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Originally posted by: love4ever

Hey Ekumeed,

Firstly, welcome dear! I would say very strong points you presented her in a wonderful fashion—and you sure are allowed to hold your opinion without offending anyone. You made some great arguments on why Kripa should marry Prithvi. I would like to share my views on this awesome topic.

Prithvi—sure is one of the kinds who would support his love all throughout without any doubt. It's amazing to see people who deeply care and maintain their trust through difficult periods of time. I would have surely supported you if Prithvi's love wasn't one-sided. He surely is a man who should deserve as much or should I say even more than what he gives.

As for Angad—it was disappointing to see him lose trust in his love. That was his biggest mistake in life that he did not have enough faith on his love to believe her. During the time of his misunderstanding—he was utterly insensitive, harsh and cruel beyond words…which was a despicable part of his character for he stooped very low with his words and actions. But then again, which human does not err? Every single one of us here makes mistakes in life. If all of us make mistakes…then should we simply condemn them for that? Wouldn't the world be filled with misery then? Our faults help us change, for we alter when we realize them. Even though Angad had lost faith in his love, he was ashamed of his own deeds. He fell in his own eyes for making Kripa's life a living hell. Remorse, regret, and guilt were filled in shortly—for his self esteem was terrible hit. He realized that by not trusting in his love, he had lost everything in life—everything that made his life paradise.

Angad—he was a prey to his family's game of life. Unfortunately for Angad, he was a victim for even though he tried to resist, he immediately fell after Kripa's one lie. Agreed Angad was severely ruthless without verifying the truth, but his repentance was even worse than his deeds. Shouldn't we forgive a person who knows the true meaning of repentance? If we didn't forgive people who made mistakes…then this world would be one chaotic place where we would see faulty people floating everywhere. Our heart tells us our mistakes and we should get a chance to rectify them—doesn't love tell us to do so? Isn't forgiveness the highest form of love? Love teaches us a lot…only if we are ready to learn.

Angad's, after knowing the truth, did everything possible to make Kripa's life. I am not saying that Prithvi's support should be neglected—for he was the only one who always stood beside her. All I am trying to say is that Kripa's heart never let go off Angad. Angad gained the ecstasy of life when love entered…but that love never exited. Indeed, it was love only that kept him going even after losing everything—fame, money, and family!

Ok, if you still disagree with me (I am not saying that u should agree, but just asking you to perceive from both sides)—don't you think Prithvi should deserve the same love as he always given. Prithvi's character has always been strong, for his beliefs are maintained. Should he marry a girl like Kripa, whose heart belongs to someone else? He might have done a lot for her, given her all the happiness and support, but he only created more and more respect in her heart—not LOVE. If by any chance, Kripa had fallen in love with prithvi—I could have still understood her marrying him, but she doesn't. Can she truly be happy with Prithvi if Angad settles in her every breath, every heartbeat? Doesn't Prithvi deserve some true happiness as well? Sure, he might be happy thinking that he has married the love of his life, but what is the guarantee of it in future?

Sure we all desire a life partner who should immensely love and have trust in us. But if you love someone so deeply even after his wrong-doings…would you forget him and just walk into a matrimonial bond with someone else? Doesn't love endure all the pain also? After all what true love has never gone through pain and agony? Indeed, I would say pain perfects love. You can't have everything beautiful happen to you, for then you would not realize the worth of courage.

Angad and Kripa are two such souls—who cannot exist happily without each other. They might be separate, but their souls will always be together. Both of them are always lost in each others thoughts and bitterly weep in solitude. Why is that? That's because their love is way too intense and powerful – both have suffered equally and now deserve happiness. Angad had made Kripa cry, but his soul wept too. Love does not mean blaming each other for their faults, but believes in seeing them beyond their imperfections.

In conclusion, Angad should marry Kripa—not Prithvi. Angad's love is mutual and not Prithvi's. Happiness can be restored, for I am sure Prithvi would also be happy to see Kripa happy…don't you agree? To me, Angad-Kripa are "two souls but one single thought, two hearts that beat as one."

-Love4ever!

