Kumud's decision to bring LN back

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would like to know whether I am the only one who thinks Kumud made the right decision in calling LN or do others here feel the same?

I agree this means saras is hurting and it has brought many of fears and pain back to life but many factors since LN came have shown that Saras still cares for him.

1. Saras was intently listening to whether LN has accepted Danny kusum marriage or not
2. As per on location vid, he burnt his hand to protect his dad

LN feels guilty for what happened. Worse is that letter was never written by saraswati was it? Didn't Gumaan write it?

If he hadn't had the affair then maybe saraswati wud be alive but why didn't she think abt his son? He wudve hated LN maybe but atleast he wudve had his mother and maybe one day LN would've come back to them.

LN is not a bad person and some of Saras's qualities are due to LN!

N this wedding was perhaps just as important to LN as to Saras...it's LN who wanted Kumud as his daughter in law and it's saras who initially rejected her!!

Kumud trying her best to bring them together is so her! Even when she was married to Pramad, she made all efforts to unite him with his dad. For Kumud, life is incomplete without your family and it's killing her a million times over seeing saras in pain but the day she succeeds, that happiness that she will give saras and LN...that's going to be worth all the pain.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Saras is humane at heart and cares. He even cared for Pramad. So the fact that he would protect LN was a given.
I feel Kumud is right in trying to bring them together.
But LN didnt do anything yet to show his repentance except by coming to the wedding and trying to hug saras.
LN disowned Saras first. He admitted to VC 2 days back n Saras said that too. On that fateful day, he challenged saras to drop his last name and face VC.
It was Saraswati's handwriting. And LN admitted to his mistake. All including VC know of this.
There is no confusion on any of these.
Bottom line is Kumud had sixth sense that LN is repenting. LN never inquired about Saras. Atleast this was not shown.
LN did show intent to patch up. But I feel he has to open his mouth and say sorry to saras. Not just try to hug him. The onus should be more on him and not on saras. But Saras has to turn around too but he is finding it hard at this moment.
Also the kkey could be Danny. He might give in sooner or later due to Danny. Earlier, he was listening keenly whether LN was accepting danny's marriage because he still cares about Danny-LN relation just the way he cares about Guman-Danny relation. Also, it was his decision to marry danny at the last minute. So there is that fear of acceptance.
LN made a list of mistakes he did. EMA with Guman when he had a wife n kid. Then ditching Dugbaa at mandap(he didnt turn up after agreeing to marry), neglecting Saras,betraying VC and kumud-saras relationship right before their marriage , disowning saras. And not making an attempt to see Saras.
The above list is too heavy.
In on loc videos, Saras said 'kuch log unko(to ladies) hamesha dard dete hain' when LN said 'auratein hamesha dard chupate hain'.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Santhi I do agree with you and we have had our countless debates on this matter and today what you have written, I couldn't agree more!

LN has made many mistakes but I really feel he isn't a bad person otherwise someone like VC wudve broken all ties with him from the day he ditched saraswati.

Affairs happen...it's not right but fact is, it's very common and sometimes it can't be helped. LN fell into Gumaan's trap and times were different then when women perhaps wudnt speak up and suicide was the only way out. It's sad but I still feel LN can't be blamed for it. He has that guilt in him.

But ur right. An apology is required. A show of repentance is necessary and Saras's feelings of hatred are totally justified.

I have a feelings things will take a further ugly turn between the two once and Guman and new bro enter the scene. New bro is likely to be the cause of breaking many ties...well of Danny saras perhaps... :-(
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kumud invited only LN not guman.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kat ...



You know i disagree with you on this issue ... I have ranted already about it enough ... 😊


The issue here is not whether LN is a good man or not ... or if he is Repenting or not ?


The issue is Saras- Kumud ... and Kumud taking Saras for granted ... as always ...

The Issue is the Hurt and Pain that Kumud gave him on their Wedding day ...


When our " Mahaantaa Ki Murtii " can show such Extraordinary Compassion and Care for the whole world , why does she give soo much Pain and Anguish to Saras ...

She can see everybody's Tears but not his ...

Didn't she know , how Strongly Saras felt about this Issue ... then where was the need to Ignore his Feelings and Sensitivities soo Royally ... and Call LN to the Wedding Secretly ... going behind everybody's back ...

