Rudra's Past vs Present ...The Mystry & the Contrast - Page 4

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: CandYlicious_S

Fabulous post..! ๐Ÿ‘



Thanks ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: tv_princess

nycc analysis..

I m waiting fr jovial n cheerful rudra to appear on screen n off course it ll be courtesy paro..



It will take time .. but I m sure Paro will make him smile one day for sure ๐Ÿ˜ณ
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice analysis...I think Rudra's mom is innocent
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

Rudra's past and present hv such a big contrast na ๐Ÿค” ... So far I thought Rudra was this similar brooding , vulnerable and impulsive character even in his childhood based on that first episode which gave a slight indication about PaRud's childhood but today's episode showed a total different side of childhood Rudra ... isn't it ๐Ÿค” ...

From the flashbacks , It seems Rudra in his childhood was quite a fun-loving , happy-go-lucky , jolly and normal young boy who loved his mother and was quite close to his Chacha too .. He also looked like family's laadla as well playing all around in the house and someone who loved to b pampered by his parents ๐Ÿ˜Ž ... But his life took a total U-turn the day his mother suddenly ran away with someone leaving his family alone ...

Even after his mother left , Rudra dint instantly started hating his mother but instead he wanted to wait in that Haveli for his mother to return back so that he can get some answers but somewhere it seems this Chachi/Maasi of Rudra never wanted Rudra and his family to stay in that Haveli , and so she was the one who brainwashed Rudra against his mother and almost forced Rudra and his father to leave the Haveli after his mother left ๐Ÿค”...


Till now I thought Rudra's father might b the real culprit in all this but now it seems it could b Rudra's Chachi-Maasi who might hv created some rift or misunderstanding in her own sister's married life so that she leaves her husband and then this Chachi/Maasi can kick both father-son out of the house too and alone rule the Haveli with her own family instead of sharing it ๐Ÿ˜ฒ

Its interesting how so many untold mystry r surrounding related to Rudra's past and till now we dunno who is the main culprit behind Rudra's traumatic childhood ... Rudra too has no idea till now who is responsible for it .. Whether its his mother or his father or this Chachi/Maasi or someone else , he dunno , and so it makes sense why suddenly that young fun-loving small boy has turned into such a bitter , heartless and impulsive young man today who neither believes in any relationships nor can trust anyone ever ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ...

I m wondering what will make this Rudra go back to his normal self once again because its clear that present Rudra is totally different from that childhood Rudra ๐Ÿค” ... Childhood Rudra was a loving child who was really fond of his mother ๐Ÿ˜ณ while this present Rudra has only bitterness filled in his heart against everyone ...So will Paro bring this present Rudra out of his bitter self and make him that normal fun loving Rudra again in future ?? ๐Ÿค”...


One real difference between Paro and Rudra's childhood is that Paro clearly knows that her parents were taken away from her against their wish whereas Rudra has no idea why his mother left him all alone on her own wish ... This is what has made Rudra bitter towards life .. the pain of rejection coming from his mother is something he could not tolerate and is burning in hatred from inside whereas Paro never really felt that pain of rejection from anyone till the time she was abandoned by her village ... Rudra's pain has become more like a wound now which refuses to heal until and unless he knows the reason behind his mother's betrayal whereas Paro's pain has a certain healing factor in the form of all that love she got from her parents and her Maamiji in the past ,... And so in future I do see Paro healing Rudra's wounds and taking him back to his childhood fun filled days and mayb bringing that smile back on his face too ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ... Rudra too in return will make sure Paro starts living her life again ๐Ÿ˜ณ...


I m sure one day we will get a glimpse of that positive , fun-loving Rudra too in his present when he will start smiling again courtesy Paro baisa's presense in his life ๐Ÿ˜›...


And this haveli seems to carry lots of mystries related to Rudra's mother which might come out slowly with PaRud residing in the same house ๐Ÿ˜› ...

Jyoti, that is a beautiful topic you have brought out and one that is close to my heart as well!๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
There is always this question even inside of me whether it is easy to heal after one has lost a parent from death or one has lost a parent from a broken marriage. Paro is the former case, while Rudra is the latter case.
Okay I'll leave aside the issue of Chachi's insitigation and role for now and focus solely on the reactions of the two children Rudra and Paro. Here what I feel is that while paro has lost parents due to death she will not be searching all her life for the parents, but she will be searching all her life for the killer of those parents. She blames the killer for the loss of parents, so the killer becomes her object of lifelong search. She would like revenge. Whereas Rudra would have a lifelong search for the missing parent. he would blame the parent. If he is conditioned by his father that his mother was a heartless woman, then he will seek revenge on that mother.
The way to heal for Paro would be to discover that her object of revenge was misplaced. That is, she thought it was the BSD, but actually its the evil man Tejawat who killed her parents. In the case of Rudra too, he will heal only if he sees the real reason why his mother ran away. If that was due to the chaal of Tejawat who wooed his mother away, then Rudra too would be vengeful on Tejawat.
At the point where both Paro and Rudra both see Tejawat as their common revenge object, they may join forces against him and get their joint healing from the past together. And this may also lead to love.
I think in this story, if there is thus a common onject of revenge for them both they will unite more easily. On the other hand, if Paro or Rudra have different objects of revenge for the past, they may take a long time to get comfortable with each other, since their minds will be preoccupied with getting revenge for the past first before they are able to proceed to new relationships in their life.
So how soon they both transfer to Tejawat as the real and sole object of revenge in their own childhoods will determine how soon they unite as a couple with a common mission tying them together. Only from that love will be born.
When people have scarred childhood, they will not be able to love till the past is not healed for them? Or else the past must be common to both so that healing and love become simultaneous processes.
What do you think?
Edited by skanda12 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06



Yeah India's got talent airs from 9 na .. and its good if RR is only from mon to fri only .. 6 day shows suffers in quality ..

