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Ruhi Khan

@THiNKiN OF YOU

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Posted: 18 years ago

thanks for the advice

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kajal

@Peanutt Butterr

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Posted: 18 years ago

hmmm...that's rly tough one but i think u sud let her go with him...and that will make her realize wat a gr8 frend u r cos even though u lyk that person u gave up just to allow her to go with him....to make her happy..... 😃 😃

but if this guy wants to go with u ,then u go wid him.... 😉 😉

hope that helped u and have a gr8 tym dear... 😳 😳

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devilangel

@devilangel

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Posted: 18 years ago

you shouldnt care about what people think..

its all about what you think.. but in this case if i were you i would let your friend go with your best friend.. and not go with him.. its just a dance after all, and if he has feelings for you.. he will prob. ask you out after that cuz he will realise that he missd you

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Ruhi Khan

@THiNKiN OF YOU

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Posted: 18 years ago

well id ont know what to do cause its my LAST dance ever!
im not even going to any dances in high skool!
not even prom! 😭

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mesmerized

@mesmerized

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Posted: 18 years ago

DTS REALLY TOUGH

what i suggest u do is talk do ur friend tell her abt how u feel abt him n u feel/ know he feels da me abt u ..n if u can sacrifice da guy 4 her if u had 2 then am sure she can (if she is a real friend) let u be wiv him

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ajeebhotum

@ajeebhotum

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Posted: 18 years ago

ohh...a tough situation to be in

what i suggest is letting your friend takethe guy..thats will make her realise what a true friend you are..now if the guy doen't have feelings for her..

thats a diff thing..but even if he doen't..i suggest not going with him..

because even if your friend says it's ok..she is hurting from the inside..

-Rachna

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GoodGoneWrong

@GoodGoneWrong

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Posted: 18 years ago

If you like the guy and he likes you, sweetheart there is no cause to let a third person come in...I would talk to my friend...and if she does not understand or accept the fact that the guy wants to be with you and not her...then she is not really a very good friend.

I talk from experience...if a friend insists that you convince your guy (i use your due to ur mutual affection) to go out with her...then she will always want you to accomodate her

And honey, is it really worth it? is the final question to u.

So my advice - tell ur friend the truth about ur relation with the guy, whatever it is. And tell her how maybe she should try to move on...it will be hard, but the fact is the guy likes you.

If she still insists, choose the guy over the friend. Friends are supposed love and respect ur choices not demand a share.

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shivani

@Miss.Colorfull

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Posted: 18 years ago

talk to ur friend about it like ask her if she is okay with
you about going out with guy she likes. tell her everything that u don,t want to hurt her and u are only asking cuz u care about ur friendship more . i think ur friend will understand just talk to her. it,s the best way. 😳 😳 😳

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Vaishnavi (YSH)

@~Sirius*Ysh~

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Posted: 18 years ago

well i suggest you talk it out like many people have said
if she is a great friend you will be able to come to an agreement.
but face the facts dear, either way someone is gonna b hurt and no i dont mean the guy... and i think it will be weird for you to just walk up to the guy and ask him who he wants to go with...

so you both will have to come to an agreement but my advice is go for it! why do u have to act like a martyr? its tough to do that and i knw... i mean u dont have to let her go with ur crush just cos he is her crush to prove ur friendship! there are so many other ways to do that!

so i say take the chance and base it on a purely first-cum-fisrt-served basis and just say that you asked him first and cannot back out now cos u dont want to go dateless to the ball and that it is really mean of her to ask you to do that!

Simple!

Hope i helped

-❤️Ysh❤️-

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Vaishnavi (YSH)

@~Sirius*Ysh~

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Posted: 18 years ago

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*****sorry😳 double post 😳*****

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