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Posted: 7 years ago
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Your opening line had me in stitches. πŸ˜† In general, your flair for effortless comedy would make a corpse get up and 🀣

Oh yes, Roxana will turn up, but Bactria will come quite a bit later, so dil thaam ke baithiye! For now, I am waiting for Sisygambis.

I am delighted that you liked the Alexander-Hephastion scene as much as I did. I took an unusual amount of trouble over that part of my post, and I was glad it turned out the way I wanted it to. It was a truly moving and deeply emotional scene, especially as it revealed Alexander's inner vulnerability. I wanted my readers to understand that, and not go nudge, nudge, wink, wink. I don't know how far I succeeded, for only you, and siyanu, have commented on it and she had not watched the sequence as yet! And then this is a surprisingly small forum for such a major historical. The one for Jodha Akbar- where I, being then in much better shape physically, used to do almost daily posts, and there were 5 others doing the same - was gigantic by comparison.

As for your alternative scenario, I would not have wasted chappals on it even if it had been lousy.πŸ˜‰In fact, I think it is perfectly plausible, and would fit in perfectly with the hyper melodramatic script of most of our shows. It is actually like a 1980s Hindi film script.

Here, one does not know from one week to the other what is going to, or not going to happen. They stick to history for minor details like Alexander's thigh wound at Issus, and his nearly getting killed at Granicus, but they show the latter in a very clumsy version that is hard to accept, and now Sisygambis has most likely been axed. Grrr!😑

Shyamala Cowsik

Originally posted by: --BlackSheep--

Okay coming to the episode,I feel it's an achievement on Swastik's behalf that they remembered Stateira I and Drypteis.So this makes me hopeful that Roxana will enter and my AlexAna ship shall sail sooner or later ❀️





Everything said and done,I loved the scene between Alex and Hephastion ❀️
Both Rohit and Akash Rajput gave a fantastic performance.It was a moment between two friends and their pure,genuine bond.
Yes they love each other no doubt.But why does every love have to be romantic love?I believe what Alex and Hephastion shared was a bond of kinship and far stronger than any physical relationship and whatsoever.



BTW did anyone just mention Alex falling for Laachi?I have a plot for that tooπŸ˜‰Don't throw chappals at me.

Puru and his Power Rangers will do their kaarnaamas in Faras and end up getting arrested by Alex.
But Alex will fall for the spunky Laachi πŸ˜‰In order to save Puru's life,Laachi will strike a deal with Alex and hand herself to him and in return Alex will let Puru and his gang leave.Puru will be aag baboola thinking that Laachi ditched him and will become an angry young man.Vishkanya will console him and after they reach Paurav Rashtra Puru will marry Vishkanya in anger.
And many episodes later Puru will realise Laachi's sacrifice and the drama continuesπŸ˜†


Forget all this bakwas I typed just now πŸ€ͺ🀣

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Posted: 7 years ago
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My dear Ankita,

I am very pleased that you liked this one so much. I think it was the title that made me think of it, it was such a catchy, Perry Mason style title. Of course once I get started, even with stiff, painful fingers, it never ends up at less than 3 pages!

What a wonderful set of comments, kiddo! I loved them, and as usual, my response are in blue. Like the Paurav Rashtra characters!πŸ˜‰

Affectionately,

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: BrienneOfTarth

Hello Aunty! An excellent post as usual!


I think we ask too much from CVs regarding Sisygambis. Barsine ke Ma behen ke utre huye suicidal shakal dikha diye, humpe upkar kiya. Lets see how the scene plays out on Monday.
Seriously speaking, Sisygambis sounds like a very politically suave queen. She manages to win favour with the conquering king by insulting the fleeing one, secures safety for herself and her daughters and shows some influence with the new king regarding her people. Alexander too was smart to conserve the royal family, they were his sureshot leverage against Darius as well as a means of connecting to the Persian culture and aristocracy. A conqueror needs alliances to establish his kingship especially in a different culture.

