Jodha Akbar 162: Neither a doormat nor a donkey

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Folks,

I was not going to write anything about Episode 162 of last night, but I was taken aback to see some posts today berating Jodha for being a doormat and putting up with the ugly hoojra changing business, instead of storming out of Agra. But then I should not have been surprised at all, should I?

After all, for all the fulmination about Ekta's scripts, very many here love the Ekta-heroine-who-can-never-be-wrong in Jodha, and uske liye to sau khoon maaf. So, in the past, she was backed unreservedly, no matter how she behaved with her pati. Now that the boot is on the other foot, I am not surprised that Jalal is being tarred and feathered across the forum. But I never thought to see the day when Jodha was attacked for anything!

Jodha & Jalal: Changing equations:The truth is that Jodha had a lot to learn, in the first place how it feels to have someone you have come to care for mock you and ignore you. That is what she did in the old days, after all. She was appallingly rude to her lawfully wedded imperial husband, often, as at the Meena Bazaar, in public. If he came into her rooms, she used to look at him as if he was something the cat had brought in, and invariably asked him, in a most off putting tone, Aap yahan? If he came to thank her for something late at night, she used to look as if he was going to jump on her and ravish her.

Still Jalal put up with all this day after day, and continued to praise her hunars, real or not, to the skies, rejoicing in the slightest evidence of her feeling some respect for him. Very few then berated him for making a doormat - Afghan, Persian, whatever - of himself.

All that pampering ended abruptly with The Shove and her morning after accusation of SKLL (stree ke liye lalasa), and then with the entry of Benazir. Nonetheless, Jalal's persistent weakness for Jodha, despite the deep hurt inflicted on him by The Letter and The Shove, was still there, as strong as ever, and it showed at every opportunity.

At this point, even though the special treatment was at an end, Jodha was no doormat, no way! During the run up to the Shivani wedding, she was still on her high horse, sidelining the Shahenshah and riding high on the approval of her cheerleaders Nos. 1 & 2, her Ammijaan and her devarji.

It was Shivani's elopement that brought Jodha down to earth down with a thud. She was deeply ashamed of what her father and her sister had done, and correspondingly grateful to Jalal for his forbearance in releasing her father from prison and allowing him to leave for Amer. So much so that she actually started calling herself a Mughal khandaan ki Begum and identifying, for the very first time, with her sasural.

Then came the first hand evidence that Benazir was out to murder Jalal. Which brought Jodha to the (still strongly resisted) realisation that she could not bear it if Jalal died. So now we have this Savitri-cum-Durga manquee- cum-what now? Meera rebooted with the vish ka pyala?

NB:The latest promo, if correct, is a very silly twist, for Benazir is no suicide candidate. She intends to survive and queen it over the empire at the side of Abul Mali (not realising that once he is on the throne, she will be the first person he will have bumped off). How can she do that if Jalal is poisoned openly in a wedding ceremony?

Jalal: all at sea: Jalal is an idiot now for a different reason from earlier - for not having the GJ (ghrinit jantu) properly investigated and spied on. Anyone from Abul Mali's harem should have been an a priori suspect, and surely it is better to be safe than dead? I do not know what, if anything he has been doing, and whether his constant jibes at Jodha for being jealous of Benazir are just a put on or not, but on the surface at least, he cuts a pretty sorry figure for a Shahenshah.

But all this notwithstanding, my heart went out to him last night when he says, the almost casual tone belying the depth to the recurrent pain he feels, Par woh ( the jalan against Benazir) hamare liye to nahin ho sakta, kyonki aapne to hamein kabhi apnaya hi nahin.

The only spark of hope re: his grey cells being still alive was the assurance he gives his Ammijaan last night, in that unexpectedly emotional and very touching scene between them, that he knows how to face dangers and survive, and will be around with her for the rest of her life. Maybe he does know what Benazir is up to, but even so, Jalal looks anything but decisive. Or clued up, even in the latest promo.

Jodha: Neither doormat nor donkey:
As for Jodha, she is now smarting under a volley of insults and cold shoulders and persistent disbelief in her fervent assertions re: the GJ's guilt. Even her Ammijaan is apparently not around to lend her a shoulder to weep on. But what goes around comes around, does it not? All of Jodha's chickens have come home to roost, that too simultaneously, and it seems, as Meghana put it, to be now payback time for her.

It is another matter that I do not see Jodha being trashed by "everyone", only by this caricature of Ruqaiya Sultan Begum and at times by Mahaam, from whom that is hardly new for Jodha.

As for me, I loved Jodha in last few episodes, especially the one I called Samhaar. For her now all else pales besides the paramount need to save Jalal's life, even if it has to be in spite of Jalal. Faced with such an undertaking, nothing else should matter to her, and I find it highly praiseworthy that nothing else does.

