Various Facets of a Mother's Life...

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Yeah I know half of the forum is dead after watching that killer precap including me 😆☺️ but I want to die fully on Monday only after watching the whole episode 😆😳 , so today I will rather discuss a serious topic 😳 ... The topic is Motherhood .. The episode today highlights the various definiton of Motherhood ...



We have Rudra's Mother who left Rudra in childhood , reason why today he is so bitter towards life and dont want to believe in any relationships anymore .. In fact he has become so aloof that he dont feel any sort of emotions or sympathy when he sees Chachi sa blasting that poor Mythili over motherhood issues ,.. He just dont want to get involved in any sort of topics that r related to motherhood anymore because of his mother who left for reasons better known to her only ..


Then we have Mohini who is also a mother of two sons and she does love her sons too but her love is so selfish that she always wants to keep her domination intact over her both sons without really caring about their wishes or happiness , reason why her one son Samrat has turned out to b spineless , torn betweenn his mother and wife while other son Sumer has turned out to b rowdie types who even though acts like a momma's boy but secretly wants to sell away the haveli without letting his mother know about it ...


Then we have Maithili who is longing to b a mother of a kid for a long time now but is not able to experience that joy and happiness 😭 thanks to the hypocratic thoughts of her mother-in-law and a spineless husband who has no voice of his own ... She wants to feel complete from inside as a woman by becoming a mother but its such a sad irony that Mohini who is also a mother is against the idea just because she does not want a adopted heir for her family ... This is why one says a woman is only a worst enemy of another woman


Then we have Parvati , who is a young woman , lost her parents in childhood , her own Mamiji who brought her up like her own daughter also disowned her today , yet as a woman she stands up for Maithili so that she can experience motherhood in life 👍🏼 .. Not only she gives courage and confidence to Maithili to speak up but she also stands storng and gives it back to Mohini today about her hypocracy related to motherhood 👏👏👏...


I m loving the way CVs r portraying various faces of a woman as a mother 👍🏼 .. If Rudra's mother remains a mystry , then Mohini reflects the typical dominating and controlled mother who wants to keep her sons under her wings forever 😆 , while Maithili reflects many of those woman who r longing to expereince motherhood but r deprieved of it due to our hypocritical society ...Parvati has witnessed it all in last few weeks and so as a woman she has started to feel strongly about the family now reason why today she got involved in the whole issue knowing that Rudra wont like it ..


Though Rudra might not like how Parvati got involved in this mess and how she actually told Maithili about her Mamiji ,. but what Rudra saw today was totally in contrast to his beliefs about women ... He assumes Mothers r either like Mohini or like his mother .. But instead he saw two women today ..Maithili and Parvati both defining Motherhood in such a respectful manner thus changing the entire prejudiced thought process of Rudra about a Mother ... Like I said he might not openly admit or appreciate all this but today's episode will definitely hold a significance for future when he will remember the way both Maithili and Parvati defending themselves against Mohini about Motherhood ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


Rudra took the slap today because his heart knows Parvati was right in supporting Miathili today 😳😳.. Like I said in my yesterday's take , a slap wont really kill anyone 😆 , so Rudra cant give the excuse of how he stood in front and took the slap to save Paro's life as she is his witness blabla 😉😆 ; He took the slap because he knows Parvati was right today ...


Overall quite a interesting episode and I m glad the whole issue of adoption is given importance because this problem still exists in our society .. there r many couples who cannot hv kids and want to adopt a kid but family pressure and society opposition gets to them .. So I hope in the end CVs give this a positive conclusion with Samrat and Maithili showing enough courage to go and adopt a baby because its NOT wrong 👍🏼 ... I know there r alternatives like surrogacy and stuffs , but those r quite costly and a normal middle class family cannot afford all that ... So Adoption route is actually easy and it can actually secure life of a orphan kid too .. So why not ? 😊


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very nice post!👏
Make one more today😛
Various facets of a SON'S LIFE
Samrat (As if his his mommy wont give him toffee if he opens his mouth when 'bade log' speak), Sumer, Rudra- Ek se badkar ek namoone milenge😛
And then make one on the tragic life of brothers-
Our Danveer and Ranwat - Danveer especially, his wife stayed with him🤢 No wonder he's gone deaf and doesn't react to Mohini's uselessness. 🤢

Edited by .Chanchan. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Chanchan.