I would go along with all this, and this is exactly what one would think of Sisygambis at first sight. But then she died as soon as she heard of Alexander 's death, and it was suicide. So you see, she must have really loved him, beginning from his magnanimous behaviour towards them at Issus.

As for the advantages for Alexander, they are self-evident. That was why Chanakya made Chandragupta marry Dhananand's daughter after he had conquered Magadha, to win over the remaining Nandvansh loyalists.

Coming to our show, why on earth was she not shown there with the other 3 females? Which is why I suspect that they might just axe her, which would be a huge pity. I hope not. If she does appear, of course she will be exactly like Queen Ada of Caria, gone on Alexander in toto.

I think here too the Sony Sisygambis might favour Alexander. Barsine would probably still be lamenting over the victorious darinda while Puru and his gang show up like that team of policemen who are always arriving late to the scene.πŸ˜†

@bold. It is side-splitting!πŸ‘ Do you know that they used to say of the policemen in Manila ? That they were never late at the scene of the crime, as they were already there!πŸ˜†

Okay here, I might make a prediction (thanks to the half-success of my last one) and state that Barsine will probably grow a new spine and try to stand against Alexander and our mighty king will probably like that and voila! shuru ho gayi love-hate story!

I am by now getting chary of making predictions, but may your winning streak last!

Achha I read that there was another Barsine who was one of Alexander's favourite women? This was before he married anyone. I think CVs will perform character fusion of the widow Barsine and princess Barsine and show a long drawn relationship with Alexander that later ends in marriage. More economical and sensational that way. 😳

The other Barsine was the wife, and then widow, of Memnon, the Greek general who was a key commander in the Persian army. Memnon's family was left behind at Halicarnassus, and this Barsine, who was said to be surpassingly beautiful, became Alexander's mistress, and remained in that position till he fell for and married Roxanne, the Sogdian princess. It is said that Barsine bore Alexander a son called Heracles, or Hercules. He too died, or was murdered, during the succession wars.

The battle was well done though I did burst into laughter at the way Darius made his infamous dash for safety while all the persian and macedonian soldiers stand and stare like someone had done a massscale Stupefy on them all! (The same actor makes a similar dash in his character of Shakuni in Mahabharat - that was even more hilarious if u ever want to see it.πŸ˜‰) He rides backwards behind his man while Alexander gives chase and doesnt even produce an Ah when hit by an arrow. The original horserider is killed (probably to remove extra weight on the horse?) and Darius flies away. Alexander and Bucephalus are no match to a slippery Darius on his fleeing persian ghoda.

I too loved that part, as you would have seen from the post, but while I wrote that Darius did an Usain Bolt, I forgot about his Shakuni in the latest Mahabharata. There, he did not have to struggle with an accent, however, but here his affected delivery is getting worse and worse and downright irritating these days. 😑

Alexander is left to roar in frustration but why he thought the battlefield was the ideal place for an impromptu interrogation on the merits of Bharat is beyond me.

That is why I marked that section with a πŸ˜†. It was comical in the extreme. But then Ale xander is here shown as having a Bharat fixation. This bit reminded me of the other sequence when Alexander, in the midst of a "friendly" duel with Philip, loses his concentration when Philip mentions that no foreigner had ever been able to last out in Bharat, and ends up on his back!

The pitiful end of Faroos was quite anticlimatic though. Oh well, goodbye Faras ke Faroos.

Puru took one whole week of episodes to apparate to Faras. Cvs do have some measure of restraint then. I believe the vishkanya borrowed the siblings of Darius's fleeing steed for the job as none other could have been so swift! πŸ˜†

Not a bad guess!

Okay, I have to say I liked the poignancy of the bachaa and vishkanya scene after they all manage to get out of the water. A child's heartfelt faith and a man's selfless honour manages to penetrate the resentment festering inside Vishuddhi's heart ever since she was given away as a child. I liked how the woman turned her face away then downwards, curling into herself as she stays silent despite the emerging questions in her head. Vishuddhi has finally met a man who can protect others to his own detriment and a child who can be kind even to the killer of his family as he urges her to reach for goodness. Shame keeps her silent, me thinks, and the urge to reach out for a sliver of the goodness around her has her making a decision against her fellow vishkanyas.