Very well said, I couldn't have said it better....wow some strong points

Firstly, Welcome...secondly, you haven't offended anyone...your opinion is always welcome.


Great post, and stunning words by everyone who has replied.


Here's my take:


The difference between Angad and Prithvi…and I'm not talking about who stood by Kripa when she needed someone… I'm talking about the two of them on an individual basis.


Prthivi – although he never had a father figure in his life, he never lacked anything in life, he has a loving mother and sister, his sister is his best friend and his mother is a friend as well…he was never made to feel the loss of fatherly love…he was confident in his love for his family and his family's love for him. He grew up believing in the strength and power of love.


Angad – Angad had a complete family in the sense of both parents, yet he lacked the love that a parent bestows on a child, he doesn't have a close bond with his brother, he's mother is only concerned about his career, and frankly, in my eyes, his father neglected him…Angad grew up never knowing what love was (except that of Daadi), Angad grew up thinking that love was a term used to get what one wants…Angad was vulnerable in the aspects of love…its that vulnerability that won Kripa's love (after she found out about cynical Angad), and it's that vulnerability that his family used against him.


Kripa is to blame as well…had she been truthful and upfront with him he would have had no reason to doubt her…and then his family would have had no leg to stand on in the whole conspiracy.


Sure, Angad made the biggest mistake in not trusting his love for Kripa…he said so himself after finding out the truth…when he told Aaliyah "Ghalti meri hai, meine unpe wiswas kiya, unpe barosa kiya, lekin apne pyaar….apne pyar pe wiswaas nahi kiya." But the man has moved heaven and earth to atone for his mistakes…he has suffered just as much at the loss of his child, at the loss of Kripa's trust, her friendship and her love…he has taken every blow that she's given him and has cried in private for that…but he understood that she would want to move on with her life, and if she chose to do so without him, he was willing to spent his entire life in abject misery, just so that she would be happy.


You're saying that Prithvi was the one who stood by Kripa when she needed him the most…agreed, however, it was Angad that got Kripa the success she yearned for, if you remember, Prithvi had hit a wall in that department, with his funds being frozen, with him not getting sponsors for the show, with him not even getting a audience with Josh. – but I digress, because my point is not to bash Prithvi.


Prithvi has been the greatest of friends…but that's all he'll be to Kripa…a friend. Lets take Angad out of the picture for a minute…Kripa marrying Prithvi would be an injustice to him…he has been her support, her pillar of strength through all her heartaches, trials and tribulations…but despite all that, she doesn't love him as more then her best friend.


(Putting Angad back into the picture)A great guy like Prithvi deserves all the happiness in the world, he has the right to ask of his partner faithfulness, devotion and above all – love. Kripa can give him faithfulness, she can devote her life to him, but she can never give him the love he deserves, her mind, her body, her spirit, her soul will always be faithful to Angad, will always be devoted to Angad…She will always love Angad…plain and simple.


Love is blind, it doesn't see logic or reason….it leads you when you are in darkness, guiding you to the light, it is hope when you are alone and it is strength when you are down…love is life….


Love directs your course, and Kripa's road will always lead to Angad.


Angad is Kripa's life and Kripa is Angad's life…whether she were to marry Prithvi or not, that fact is undisputable, that fact is carved in stone…that fact can never be changed.


My point, after all my ramblings is that Kripa should marry Angad!


Cheers


Hafsa

Originally posted by: love4ever

Hey Ekumeed,



Firstly, welcome dear! I would say very strong points you presented her in a wonderful fashion—and you sure are allowed to hold your opinion without offending anyone. You made some great arguments on why Kripa should marry Prithvi. I would like to share my views on this awesome topic.

Prithvi—sure is one of the kinds who would support his love all throughout without any doubt. It's amazing to see people who deeply care and maintain their trust through difficult periods of time. I would have surely supported you if Prithvi's love wasn't one-sided. He surely is a man who should deserve as much or should I say even more than what he gives.

