hhmm..erm..mmm..blah..boo..7th march - Page 6

Originally posted by: uma111

Myra , misti

loved your updates.

Laughed my head off.

👏

uma

Originally posted by: Angie12

Since I am quite late, just will post some random observations.

1. Agnihotri sons - Shlok and Varad are very self centered either because of the environment they have been brought up in or because of their past or both. Also they have made themselves so much of victims that they fail to see miseries of others.drama queens..

So first it was Shlok who was furious at Astha talking about remaining one month or having at smiley board. Shlok was hurt that Astha still was thinking about leaving him, but he failed to notice her sadness. Also what makes him think that any girl would want to live a life that he is forcing Astha to live - do all the duties of a DIL, respect his baba and care for his family, yet she is not given any rights of his wife and sleeps on a floor on his room. He is expecting her to understand his hidden feelings that he is unable to express. So he tears up the poster and tells Aditi though he is really telling it to Astha that he would not let her leave her ever. But he is also not giving her any reasons to stay when he keeps on dashing her hopes.very true, thats y she needs to leave him for a while

Then later on he is furious at her for trying to know about his past through underhanded means. Anybody would get mad at such low tactics, but he fails to see or does not want to see that Astha is girl who is open in her dealings and does not go for such methods. But it suits him to think this way because he then does not have to face any unpleasant truths about himself or his household.

He is rightly furious about Astha losing an important file. If Astha is supposed to be a partner or even work in a office, she should make sure that files are kept secure. Here she did see the file and remembered the importance of it, but was careless enough to lose it. However, knowing that the file was important, he did not lift a finger to help find it. Instead he was barking orders at Astha to find it and himself was just waiting for it to appear. This is a height of a spoilt behavior. He expects Astha to care for him or to understand him when he makes no effort to do so himself.agreed to everyth here

Then there is Varad who has conveniently put Astha on a pedestal. It seems that he is one lazy bum who does not want to do anything but want to get benefits. It is Sojal who thinks about getting things for her daughter. He stays in Kavya's good books because he praises her or is sweet towards her. But then does not do anything to improve her life. When Anjali had punished Kavya, he showed his displeasure to Anjali by refusing to take food from her, but did not forbid her to not give corporal punishment to Kavya. Today he was telling Kavya that she should participate in games that are considered "boy" games in Agnihotri household, but it is Sojal who is supposed to get permission from his mother. When Sojal insulted him, his ego got hurt and he started comparing her unfavorably with Astha, knowing fully well that Astha is being treated special by Niranjan because of him trying to control Shlok. So Astha is just a means for Varad to use against his personal wars with Sojal. He expects two women (both not related to Agnihotris by blood) to fight all the battles of Agnihotris and right the wrongs that are practiced in this regressive household.

Of course less said about Vinayak, the better. He likes to lecture but does not raise to finger to help anybody. some times i wonder how can they even breathe on their own..cant the women do that aswell for them?? i cant wait to c their faces when all the women will leave them eventually or fight back..

2. Anjali - She and Shlok are very much similar. They have their own issues and take out their frustrations on somebody else. She is repressing Sojal so much where even small desires of Sojal are not being fulfilled. Sojal had compromised with her situation before Astha came. But Astha's arrival has brought out in open the empty life Sojal is living where she is getting food 4 times a day or has a husband who has kept relations with her to give her a child. But that is it. She does not have either the freedom to buy the food she wants or to cook it the way she wants it. She gets jewelry, clothes etc. but it is not of her choice and there is no freedom for her in choosing it. The husband is there but he is the one who neither respects her nor appreciates her efforts (even if they are measly or many times due to her own interests). So a girl from a shaky background (Jaya the user is her mother) would get highly insecure and retailiate. Astha is the enemy because it is due to Astha she has seen the mirror of her true life. interesting point angie

Anjali is given no freedom by Niranjan and she in turn gives no freedom to Sojal. Similarly, Anjali is scared of Niranjan and here Sojal is scared of Anjali. But Sojal is being pushed so much that she is reaching a point where she has nothing to lose. She used to be close to her daughter but now is alienating her own child because of her own insecurities. The more she is alienating her child, the more that Sojal is feeling rebellious. So Anjali is creating a monster becaues of her own behavior, but Anjali is so wrapped up in her own misery that she fails to realize that she has made somebody's life so miserable.totally agreed, when this circle will be broken?