How on earth do people expect her to storm out of Agra in a huff because the ugly hoojra changing business, and leave her husband, whose life is clearly at stake, to the mercy of the vishkanya? They cannot be serious!


No, Jodha is neither a Persian doormat nor a laundryman's donkey, thank you. She is now a prize specimen of Rajvanshi female tenacity and grit and singlemindedness.

She has to save Jalal from the ghrinit jantu, and thought the fates have been tripping her up repeatedly, save him she will. And in order to be able to do that, she will swallow anything that has to be swallowed, her ego in the first place, and continue to stand at her post, like (though it is not a felicitous simile) the boy on the burning deck.

Dismal prospects: What I do not like is the near surety that next week, we will see Jodha canonised by one and all, with Jalal heading the chorus, and very likely reducing himself to a puddle of guilt and regret and grief all mixed up. Not an enticing prospect, but kya karen, majboori hai! Serial dekhna chhod bhi to nahin sakte!

As for the hairsplitting I see about the timing of the vish ka pyala scene - before, after or during the nikaah, I do not care at all about any of that. Given the CVs' disdain for such minutiae, arguing about them is pointless.

But I still cling to three small but persistent hopes, like candles flickering in the wind.

One , that post the revelation, Jalal apologises to Jodha in a dignified manner, as he did after the dature ka ark affair.

Two, that he has known all along that Benazir was up to no good, and just might be a zehreeli dosiza, and had asked Atgah Khan to get the antidote to snake venom ready in advance (for himself, but now for Jodha). This would then have been the mysterious task he had wanted completed before the nikaah.

Three, that in her moment of triumph, Jodha, this new Jodha, will be dignified and low key, and not cold or distant with Jalal for not having believed her about Benazir. I personally think she will be too limp with relief at Jalal's being safe at last, and too lighthearted at being freed from the crushing burden of the last few days, for her to sulk.

Lastly, the shock of the denouement just might achieve, for Jodha and Jalal, what I had hoped that The Hug might achieve. As I wrote in an earlier post, there will now be no need for apologies or a casting of accounts between them, The Letter and The Shove will be consigned to the dustbin, and we will have a real love story at long last, if not the epic one we were promised.

This, however, is what I want. Not what is likely to happen, which would be the kind of thing that the CVs and Ekta's target audience both love. Another round of aloof chilliness, this time from Jodha, to hosannas from Hamida and her coterie, while Jalal abases himself. I am quite prepared for that, though it is going to make me feel distinctly queasy.

Highlight of the day: My having been, for once, correct in my prediction that Adham Khan was going to rope in Benazir to try and further his own ends. I had been sure that he had not dropped into the GJ's hoojra just because of his proclivity for her tribe (of baandis, not vishkanyas!). So, the gentle thumping you might be hearing is me patting myself on the back . I always held, along with the immortal Sherlock Holmes, that modesty is a highly overrated virtue!😉

Shyamala B.Cowsik

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I've agreed with you Shyamala...in your other thread. 😆

[oh and the whole poison tasting thing could be another 'dream' and a misleading promo according to some reports]


Jodha is Jodha. That's all I have to say on the matter.
Edited by PadBear - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shymala even though I didn't like the kojra vacancy jodha didn't argued with Ruqu... As somewhere she is shocked and when Ruqu told this kojra is near to Jalaal khawbhaagh, she wanted to give it to new begum -- BEN Begum...

If Jodha will argue with Ruqu... Ruqu will again rant what wife duties she fulfilled ? Her father & sister betrayal and shame to mugal sultanate, her failure to prove BEN truth before DEK..

Now JO is worried as she is loosing the faith of Shahansha by repeated failures in BEN, especially when Jalaal thinks she is behaving because of jealousy is making her more exhausting & her helplessness to save Jalaal even knowing the truth is killing her more than these insults...

But now JO believes Jalaal also involved in the hojra drama which has hit her deeper as now Jalaal also doing this only to show her down, particularly to her only before others..

After saving BEN this pain still be there in JO mind, jalaal actually with Ruqu in insulting her more...

Want to see what JJ equation and how both with react to each other after BEN truth & JO saves Jalaal...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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What more can I say to this??? Exactly my thoughts, though not the same words:)))
I don't think, there needs to be any sorry's or apologies and even if the letter issue comes out, it will be only during end of Maham, as it cannot be step by step.
I didnt watch the episode yesterday (luckily I was late and read the update), so didn't feel like, especially everyone bashing Jalal for being rude and not being nice, (why should he be nice is really a big question to me though) and Jodha being the doormat (as being called), when she had to be quiet, she wasn't, but she is taking all crap, when she can speak up. Anyways, now all she is worried is for his life. So be it!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hello Shyamala,
Very well balanced and objective post I must say. 😊

I started watching the show becasue both Jalal and Jodha are not very nice and are very much flawed. I usually do not watch any serial. I get bored when the herion is a saint.