As for Angad—it was disappointing to see him lose trust in his love. That was his biggest mistake in life that he did not have enough faith on his love to believe her. During the time of his misunderstanding—he was utterly insensitive, harsh and cruel beyond words…which was a despicable part of his character for he stooped very low with his words and actions. But then again, which human does not err? Every single one of us here makes mistakes in life. If all of us make mistakes…then should we simply condemn them for that? Wouldn't the world be filled with misery then? Our faults help us change, for we alter when we realize them. Even though Angad had lost faith in his love, he was ashamed of his own deeds. He fell in his own eyes for making Kripa's life a living hell. Remorse, regret, and guilt were filled in shortly—for his self esteem was terrible hit. He realized that by not trusting in his love, he had lost everything in life—everything that made his life paradise.

Angad—he was a prey to his family's game of life. Unfortunately for Angad, he was a victim for even though he tried to resist, he immediately fell after Kripa's one lie. Agreed Angad was severely ruthless without verifying the truth, but his repentance was even worse than his deeds. Shouldn't we forgive a person who knows the true meaning of repentance? If we didn't forgive people who made mistakes…then this world would be one chaotic place where we would see faulty people floating everywhere. Our heart tells us our mistakes and we should get a chance to rectify them—doesn't love tell us to do so? Isn't forgiveness the highest form of love? Love teaches us a lot…only if we are ready to learn.

Angad's, after knowing the truth, did everything possible to make Kripa's life. I am not saying that Prithvi's support should be neglected—for he was the only one who always stood beside her. All I am trying to say is that Kripa's heart never let go off Angad. Angad gained the ecstasy of life when love entered…but that love never exited. Indeed, it was love only that kept him going even after losing everything—fame, money, and family!

Ok, if you still disagree with me (I am not saying that u should agree, but just asking you to perceive from both sides)—don't you think Prithvi should deserve the same love as he always given. Prithvi's character has always been strong, for his beliefs are maintained. Should he marry a girl like Kripa, whose heart belongs to someone else? He might have done a lot for her, given her all the happiness and support, but he only created more and more respect in her heart—not LOVE. If by any chance, Kripa had fallen in love with prithvi—I could have still understood her marrying him, but she doesn't. Can she truly be happy with Prithvi if Angad settles in her every breath, every heartbeat? Doesn't Prithvi deserve some true happiness as well? Sure, he might be happy thinking that he has married the love of his life, but what is the guarantee of it in future?

Sure we all desire a life partner who should immensely love and have trust in us. But if you love someone so deeply even after his wrong-doings…would you forget him and just walk into a matrimonial bond with someone else? Doesn't love endure all the pain also? After all what true love has never gone through pain and agony? Indeed, I would say pain perfects love. You can't have everything beautiful happen to you, for then you would not realize the worth of courage.

Angad and Kripa are two such souls—who cannot exist happily without each other. They might be separate, but their souls will always be together. Both of them are always lost in each others thoughts and bitterly weep in solitude. Why is that? That's because their love is way too intense and powerful – both have suffered equally and now deserve happiness. Angad had made Kripa cry, but his soul wept too. Love does not mean blaming each other for their faults, but believes in seeing them beyond their imperfections.

In conclusion, Angad should marry Kripa—not Prithvi. Angad's love is mutual and not Prithvi's. Happiness can be restored, for I am sure Prithvi would also be happy to see Kripa happy…don't you agree? To me, Angad-Kripa are "two souls but one single thought, two hearts that beat as one."

-Love4ever!

well said rinku di. as usual u said it perfectly. i agree and can't find anything u left out!

only thing, when three ( not including damini and mishti, aaliyah and dadi) people suffer because of a decision, it rather not happen esp when u hav a choice. if even one of the people would b happy after the marraige, i won't be so strongly against it.

another thing, kripa premise for her thinking is flawed. she believes she should marry him because she is obligated! is obligation a strong enough reason to marry someone and destroy many lives? no, i don't think so!

THEREFORE, KRIPA SHOULS RATHER REMAIN SINGLE RATHER THAN MARRY PRITHVI. OF COURSE, MARRYING ANGAD IS THE BEST!