3. Jyoti is another character who is being pushed to the wall. I felt as if she and her child are sacrificial lambs that are being fattened for a big slaughter. Jyoti is also sitting on a time bomb that would explode when the gender of her baby would be revealed. On top of that, there is no more respite for her from Abhay who is now pinning hopes on a heir. Jyoti is being reminded again and again that she is supposed to produce a shadow of Abhay. Jyoti needs to escape, but unfortunately her confidence is so broken because of the family she is from. She did raise courage to call Astha but even that did not work out. Hopefully, she would escape because right now Astha and Shlok are too wrapped up in their own issues to pay any attention to Jyoti. Again Shlok is being too self centered when he can not think beyond his own issues to think about the sister whom he had vowed to protect.thats one of the things i hate abt him..why is ego minimized his love for his sibling..

4. Niranjan - He is being too overconfident in his control over both Anjali and Shlok. He fails to realize that Shlok's interactions with him have started changing. There is a change in demeanor of Shlok when he talks to Niranjan. He is distant from him and seems to only communicate with him "as needed" basis. yes again.. his fairy tale has gone bad.. nd he isnt aware of that.. i like it..

Finally, there is Aditi who actually is not interesting me.same here I feel as if the story changed somewhere after the valentine day. That's why suddenly five months have passed and suddenly Astha is shown as passive.yes Previously, Astha was working proactively to find out Shlok's past and now suddenly Aditi is driving the events. Too much mystery shown around Aditi is not working out. Either they need to disclose to viewers about Niranjan being the one or they have to resolve it. It is not making sense that a third person can come and suddenly can create issues. The whole Aditi thing is creating a big disconnect in the show as the characters who were gelling together so well are now shown in vaccum. Somehow I feel as if all shrewd characters are being brough down in order to accomodate Aditi in the story. So I am liking these scenes in isolation as I like characters , but the script is becoming very loose. very well said angie👏i feel the same, thank you for the lovely analysis😊

Originally posted by: jia.astk

@Myra: I didn't understand your title dear..what does it mean? does it mean whatever is happening in the story?...I feel that it is just going haywire!!yes, all those interjections are my reaction to the recent happenings and yday epi tangled state..

I felt 2 shots were done symbolically today: one is Astha shown next to Shlok's picture, but in this shot Astha was shown blurred when Shlok's picture is shown and viceversa. This means that Astha will eventually move away from Shlok's life. Second one is Astha putting pieces of greeting card together, this means that she will put the pieces of puzzle of Shlok's past together. And both of these will happen in the coming weeks. yes.. i am foping for the same

and I don't like Shlok's insolent and obnoxious behavior towards Astha anymore...eits kind of repetitive thats y he calls her choti dimaag..but does he apply his brain to see why all these are happening instead of blaming Astha all the time, she is like his punching bag.well he cant hit himself so goes on hitting whats closer..ashta

@Angie: so that was just random observations ..seemed very deep observation ...read it just in jiffy ..will catch up later.

Yes Anjali and Shlok are so much similar, their emotions, their temper all.

about NA ..perfectly said:

4. Niranjan - He is being too overconfident in his control over both Anjali and Shlok. He fails to realize that Shlok's interactions with him have started changing. There is a change in demeanor of Shlok when he talks to Niranjan. He is distant from him and seems to only communicate with him "as needed" basis.

@misti: I did not read your today's analysis yet..will read tonight if time permits ..but yesterday's one was good.

