Urmi has no backbone, what would you do?

Hey guys,

I have been following this show for a while, but I have never been active on this forum. This is my first post.

I don't know if I am the only one that feels this way, but is anyone more annoyed of Urmi than Samrat? I mean Samrat is just horrible. He has no respect for anyone whatsoever. He thinks the world owes him something because he made his business a huge success when in reality there are others who have done the same thing but they are not half as egoistic and rude. He's a pig who thinks he can use and abuse women as he pleases. The only time he is nice to Urmi is at night time so that he can sleep with her, which is filthy disgusting. I understand he is in the wrong, but I think Urmi has in many ways contributed to her misfortune. I realize that she didn't know how he was like when she got married to him, but how long does it take for someone to realize what kind of a person their husband is? She has been married for a couple of weeks now in the show and I am sure she should have some sort of clue as to what her husband is really like if not outright know what kind of a person he is. I am not sure if she doesn't want to accept that fact that her husband is such a pig or she just doesn't know what kind of a person he is? I am not sure why she feels the need to please him day in and day out. Yes, she is married to him, but that doesn't mean he owns her! I know she had these dreams of getting married to an amazing husband who loved and cared for her, but has her dream of a an "ideal" husband flawed her ability to judge good and bad? She bends down to Samrat's every demand. She is willing to defend his rude behavior. Of course, Ishaan doesn't help, but come on! How do you not know that your husband has no respect for you?

I am sorry for going on a rant. I am just a little confused as to why Urmi's character is being portrayed the way it is. I am not sure why she doesn't understand that her husband has no respect for anyone and I don't know why she isn't standing up for herself. I realize that she will eventually stand up for herself, but what is taking this girl so long? This then brings me to my question, if one you guys were married to someone like Samrat (god forbid), how long would it take for you to realize what kind of a person he was and then act upon what you know?

Riya

Totally agree with both of you. I think that his sister has something to do with his behaviour. His mother is his partner in crime. She feeds him what he wants to hear and corrupts his mind and supports him with his wrong doings.
I thinks that Urmi is waiting and watching. She has started to bring her points of conversation up forth. Her eyes shows that she is thinking. Those eyes will stop crying soon if the speed with which Sam is going does not stop. It is too early for her to split as she is a very soft person and is too overwhelmed. She will gather her guts (hoping that Trisha comes back into her life soon) and bring this idiot to taste his medicine.

I agree with your post...I really want her character to be stronger. Having a weak lead is not entertaining at all. However, I think she is a great actor that knows how to act👍🏼