Wow.... great analysis by everyone ....
Here is my humble take on ur take:

Not to fingerpoint just for the heck of it, but Kripa started this misunderstanding-avalanche when she lied and hid the facts from Angad (despite him having asked her point blank : R u hiding something?) ....... This stupidity or loyalty (call it what u will) on Krip's part is something which (in my eyes) is a strict NO NO.......no matter how mundane things are, U never hide them from your significant other ...... one thing led to another and things kinda snowballed outta control from there on ... but lets face it .... krips did not have the common sense to put her precious r/ship before her petty maslaas,she (very stupidly) butted into someone else's problem without telling Angad about it .... why risk such a precious r/ship ... I think it was immaturity on her part, as it was on his part : Both had a lot of understanding and growing up to do.

But to call a spade a spade, I feel that like Krips, Angad was a victim of circumstance, in fact more-so: But then he atoned for his sins (Good way or bad way --- that's for you to decide)... and I suppose became a better human being for it .... they both did ... and ended growing-up in the process....Life does knock sense into you this way doesnt it????

Next .... and more importantly .... why confuse luv with friendship& gratitude?

Krips loves one person: mind body and soul and the other .... well, she does not - despite all his sacrifices and his unfliching support...do these things change the fact that she sees him just as a friend and nothing more???? No, it does not.

Krips left Saint Prithvi once before (first engagement)......when she was younger and more immature.......(by my rationale). Even then (she had some sense) she listened to her heart ... and did not mistake Prithvi's f/ship as a filler for tru love... One is reminded of Roxanne & Cyrano.... and the woeful tale of Esmeralda & the hunchback....if only the lady would fall for the guy who wrote the beautiful poems to her and not for the guy who read them out to her instead .... or if only esmeralda would fall for the hunchback who pinned away in the towers of Notredame cathedral... In both instances, the lady goes for the man her heart chooses despite the purity of the other man's love and feelings ..Alas! Such is the fate of true love!


And my last reason ... if luv was to blossom b/w Kripa and Prthvi, surely, it would have by now .... does the man really hafta move mountains?? hasnt he done enuf already??? I think not .... But these developments have evidently NOT stirred Kripa to make this decision....which means that her committment to Angad .... on the love plane .... stands... It has NOT changed & is unlikely to .....

So my verdict .... she should go with her heart.... afterall, she really doesnt have a reason (now) to doubt her love, does she?? hmmmm... hope that made some sense!

no matter pritvi supported her but kripa shud marry angad because if their misunderstanding won;t have been cleared out so that time that was another point of view but she love him now and if she will marry prithvi it is cheating and 3 lifes will ruin

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

Not to fingerpoint just for the heck of it, but Kripa started this misunderstanding-avalanche when she lied and hid the facts from Angad (despite him having asked her point blank : R u hiding something?) ....... This stupidity or loyalty (call it what u will) on Krip's part is something which (in my eyes) is a strict NO NO.......no matter how mundane things are, U never hide them from your significant other ........

Hiya T!!!

You're right, they were both immature and wrong decisions were taken, Their biggest mistakes, the cause of the downfall of their relationships is Lack of communication but above that, their trusting natures towards their family (in Angads case) and their friends (Harshani, in Kripa's case). No matter how cynical your outlook in life, you would never expect your family and friends to betray you to the most elemental levels.

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

One is reminded of Roxanne & Cyrano.... and the woeful tale of Esmeralda & the hunchback....if only the lady would fall for the guy who wrote the beautiful poems to her and not for the guy who read them out to her instead .... or if only esmeralda would fall for the hunchback who pinned away in the towers of Notredame cathedral... In both instances, the lady goes for the man her heart chooses despite the purity of the other man's love and feelings ..Alas! Such is the fate of true love!

I must say, I love your comparisons here, each perfectly suited to the siutation that Kripa is in right now. 👏 👏 👏

Originally posted by: Angad_Diwani

And my last reason ... if luv was to blossom b/w Kripa and Prthvi, surely, it would have by now .... does the man really hafta move mountains?? hasnt he done enuf already??? I think not .... But these developments have evidently NOT stirred Kripa to make this decision....which means that her committment to Angad .... on the love plane .... stands... It has NOT changed & is unlikely to .....

Exactly!!!




Cheers

Hafsa