Not only that I don't think it's fair to overwork the cast and crew. 6 days a week is too much pressure, everyone deserve alittle break.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshi.Sugi.IPK

Nice analysis...I think Rudra's mom is innocent



I too feel same because if its Thakurain then from no angle she looks selfish or manipulative ๐Ÿค”
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: skanda12

Jyoti, that is a beautiful topic you have brought out and one that is close to my heart as well!๐Ÿ‘

I knew Mansi this topic is close to your heart for obvious reasons ..
There is always this question even inside of me whether it is easy to heal after one has lost a parent from death or one has lost a parent from a broken marriage. Paro is the former case, while Rudra is the latter case.

Exactly .. in both cases they hv lost their parent .. but in Paro's case she has lost due to destiny whereas in Rudra's case he has lost due to the circumstances created by his own parents about which he has no idea ..

Okay I'll leave aside the issue of Chachi's insitigation and role for now and focus solely on the reactions of the two children Rudra and Paro. Here what I feel is that while paro has lost parents due to death she will not be searching all her life for the parents, but she will be searching all her life for the killer of those parents. She blames the killer for the loss of parents, so the killer becomes her object of lifelong search. She would like revenge. Whereas Rudra would have a lifelong search for the missing parent. he would blame the parent. If he is conditioned by his father that his mother was a heartless woman, then he will seek revenge on that mother.

I agree ... And Paro is not attached to that killer .. whereas Rudra is attached to his mother emotionally .. I guess this is the major difference .. Paro's search will only carry hate and revenge whereas Rudra's search will carry more of emotional turmoil along with the obvious hate and bitterness .. Even though he is conditioned by his father , but somewhere I fee he is still waiting for some answers from his mother's mouth before he goes for his revenge ๐Ÿค”

The way to heal for Paro would be to discover that her object of revenge was misplaced. That is, she thought it was the BSD, but actually its the evil man Tejawat who killed her parents. In the case of Rudra too, he will heal only if he sees the real reason why his mother ran away. If that was due to the chaal of Tejawat who wooed his mother away, then Rudra too would be vengeful on Tejawat.

I guess Rudra needs a valid reason when it comes to his mother .. if its just Tejawat wooing his mother , then it will also mean his mother did cheat on his father due to her own physical desires ( not to forget Rudra's father was handicapped ) and this might make him more bitter towards women in general ... So the hope the reason is something valid which dont put his mother further low in his eyes ๐Ÿค”

At the point where both Paro and Rudra both see Tejawat as their common revenge object, they may join forces against him and get their joint healing from the past together. And this may also lead to love.

This is possible .. if Tejwat is main culprit , then I do see both coming together to take revenge from this guy ..

I think in this story, if there is thus a common onject of revenge for them both they will unite more easily. On the other hand, if Paro or Rudra have different objects of revenge for the past, they may take a long time to get comfortable with each other, since their minds will be preoccupied with getting revenge for the past first before they are able to proceed to new relationships in their life.

I think Rudra might first find out about how Paro's parents were killed and how she was told that BSD people did it .. once he clears this misunderstanding of Paro , then Paro might one day see some old photo of Rudra's mother and identify it as Thakurain and thus both can join forces towards a common goal ... in this case just how Rudra can prove to Paro that BSD people r innocent , Paro too can prove to Rudra that mayb his mother is innocent since she knows Thakurain well ... so both can ont only come together over revenge but can also heal each other's wounds regarding their misconceptions

So how soon they both transfer to Tejawat as the real and sole object of revenge in their own childhoods will determine how soon they unite as a couple with a common mission tying them together. Only from that love will be born.
When people have scarred childhood, they will not be able to love till the past is not healed for them? Or else the past must be common to both so that healing and love become simultaneous processes.

I agree .. its important both get answers of their past first before they start believing in love and life again .. both r carrying too much of past baggage right now and they need to find those answers first ... Meanwhile I do feel both right now might bond over common set of emotions .. that is loosing their parents at early age ...
What do you think?



Mansi thats a wonderful take on Paro and Rudra's journey and their respective trauma which has some similarities and some differences ...

My replies in red ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Swetz-

Not only that I don't think it's fair to overwork the cast and crew. 6 days a week is too much pressure, everyone deserve alittle break.



Yeah ... Actors get tired and then it shows up on screen .. so 5 days run is enough ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post jyo
Was wondering why there is no post from you on such a strong episode

I loved it. Loved to see glimpses of the loving caring Rudra. The potential if him turning back to a loving man increase considerably now. Would love to see the transformation of the brooding rudra

Will be back with more on the subject
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nandiniraizaada

Nice post jyo

Was wondering why there is no post from you on such a strong episode

I loved it. Loved to see glimpses of the loving caring Rudra. The potential if him turning back to a loving man increase considerably now. Would love to see the transformation of the brooding rudra

Will be back with more on the subject



I made it friday only ๐Ÿ˜ณ

I m also eagerly waiting to see a little smile on Rudra's face and I m sure Paro will bring that smile back ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ

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