This Indifference for the Emotions of Saras on this Issue... this Lack of Understanding of the depth of his feelings ... This lack of Concern for his Pain ... and the Hurt and Anguish that her Actions shall cause him ... That is the Issue here ...

This is what Pains me soo much ...

and the worst part is the Timing ...

why Ruin the Wedding day for him ... How could she not understand that what a SHOCK it would be for Saras ... How it shall mar all his Happiness and Joy on this Most Important day of his life ...

Why was his Happiness on the day of Marraige not important to her at all ??

Why was calling LN on the Wedding day of such Supreme Importance ... while the Pain and Heart- Break of Saras ... and that too on the Most Special Day was of no Concern ... Tht is the Issue ...

How does it make sense that she is willing to cause soo much Suffering to Saras ... and that too on the day of Marriage ... just to make sure that LN attends the Wedding ...

Sorry ... does not make any sense to me ...

The fact that our Saras is a Gem ... and he shall give in to her always ... that does not give her the right to ride Roughshod over his feelings ...

Has LN ever bothered about Saras or any of them for that matter for all these months ??

Has Saras ever expresed his desire to be Reconciled with his Father ... NO ... Has he ever discussed this issue with Kumud ... NO ...Has he been Pining for his Father ... NO !!

So why did she have to take this Hasty step without talking about it with Saras ... Why this lack of Confidence ... Why this Absence of any discussion on the issue ... Why this Unilateral decision without seeking anybody's advice ...

She of course did not bother to take Saras' s feelings into Consideration ...

and neither did she consider it necessary to take anybody's advice ... Not her Grand Father ... nor her Beloved Father ... not even her Badi Maa ...


and why the Patch- Up efforts could not have been made after the Marriage ?

Why could they not get Married without LN's presence ...

Was it not Important to have a Happy ... Joyous ...Peaceful Marriage without any Hitch ...

and then make all the Patching- Up attempts properly after the Wedding ...

Why was it not Important for her that the Marriage should first be completed Happily and Smoothly ...
Why did she not give Primary Importance to Saras ...

What was the Tearing Hurry that she was willing to Ruin the Marriage day for Saras ... and for everyone else too .



Sorry ... whichever way i look , i am totally Unconvinced ...



Anyways ... I fully realise that all this has no connection to any Sense and Logic ...

and it is done only for the much needed Drama ... which is the Staple requirement of our Telly Soaps ... so no point breaking our Heads about it ... 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Saras is humane at heart and cares. He even cared for Pramad. So the fact that he would protect LN was a given.

I feel Kumud is right in trying to bring them together.
But LN didnt do anything yet to show his repentance except by coming to the wedding and trying to hug saras.
LN disowned Saras first. He admitted to VC 2 days back n Saras said that too. On that fateful day, he challenged saras to drop his last name and face VC.
It was Saraswati's handwriting. And LN admitted to his mistake. All including VC know of this.
There is no confusion on any of these.
Bottom line is Kumud had sixth sense that LN is repenting. LN never inquired about Saras. Atleast this was not shown.
LN did show intent to patch up. But I feel he has to open his mouth and say sorry to saras. Not just try to hug him. The onus should be more on him and not on saras. But Saras has to turn around too but he is finding it hard at this moment.
Also the kkey could be Danny. He might give in sooner or later due to Danny. Earlier, he was listening keenly whether LN was accepting danny's marriage because he still cares about Danny-LN relation just the way he cares about Guman-Danny relation. Also, it was his decision to marry danny at the last minute. So there is that fear of acceptance.
LN made a list of mistakes he did. EMA with Guman when he had a wife n kid. Then ditching Dugbaa at mandap(he didnt turn up after agreeing to marry), neglecting Saras,betraying VC and kumud-saras relationship right before their marriage , disowning saras. And not making an attempt to see Saras.
The above list is too heavy.
In on loc videos, Saras said 'kuch log unko(to ladies) hamesha dard dete hain' when LN said 'auratein hamesha dard chupate hain'.



First of all i completely agree on Kat ji's POV and the LAST PARA of her post.! 👍🏼
@Pasumarthisa Ji - You've created a whole briefing of the show.! Completely agree..

And even I'm among tose ppl who feel that whateva Kumud's doing is right.. But the efforts from LN's side seem to b way too low to b supportive fr Kumud and her intentions.!??!

Last word : Kuch Paane Ke Liyeh , Kuch Khona Padta Hain. (Keeping Saras's condition in POV)
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