There is no melodrama here, just the subtle scene between the two and then her coming to the rescue of the trapped group.

Yes, my dear, I agree with you in toto about this. I liked that kid very much, and his babyish delivery of his lines above all. It seems to me at times that they have two main scriptwriters, one who does these excellent scenes like the one above and the Alexander-Hephastion one, and the other who does the lousy stuff that is dished out so liberally to us!

Puru, the ever compassionate warrior, allows her to tag along as she can no longer go back to her old life and in the blink of an eye, they are in Persia. I think the vishkanya will probably act as Puru's escape valve when the times comes for them to return to Bharat. She will probably sacrifice herself in some heroic way, redeeming her sins, as she repays her lifedebt to Puru. What do you think of that ?

Nice going! I too think she will die, probably after she tries to kill Alexander. A blending of both your predictions, in fact.

On a lighter note, Puru is now officially The Beast Slayer (akin to Buffy the Vampire Slayer). He and his trust knife have stood against an enraged bear, two deadly snakes and a hungry crocodile. Suffices to say, when Puru is not playing the noble prince out on a mission, we may look for him in the wilderness slaying any number of beasts that need slaying. πŸ€“

But it is de rigueur for the hero to kill any and all hinsak pashu in his vicinity! The CGI crocodile was awful in the closeups. The bear was better, I thought. The funny thing is that the chap does not betray the slightest sense of exhaustion after these bouts, especially after the one with the bear!

Now the opening scene of Friday's episode did blow me away. Unlike what you have suggested, I shall include all the subtexts and undertones of that scene. Yes, I shall and you will understand why. Hephaestion looks like an admiring lover as he cleans his cousin's back after a grimy battle. Alexander's hold and look towards him are on the other hand mired with deep but platonic love and need. In my opinion, the Cvs are showing a subtle one-sided love story where Hephaestion silently devotes himself to the love of his life. Even in the first scene we see of them both before, the swordfighting one, Hephaestion is openly admiring of Alexander's prowess claiming it as being attractive and his expressions give him away...the words being tumhari har baat etc etc A brother would just be joking and competitive but this was something else.

Again when Alexander asks him to never leave, he says quite tenderly, where would I go without you.

I would have liked to take it as deep platonic love but men who act like brothers are not usually so tender and emotional with their speech to each other. It is therefore not in actions but in speech mainly that we get hints of Hephaestion's heart. What I mean to note, is that this is not just sibling love on his side.The Sony TV ka Hephaestion is clearly in love with Alexander silently( I do not see anything wrong in a man falling in love with another man.) but he also knows that he serves Alexander best as his trusted general and advisor and not as a lover.

Honestly, this is a heartfelt selfless love and I look forward to seeing how Hephaestion evolves with their journey.

This is a very sensitive take on the scene and on their relationship, which is different from mine, and yet acceptable to me. It might not be sibling love, but in India we are familiar with very deep affection between two men, without there being any romantic element to it. It is a recurring theme in our literature as well. In fact, in the Does and Don'ts issued to foreign executives moving to India, there is one warning them that they should not take the hugging between men, and their walking around with one's arm around the other's shoulders, as evidence of an Oscar Wilde style relationship.

You have drawn a very convincing portrait of Hephastion's feelings, though to me, the way in which he was sponging Alexander's back, like the way he was giving him a head massage in an earlier episode, looked more like the way a mother would coddle her child The same kind of protective affection and caring.

To revert, I saw the scene more as revealing Alexander's emotional insecurity and loneliness, and the consequent dependence on the one person he had with him whom he could trust unconditionally and who, like his mother, loved him unconditionally.

By the way, Hephastion was not, so far as I know, Alexander's cousin. He was the son of a Macedonian nobleman, and he was brought up with Alexander.

