about Bhabo's demand and ask him his suggestion. He might have a better way to handle it.
But her problem is she fears , she fears losing Sooraj if she speaks about Bhabo. There is a fear in that subconscious mind because after that 15 day test when she cried at Bhabo's mis treatment of her what she got was Sooraj Version 2 who tried to liberate her from marriage. Sandhya who was orphaned at a tender age doesnt have it in her to deal with another trauma of losing a loved one.
Solution to her present problem is only one thing as per me. She should be on the verge of losing Sooraj once again and she cannot do anything about it. And then when Sooraj stands by her she will overcome the trauma and will be a confident person once again.


Once I mentioned about her fear. She lost her parents, than her brother cheated, marriage in an unfit family, on top Bhabo's screaming blah... overnight Sandhya transforms from parents ladli to an unfit bahu in such a rotten family she never thought off.

Already she has a long way to go for keeping up with her work and family, now this Kavita is going to create more problem, BTW, Bhabo is the one who invited her Kavita ji in the family.

No offense to Bhabo's lover.. I hate this two faces, manipulative, arrogant, dictator with no shame Bhabo 🤢

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