Lets Stop bashing Raman-PLZZ

HI, I'm new to this forum but old to india forums and from long time did not write anything. But from past few days I have been observing this discussion thread and realizing that POOR Raman is getting bad thrashing from everywhere.😭 See I agree he is rude , arrogant, manner less at times but guys lets understand his state of mind as well.

He is not bad he had been made into that because of his past and that too such bad past with bad experience. He trusted his wife, his boss blindly and what he got in return betrayel that too with so much of humiliation. It's natural for him to become like this and behave like this. We all know that he is bad from outside inside he has a warm heart. Then if you talk about being considerate of getting ishita married again to prateek after realizing his mistake (though it didn't worked out which was good for all ishra fans).

He always realizes his mistake and try to correct them but his character is like that which does not allow him to show it. Let's not forget that it was he who had given positive feedback to adoption center for Ishita.

He hates ishita to the core and so does ishita but still he got married to her just to win ruhi so lets give him some points as well and give him some time to settle guys.

I'm sure he will improve with time like it always happen😉

true the pleasant atmosphere of d forum is ruined by these useless bashing posts

People who expect Raman to start loving Ishita right away are expecting too much. Let's run thru what Ishita's subjected him to:

Agree with Vrish and lets not forget that whenever ashok bad mouthed Ishita ,Raman defended her though whatever equation he himself shared with her.

well i find Ramans behaviour quite expected under the circumstances to add to which its a fiction n there is bound to be over the top drama n extreme situations its not something unusual if u have watched dailies earlier 😆

Originally posted by: .Vrish.

People who expect Raman to start loving Ishita right away are expecting too much. Let's run thru what Ishita's subjected him to:

• Constantly interfering in his family live - Ruhi was his business, not hers
• Getting Ruhi handed over to Shagun, accompanied by a media circus
• Taking Ruhi, and insisting on doing duties like taking her in her car, buying her gifts, etc even though she was nobody of Ruhi's
• Her trashing Mihir @ Mihika's behest (granted, she too doesn't know the real Romi)
• Her getting Mihir arrested
• Her defending her mom against charges of suffocating Mrs Bhalla, even though it did happen - granted that it was a mistake
• Her believing Shagun's allegations regarding him & Aditya and marrying him only to come in b/w him & his daughter
• Her assuming that he wants to have sex w/ her, based on that condom

Despite that, he cares about Ishita when it really matters, like bandaging her hands, etc. He made no pretense of loving or even liking her, so it's not like Ishita doesn't know what to expect.

Let Ishita earn his trust first, and the way to do that is simple - start trusting him & his judgement.

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Well no one is bashing but just reflecting on his current behaviour and ishita under influence of Shagun does stupid even she will get criticised


And even Raman has done many things

Got her parents arrested

Tried to manhandle and slap her

Called her names

Ignored her at party and left her at her devices

Taunted her about her medical condition

And yes I agree ishita needs to get her blinkers off

Raman i had always felt was one of the most unique and intriguing character of this show that genuinely made me more interested in YHM. He has been shown to be a good man at heart who doesn't believe in showing off his goodness. But to decide whether he should be given benefit of doubt this time or not i need to watch tonight's epi.

Your post is very apt
We need to give him time to get over his bitter past and look into a brighter and happier future!!
He will regret his actions in the morning and try and make it up to ishita and ruhi 100%