Okay on the Bharat side, a small note of my cute couple has to be made. They continue to charm me with their consistent drive to keep the other safe. Puru will not have his Laachi returning to a sinking ship and Laachi will jump into dangerous waters to get to her Puru. Hai! Jeete rahe mere bacchon!

PS - is this baby Malay the Malayketu of the future? Or will he grow as a son of Puru and die a martyr on the battlefield? 😲\

No, my dear. That Malayketu was the son of the Raja of Parvatak Pradesh, and a prince. Now there are only 7 years to go between the battles of Issus and of Hydaspes. This kid would be about 6. He would be too young to fight at the battle of the Hydaspes.

Okay on another note, I noticed something interesting. Both our leads continually strive to act according to their name. Purushottam ie purusho mein uttam - In english it translates to excellent amongst men - Puru continues to model as the ideal of men - brave, intelligent, compassionate, loving, humble, patriotic, dutiful, protective and most importantly in tune with his emotional side. Like an ideal man, he is progressive in regarding women as his equal, stepping in before them only when the need calls for it. As a warrior, he seeks to protect - even when he was a common Dasyu, his protective nature supercedes his need to plunder. The rise to Crown Prince hardly changes his nature - if anything, he grows to feel more humble, responsible and compassionate. And it is this need to be a good protector that has him rushing to Persia to see with his own eyes what kind of terrible threat his people shall have to face.

Lord Rama was the original Maryada Purushottam, and he was so one-sided in his concept of duty that he banished his wife to the forest when she was expecting, and that by stealth, without a word to her. I don't see this as being progressive towards women. But then, in this age of political correctness, all the leading men have to be in touch with their emotional side!

As for Puru, I agree with you, except that such an overdose of lilywhite goodness makes me feel queasy. I prefer the Rhett Butlers of literature, but of course that is my own personal taste.

Alexander means - defender of people, warrior, conqueror. Sikander, the name Alex loves so much means a victorious warrior. Alexander strives to be nothing other than his name - the undefeated warrior and conquering king of all the world. He is brave, intelligent, ruthless, cruel at times even, ambitious, proud, egoistic and majestic. Alexander too is a defender of his people, of his men of women but not at all times. He leans more to following the victorious conqueror in his name. To follow that ideal, he gives to the altar of death many sacrifices of men, women and children and does not flinch or reflect on any death he caused - As he declares, he is Zeus ka beta and successor of Achilles - the god of the present and like all gods, it is his right to decide life and death. That is ego at its most supreme when intoxicated by victory. It remains to be seen whether he learns what godship really means for a mortal.

Of course he does not. That is his tragedy. But I prefer the fallibility of an Alexander to the moral perfection of a Puru.

See, in the diversion from their planned voyage due to Laachi's insistence on his being good and a rakshak, Puru is nearly killed. If he had actually died, what would the moral have been? Again, between helping two people in distress and safeguarding his whole country, what should Puru choose? In real life, he would never have had such a neat ending, and an totally unbelievable one, as being transported from the Jhelum to Susa instantly, with a brace of horses to boot!

Purushottam has the glory of a man par excellence, and that is why he can act as a good defender and king. Yet uttam does not mean shresht, does not mean infallible and certainly does not mean a victory.

Alexander has the glory of a conqueror undefeatable, and that is why he is the greatest or shrestha warrior. But shreshta too cannot always mean uttam. Victory does not mean goodness, does not ensure peace, does not even ensure true godhood.

It is a dichotomy of uttam and shresht at work here. Both natures of uttam and shresht can be mutually inclusive but also mutually exclusive. On that note, I shall sign off.

A beautiful play on the words, my dear.πŸ‘ I cannot, off the cuff, think of anyone who was both uttam and shresht. Not even in our epics. And I always preferred Lord Krishna to Lord Rama.

Love,
Ankita.

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Originally posted by: --BlackSheep--

Sisygambis??You want her??Please inform about her to Team Swastik.

This is how they will react.
(I assume everyone here has seen the hit Star Plus show KhichdiπŸ˜†If not then please watch a couple of episodes to understand the referenceπŸ˜‰)

Writer 1 : Ae Praful !!! Sisygambis matlab???