Very nice post!👏

Make one more today😛
Various facets of a SON'S LIFE
Samrat (As if his his mommy wont give him toffee if he opens his mouth when 'bade log' speak), Sumer, Rudra- Ek se badkar ek namoone milenge😛
And then make one on the tragic life of brothers-
Our Danveer and Ranwat - Danveer especially, his wife stayed with him🤢 No wonder he's gone deaf and doesn't react to Mohini's uselessness. 🤢



OMGG Thats hilarious 😆😆 .. I should make one everyday now ,.. it will help in activity too 😉😆😆 .. true the show is giving quite a funny as well as serious take into various relationships

U hv Daanver who is dukhi and pareshan because his wife is with him and u hv Dilsher who is dukhi frustrated and pareshan because his wife is not with him 😆😆

u hv Samrat who still goes all wet listening to his mother's screams 😆 , u hv Sumer who might hit on any moving object that looks like a woman thanks to his mother's negative influence and u hv Rudra who will give u 200 volts ka shocks everyday thanks to his mother's non-existance
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Posted: 11 years ago
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The episode was too OTT for my taste but I like your post as always great take on motherhood! 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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LOVED how you explained it SO well jyoti..!👏 The various facets of Mother <3

LOVELY post..!! ❤️
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: PhoenixRising

The episode was too OTT for my taste but I like your post as always great take on motherhood! 👏



well Mohini's drama was a bit too OTT but I feel Trp viewers will like it since CVs did take up a social issue related to adoption 🤔
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Originally posted by: CandYlicious_S

LOVED how you explained it SO well jyoti..!👏 The various facets of Mother <3

LOVELY post..!! ❤️



Thanks a lot dear 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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beautiful ! The way Paro elevated role of a mother actually surprised Rudra.

I loved the way you portrayed in the post the contribution of all mothers here in shaping up the characters of their kids and the scars left behind in the process👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I hated and loved this episode. I hated it because it was everything ekta shows are famous for, interfering heroine, and a vile poison spitting character. But taking away all that I was more interested in Rudra expressions. He cares if you see how his expressions softened when dragon woman tore the pictures he was sad for Maithilli and during the whole gut wrenching dhamaka his expressions changed from disgust at such ugly soul crushing dialogues, sympathy for a woman/mother pleading to be understood, warning at Paro, fury at her give away too much info about herself, understanding and I also felt he was slightly proud at Paro reasoning she was connecting with him and he understood her points.

Being involved in family drama for a man not used to people is not Rudra's thing. You can clearly understand why he doesn't believe in concept of family other than his own dad he includes no one in his inner circle. Imagine living under someone like Mohini he must be thinking good riddance I am glad to be on my own if family means being tortured like this, his life was spared. He might have been lonely but atleast he had freedom to do his own thing, make his own choices right or wrong, he is a self made man who is sure of himself unlike samrat and sumer. His dad might not have raised him with a lot of love, but making him fend for himself has made Rudra tough, a man of convictions so in the end his dad really did him a favour. If his mom stuck around he would not be the man he is today, he might have grown up spoiled and molly coddled, so hopefully someday when he is made peace with his life he can look back and be glad that he was given the opportunity to make something out of his life away from this suffocating haveli. All Rudra needs is someone like Paro who can love him unconditionally and call as family as for rest of the rat pack he is better off without them.

I am totally in Rudra corner on this one, he did feel genuine sympathy for Maithilli cause, but he knows how vile his aunt is and Paro actions has put her in the firing squad of poison ivy. His priority is Paro and Paro only protecting her and winning the case not to take up social causes. The way Paro acted is not her at all totally out of character, but even if they justify her stance I only see suffering for Rudra in this because the slap is the tip of the iceberg of hurt Rudra will have to endure on her behalf. By taking up Maithilli cause Paro is going to hurt the one person that will walk through fire for her and he doesn't deserve what is coming to him via dragon lady. This is the hallmark of all ekta shows heroine taking up causes messing them up and in the end it is the poor heroes who suffer and clean up their mess. Poor Rudra is going to be sick with worry for Paro from now on because if he knows his aunt she is going to take the fight to his doorstep and it is going to rain bullets on him. My heart broke for poor Maithlli but if Paro did not speak and she listened to Rudra then maybe the elder men could have walked away from this diffused the current bomb and thought of some plan. But the more paro spoke the more she worsened Maithlli cause because dragon lady hates her by extension of Rudra and she was adding oil to fire. Dilsher is right Paro was the biggest fool today and now everyone is going to pay the price for her folly. Dragon lady is on the war path she is going to feed Paro to the vultures and Paro has no one to blame but herself.
Edited by loveanime - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinken

beautiful ! The way Paro elevated role of a mother actually surprised Rudra.

I loved the way you portrayed in the post the contribution of all mothers here in shaping up the characters of their kids and the scars left behind in the process👏



Yeah it was quite interesting the way CVs portrayed a live demonstration of all types of mother right in front of Rudra's eyes and he saw whom Paro showed her strong support too ... so his prejudiced belief about how all mothers r either like his mother or like Mohini is not totally right which he did realise today 😳

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