Should khajan have attended

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont know... but in Khajan's place I would not have gone to attend jagya's baby's naam karan.
I know that relations are great and things have improved and that the badi haveli credo is "forgive and forget"...but still... I would not have gone personally.

I would always have held Jagya responsible for bhago's death in some way.

I think I would have wished jagya on the phone and that too via bhairon.

What do you all feel?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why Jagya is responsible for Bhago's death?😕In Khajan place i will look into myself first what lead to my wife's death and destroyed my daughter's life instead of blaming others I am sure i will find my own works responsible for whatever happened
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Posted: 11 years ago
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When BH people get redemption - everything of past has to be forgiven and forgotten. In real life it is difficult to forget such a thing, but in BV, it is the most logical thing. Strange thing is - he did not attend his daughter's anniversary at KB, but is coming for a BH function.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I believe in forgive and forget, especially if things have genuinely smoothed out .If I were Khajan, I would attend BH function provided I was invited.
A lot happened in the past and agree that Khajan lost a lot including his wife. But it was not just only J's fault. Khajan and Singhs too were responsible for spoiling A's life and leading to Bhago's death.
But the good part was that Singhs didn't leave A to suffer. They provided Anandi with lot more love and happiness by bringing Shiv in her life, which probably even Khajan would not able to provide, had A returned to him after leaving J.

There is no more grudge between Khajan and Singhs as all is well. And it is also about moving on. A-J have moved on and so have their respective families. Besides which Khajan is now treated with lot more respect than ever by Ds.

He should have gone and I am happy he did. Was nice to see Cvs including him. Although it would have been nicer Cvs remembered him during AnSh anniversary
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

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But the good part was that Singhs didn't leave A to suffer. They provided Anandi with lot more love and happiness by bringing Shiv in her life, which probably even Khajan would not able to provide, had A returned to him after leaving J.


This is true !! Khajan would not have been able to rehabilitate anandi as effectively as the singhs did.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I would have definitely gone for my daughter Anandi.
His wife Bhago is dead but his daughter is alive and very happily settled, I would never want to hold any grudges against the Singhs for my daughter's sake.

Also, I think it is unfair to hold Jagya responsible for Bhago's death.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, J is responsible for Bhago's death. He left A and Bhago couldn't see that. That led to her death.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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me too. I would have never gone there, to celebrate someone's happiness who was one of the main driving factors behind my wife's tragic death. I guess I'm not mahaan like BV folks.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Smiely

Yes, J is responsible for Bhago's death. He left A and Bhago couldn't see that. That led to her death.

exactly. He should have been their at his daughter's & Kuwaar sa's anniversary. That was more important. But no, he has to attend every single function of BH 🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Theepetronauss

exactly. He should have been their at his daughter's & Kuwaar sa's anniversary. That was more important. But no, he has to attend every single function of BH 🥱


J has redeemed but only he was responsible for bhago's death.

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