Writer 2 : Main Hoon Naa!! Sisygambis Hansaaa!!! Woh hamare baaju waale Mehta ke bete ne playground se aane ke baad kya kaha tha??

Writer 1 : Woh usne kaha tha See Saw game is...Oh!! Seesawgameis,Sisygambis samjhi😳




Ayesha, girl you're too good!🀣


@Shymala Aunty :
Actually the thing is I no more watch Porus, apart from catching up a few scenes here and there.
I was drawn to your post cause someone (unlike CVs) had taken efforts to dig up the real history. Thankyou for that, I was taken aback initiallyπŸ˜†
My friend had praised the Alex Hepheastion scene too, although it appeared too sensual to me πŸ˜•
But nevermind, I'm looking forward to Alex's further conquests now. That's probably the only thing I'm looking forward to (apart from Puru Laachi's marriage)
I'm sure they're following this wretched track of Maharana Pratap where Pratap and Akbar met, unknown to their real identities. Maybe Alex too will encounter Puru and will be impressed by him. Cause rivalry here makes less sense, given Alex is with his army. Maybe Puru shall try saving Barsine but will fail πŸ₯±

And btw, I'm Mahi :)
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Ayesha, your memes are far more interesting than Porus πŸ˜†
Even I'm waiting for Roxy 😳
Did you mention Sarabhai
Okay. That story is stupid indeed. CVs won't take so much pain to show that. And the amount of love polygons we already have, they're enough. No more complications πŸ˜†

It's sure though that Vissyyy will die saving Puru, in his arms.πŸ˜†
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mahi i will be very happy if alexander dont meet puru at all. puru ko alexander ki ek jhalak bhi na mile
saving barsine i was also thinking will puru planning 2 take barsine with him 2 india
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Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

mahi i will be very happy if alexander dont meet puru at all. puru ko alexander ki ek jhalak bhi na mile

saving barsine i was also thinking will puru planning 2 take barsine with him 2 india


Even I don't want them to meet. But Puru jab aa hi gaya hain toh kuch hona hi hain, CVs haven't shown this level of raita for nothing πŸ˜†
Puru ka dimaag woh hi jaane. He'd left to know Alex, ended up receiving Barsine's letter and now is stuck with Vissyyy in Farus πŸ˜†
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@Shyamala Aunty - Since it is raining outside and I have sometime, let me add some more to my reply. The alliteration in your post's title did not escape my notice. πŸ˜‰ I do so enjoy a play of words. Anyways, I would like to add that both our male leads do have an obsession with Bharat and all her golden feathers. πŸ˜† Even the mention of Bharat has Puru bursting into serenades of patriotism while Alexander enters all modes of distraction - tripping in fights, beheading oracles who could have been useful and letting slip annoying enemies. πŸ˜†
On a sidenote - the uttam vs shreshta point - I took am a fan of Krishna more than Ram...but in the epics my favourite character remains Arjuna ...he was the only guy who was uttam along with being shreshta. I compared Puru to uttam aspect of Arjuna in a previous post of yours.

Since you mentioned Maryada Purushottam Ram and the exile of Sita, let me add what I interpret from that part - Ram is Maryada Purushottam but conversely his Purushottam has a Maryada that cannot be crossed. For his time, a Satyayug dominated by a patriarchal society, he is the ideal man. Within that masculine framework of rigid rules, punishments vows and inflexibity, Ram emerges as Purushottam because of his compassion and bravery as well as his progressive mindset about women - He initiates the recovery of the stonelike Ahalya after her affair debacle, he promises to be a one-woman husband, on sita's insistence he allows her to follow him on his dangerous exile. But this Purushottam is limited to the times he lives in and the society he has to rule - that is why even Ram is subject to the patriarchal rules and succumbs to that masculine bent of mind. His Purushottam has a maryada, a patriarchal limit and that is why the ideal society of Ram fails to protect his queen and highest feminine subject Sita. Sita is the divine feminine who is ousted from Ayodhya so that it can become the ideal society of its time. But it is this exile of hers that time and again points out the glaring deficiency of that supposedly perfect society - during the first agnipariksha, during the yagna when Ram refuses to marry another woman and has a golden statue of Sita made to sit beside him in the puja, during the discovery of Luv Kush and lastly during the second challenge of agnipariksha. Where Ram is limited to the laws he makes, it is Sita who shines and shows society the disbalance of their rigid foundation. Where Ram is limited by his inability to outright reject a society he knows has been unfair, it is the divine feminine Sita who finally opens all eyes by rejecting the patriarchal acceptance and choosing to merge with Mother Earth.