Originally posted by: Angie12

Myra, like your comments especially the comic comments.thank you Will respond leisurely over the weekend.oki doki

Misti, wow to see such detailed comments. Great analysis. Will respond once I fix my computer.u said ur pc is like shlokie, do tell ashta too how u fixed it😉

Originally posted by: bingyy

Myra ,whats with the title its my reaction to the epi and late happenings in the show , great post thanks

i m going to tell a real story about my one relative ,it may not be related to the show but still to make u understand how someone sometimes goes through in real life

my uncle aunt who lives in NYC had love marriage ,my aunt's family was totally against it ,they said the boy is not right for u but still she got married going against the whole family ,now the boy's family insulted the girl's family before marriage ,so they did not have settle marriage ,my aunt got married with uncle with his whole family present but none of her's were in that event

anyway they now have 2 boys but its almost 20 years of their marriage i guess but uncle abused my aunt regularly physically & mentally offcourse ,she is veryy educated woman ,when she wanted to have a career in her young age ,her husband abused her soo brutally that i cannot say ,i went to her place last time in NYC for an event ,she showed some of us her bruises that uncle gave her the previous day all over her hand ,neck ,face etc ,so she is still physically abused regularly even when she is now almost 50 years old ,her kids r grown up & the uncle sarcastically mocks her infront of everyone ,insults her & brings her down for nothing ,she is one strong woman emotionally even after soo much abuse she is sticking to her husband doing all her duties as a wife ,as a DIL ,as a SIL ,as a mother & all ,she did not go to social service as far i know ,her husband tried to break her spirit in every way possible ,he still is doing so, i asked her ,even now when she is abused regularly physically i asked her why u did not leave ??she said" i went against my family ,if i left what would i tell my family ? & also i have two sons ,i did not want to give them broken house & i still love him " those were her exact words ,did my uncle change after 20 years ???no ,he became even more worse now ,their's was a love marriage , & more to that there is also trust issues between them ,my uncle does not trust his wife ,he thinks she is characterless which is completely ridiculous & lie , so this is a real story that i know personally oh god, this gave me shivers.. i know such violent people exist..but whats more sad that she says she loves him still..


now back to the show ,its a fiction definitely & for pure entertainment but since the show is based on real issues like abuse on women ,they r showing it regularly ,whether its mental or physical

now i know shlok is not abusing astha physically but he did abuse astha mentally & is still doing so (by not giving her wifey rights & all) ,dont u think at some point if she stays like this , it will break her ???i think it will ,i m not saying people will learn from the show how to do abuse ,no they wont but showing abuse & showing that women r sticking to it ,whether its anjali ,jyoti or astha out of love or whatever ,its kind of encouraging & offensive ,if they r showing abuse ,they also need to show women overcoming it or walking out of such relationships rather than tolerating it,yes ofcourse i totally agree.. thats y i also want ashta to leave him for a while and come back only he is worthy of her love, admiting he was wrong and apollogize..he is not a bad soul, he needs a second chance..but he has to earn it too

in real life women cannot walk out easily but dont u think they need to show something positive that they r breaking the chain of abuse & actually they r walking out instead of sticking to it ,

i m not saying shloke is bad person like NA ,he is not & he has reasons for his actions like past & bringing up but that does not mean he should abuse astha the way he is abusing her since marriage one way or other (mentally) ,by getting her married to him for the rest of her life but not giving her wifey rights & love its one kind of abuse & that is also brutal ,its like ruining her whole life in a loveless relationship where he does not want to give her love or rights ,if astha sticks to him out of love or out of hope that he will change ,then its really lame ,it does not happen in real life that men change ,infact it encourages men that they can get away with everything ,shloke needs a reality check if he thinks he will continue this way & astha will remain sticking to him for the rest of her life like his mother

the makers r brave enough to bring out a real issue for a fiction ,then they should be brave enough to show that the female lead walking out of such marriage rather than sticking to it for the hopes of change in male lead ,its high time indian serials should show that rather than make astha being an proper wife & DIL doormat who always sacrifices her life & happiness for her husband or in laws ,takes abuse easily & tolerating it & sticking to relationships bcoz they will change the husband from bad ways you are right, but ashta isnt the usual heroine, am very curious how cvs planned to make this happen, break the circle of abuse i mean..

Thanks for your comments bingyy..i also want ashta to leave..but i want her more to come back, she wants this, shlok is her dream man..i want her dreams to get fulfilled, she deserves it

Originally posted by: Neelum.drashti

Sorry, i fell asleep...Happy women's day Myrathank you, happy womans day to you too🤗...do watch tb video of shlok i think he ends up believing its aastha playing pranks on him...nice postthanks neelum,k i will watch it😊

Originally posted by: Aas2727

Nice analysis myra n misti