I liked Jodha when she stood up against her husband during the early days of thier marriage (although she did took it to little extream, I still liked her for making mistakes). I like her current avatar too. She is, even now, making mistakes and learning along the way. But what I do like is that she has blossmed into a very fine warrior. I can not help but call her thus, becasue what else can you call for her focus, single mindedness, her grit and going strong in spite of her trials.

The romantic in me believes that she is doing all this, not because of her duty alone, but because she wants Jalal in her life. Somehow, this crusade has become personal and it is not a "responsibility of a vachan".

While I like the character growth of Jodha in this track, I am not so happy with Jalal's. What happend to his shrewdness, intelligent and his warrior instinct? I am not able to digest his cluelessness and brainlessness.

His reactions towards Jodha and his anger towards her is justified. Because, as per him, she did lead him on. Being a capricious person, his reactions, we will have to accept, is going to be like this. He must expected her love and gratitude not an outright rejection (no matter Jodha was right too in that incident). But all these are reactions of a man, towards his wife. However, what is unforgivable is his reactions and foolishness as an emporer. Any good politicain, tactician and an emporer worth his salt always, I do mean, always aware of his enemies. Howcome, he is seemingly ignorant and not all bothered by a bandhi who has, out of the blue, appeared in court and wants to sleep with him. Especially when the said bandhi is also from his enemy's court.

I do hope that the CV's redeem his character at the end of this track. I do hope that Jalal knew all about his assassin and he has done his homework. I do hope that he has already placed a contingency plan.

And I do hope that we get lot of romance. 😳

Love
Kshithi



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Shyamala, for once I dont want Democracy.

I want Inclusion - of the minority hope over the majority expectation!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Aunty, I agree with you! even though Ruqaiya insulted her by asking to vacate her khwabgah she herself was wrong in assuming Jalal must have agreed with Ruqaiya in doing so. It is only Ruq and Maham who insults her and now Jalal since that infamous night but HB,Salima and any other begum of Jalal never tried to do so then how can she curse all the Mughals for insulting her. When she is humiliated she clearly forgets all the affection,respect she got from HB and trio,Salima and Rahim. Coming to her being a doormat I think she needs to show her Rajput aan baan shaan when Ruq comes to confront her and insults her every time. If Ruq is Begum-E-Khass then Jalal has already included Jodha in his khas begums list so it is her fault that she is tolerating Ruq and her tantrums. But I think she has no time to argue with Ruq this time as saving Jalal is her utmost priority and this shutting up Ruq can be dealt later. These are nothing but nonsensical ticks of CVs to gain sympathy and nothing else! JA has regained its No. 2 position hence they are now free to do whatever they want to regardless of viewers disappointment. I'm losing interest as Jalal is all set to be proved a fool again. Even if they show he knew Benazir is an assassin, I am failing to understand what is stopping him from arresting and interrogating her instead of repeatedly asking the good-for-nothing Atgah Khan 'have you done with what I asked you to ?' Now if he wants to catch the secret person then what is his army and all the jasoos for ? 😕 The entire Mughal administration and spy network is nothing but a big joke in this show!.This track has shown Jalal in a very bad light and I'm sure everyone will forget this with the hopefully coming soon romantic track and this will continue in many upcoming tracks and we will end up bashing him more and more. But nothing will happen to the TRPs as viewers enjoy kitchen politics more than anything else.
Edited by jshweta16 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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sorry..m using my cellfone ..n it got posted twice 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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👏 and kudos for being such an impartial one! And while i also think that CVs tend to go over-the-top with the scenes of humiliations with either leads, still it is a drama.
AK stayed true to his colours. but when he can overhear Salima n Jodha's conversation, why can't any spy or soldier also do the same when he is hatching plans with his accomplices on that ground??
What they have reduced Rukaiya's character to is pathetic.
Jo's words on the demeaning treatment meted out to her touched me and eyes misted. But concur with you that Jodha needs to feel and understand what Jalal had to go thru.
Two more days !!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hugs Chechi🤗so you too didnt believe the promo . One thing is sure Benazir is not a stupid. She is not going to kill Jalal infront of everyone,If that happens she will be the prime suspect and how can she rescue Abu Mali???????
I still have a feeling that Jalal knows the truth. and Ataga Saab too. They are onto SOMETHING.
The reason why he is doing this to Jodha is because of the Shove. After which their relationship changed AGAIN DRASTICALLY.and then there was this shivani probs, her father was involved

so from Jalal's point of view she suddenly started showing concern for him, which made him wonder WHY? He even asked her that in DEK.May be he thinks that she wants to be in his good books again, esp after the shivani fiasco.

Whatever it is, I have stiopped thinking

I have one more doubt Chechi, Jodha is going to sacrifice her life for Jalal as per the promo.Is this how she will get the title Wali Nimmat Begum?😕



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