Contrasted to him, Krishna is a rulebreaker and highly flexible epitome of Purusha who reinforces the Masculine-Feminine balance of society time and time again. In this perhaps, Krishna finds the greatest ally in Arjuna, who himself is another Purushottam with the perfect balance of masculine strength and feminine flexibity in his body as well as in his mind.


Now coming to Puru and Alexander - I do agree that Puru appears the allround do-gooder with minor flaws and Alex is the perpetually grey monsoon cloud. Both have their own charms to me. I do enjoy grey shades as they are more real to me but I find that I cannot respect a grey-shaded or lily white character who with the progress of time does not try to improve his flawed aspects. A man/woman who cannot recognise his shortcomings and improve on them is a lesser man/woman indeed and a flat unevolving character to boot. Puru on the other hand is already swarming with goodness and while his nature needs not much evolution his flaws, when they occur, appear so glaring to me. His goodness can surely be the death of him at times and he too must evolve and improve his impetuosness.

In short, while I do like grey characters, they gain my admiration when they overcome their shortcomings. A life lived in greys is certainly fascinating but a life that does not even strive to improve itself in goodness and truth remains unsatisfactory. To be and do better, to continually grow and evolve in the right direction is the innate characteristic of an ideal Purusha, be he uttam or shreshta.
What I look forward to the most is the evolution of Alexander - something tells me enlightenment awaits this son of God in Bharat.πŸ˜†



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^Brilliant words there. I totally agree with the Ram & Krishna part and you can take me to be a Krishna fan like you too!
Krishna was ever accepting to the changing times. Maryada not lies in becoming a slave of rules but becoming a slave of truth, which doesn't really need rules to uphold itself.

That is why I'm such a profound lover of Him, his leelas and his narration of Mahabharata.😳
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My dear Mahi,

Your last line is priceless!πŸ‘

As for me, the problem is that by now, I simply don't care a hoot what happens to Puru. That is fatal. I am not at the age when one drools over handsome young men, so I need something or someone I want to watch because he/she is a gripping character.

If the Alexander had not been so perfectly cast - Colin Farrell was a very sad choice in the Oliver Stone film, and that soured me on it - I would have quit Porus long ago. As it is, I have to grit my teeth and hang in there thru the 80%+ of Puru before we get anything worthwhile!

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: ..AjabdeBaisa..


Even I don't want them to meet. But Puru jab aa hi gaya hain toh kuch hona hi hain, CVs haven't shown this level of raita for nothing πŸ˜†
Puru ka dimaag woh hi jaane. He'd left to know Alex, ended up receiving Barsine's letter and now is stuck with Vissyyy in Farus πŸ˜†

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My dear child,

I now realise, after reading this marvellous post of yours, that you are what the French would call a philosophe manquee, the two "e"s being for the feminine.

I loved your dissertation on Rama, though for me, it doesn't make him any less irritating. Yes, one can rail at the Lord too!

As for the evolution of Alexander, I am afraid it is unlikely, under the aegis of this PH, to be sui generis, or because of his interactions with the wise brahmans he is supposed to have met. In fact Alexander.was already accepting enough of quirky sages before he left on his odyssey. After getting the approval of the League of Corinth for his campaign, he met Diogenes and was summarily brushed aside and told to get out of the rays of the sun so that Diogenes could be warm. He didn't take even that amiss.

But here we shall surely have Puru preaching at poor
Alexander post the battle of the Hydaspes, and " reforming " this kroor, nirmam vyakti into a compassionate human being, a la Angulimaal and the Lord Buddha, in short. Or a variation of Jodha ne Jalal ko haivaan se banaya insaan.😑

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: BrienneOfTarth

@Shyamala Aunty - Since it is raining outside and I have sometime, let me add some more to my reply. The alliteration in your post's title did not escape my notice. πŸ˜‰ I do so enjoy a play of words. Anyways, I would like to add that both our male leads do have an obsession with Bharat and all her golden feathers. πŸ˜† Even the mention of Bharat has Puru bursting into serenades of patriotism while Alexander enters all modes of distraction - tripping in fights, beheading oracles who could have been useful and letting slip annoying enemies. πŸ˜†

On a sidenote - the uttam vs shreshta point - I took am a fan of Krishna more than Ram...but in the epics my favourite character remains Arjuna ...he was the only guy who was uttam along with being shreshta. I compared Puru to uttam aspect of Arjuna in a previous post of yours.

Since you mentioned Maryada Purushottam Ram and the exile of Sita, let me add what I interpret from that part - Ram is Maryada Purushottam but conversely his Purushottam has a Maryada that cannot be crossed. For his time, a Satyayug dominated by a patriarchal society, he is the ideal man. Within that masculine framework of rigid rules, punishments vows and inflexibity, Ram emerges as Purushottam because of his compassion and bravery as well as his progressive mindset about women - He initiates the recovery of the stonelike Ahalya after her affair debacle, he promises to be a one-woman husband, on sita's insistence he allows her to follow him on his dangerous exile. But this Purushottam is limited to the times he lives in and the society he has to rule - that is why even Ram is subject to the patriarchal rules and succumbs to that masculine bent of mind. His Purushottam has a maryada, a patriarchal limit and that is why the ideal society of Ram fails to protect his queen and highest feminine subject Sita. Sita is the divine feminine who is ousted from Ayodhya so that it can become the ideal society of its time. But it is this exile of hers that time and again points out the glaring deficiency of that supposedly perfect society - during the first agnipariksha, during the yagna when Ram refuses to marry another woman and has a golden statue of Sita made to sit beside him in the puja, during the discovery of Luv Kush and lastly during the second challenge of agnipariksha. Where Ram is limited to the laws he makes, it is Sita who shines and shows society the disbalance of their rigid foundation. Where Ram is limited by his inability to outright reject a society he knows has been unfair, it is the divine feminine Sita who finally opens all eyes by rejecting the patriarchal acceptance and choosing to merge with Mother Earth.

Contrasted to him, Krishna is a rulebreaker and highly flexible epitome of Purusha who reinforces the Masculine-Feminine balance of society time and time again. In this perhaps, Krishna finds the greatest ally in Arjuna, who himself is another Purushottam with the perfect balance of masculine strength and feminine flexibity in his body as well as in his mind.


Now coming to Puru and Alexander - I do agree that Puru appears the allround do-gooder with minor flaws and Alex is the perpetually grey monsoon cloud. Both have their own charms to me. I do enjoy grey shades as they are more real to me but I find that I cannot respect a grey-shaded or lily white character who with the progress of time does not try to improve his flawed aspects. A man/woman who cannot recognise his shortcomings and improve on them is a lesser man/woman indeed and a flat unevolving character to boot. Puru on the other hand is already swarming with goodness and while his nature needs not much evolution his flaws, when they occur, appear so glaring to me. His goodness can surely be the death of him at times and he too must evolve and improve his impetuosness.

In short, while I do like grey characters, they gain my admiration when they overcome their shortcomings. A life lived in greys is certainly fascinating but a life that does not even strive to improve itself in goodness and truth remains unsatisfactory. To be and do better, to continually grow and evolve in the right direction is the innate characteristic of an ideal Purusha, be he uttam or shreshta.

What I look forward to the most is the evolution of Alexander - something tells me enlightenment awaits this son of God in Bharat.πŸ˜†



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