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Posted: 12 years ago
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I know that you are a huge fan of Vickram and you are entitled to be; but it is possible that you are because of his gentle and kind ways from the beginning of the show. In your mind he was the perfect person for Sugni. I was also a fan of his when the show first started, that is until I knew he was married. The show at present shows him as a negative character but for me it was his marital status that swayed me. A MARRIED man has no scruples when he looks at another woman and if he can while being married it is completely wrong. I am a marriage counselor for 35 years and I am married for 42 years and I see most marriages broken because of being unfaithfull. I am not bashing Vickram but he should realize he is married and try to work his marriage out. Reva is only negative because he is showing her that he loves (or rather lust) over Sugni. I am sure that no married woman would like to see her husband go after another woman. This is just my opinion on the situation of people hung up on the idea of Vickram being the one who is hurt. So Vickram fans continue to love him but remember what you saw in him the first time was right UNTIL we found out he was married and the truth began to unfold. If you feel I am wrong blame it on my experience of counselling for so many years and see so many marriages brought back alive when two people sit and work things out together, giving each other space and time, learning to give and forgive and bring back the trust in their lives.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Madam...

Do u agree if TVS gets divorse from Reva and ,then he can continues his affair with sugni?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Madam...

Do u agree if TVS gets divorse from Reva and ,then he can continues his affair with sugni?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Joyel thank you for your response. My answer to your question is simple, he is married and was married at the time he met Sugni. If someone is divorced then there is no rule saying he cannot love someone else and marry. So my answer is: of course he can
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Madam...

is it fair to loves a girl aged 19 years old by a man whose age is 40 years old...?

That means character Sugni is 19 years old and TVS 40 years old..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Joyel

Madam...

is it fair to loves a girl aged 19 years old by a man whose age is 40 years old...?

That means character Sugni is 19 years old and TVS 40 years old..

Love does not know age. As you might have known English Actors or singer as Celine Dion/Rene Angelil or even Indian actors (e.g.Dalip Kumar/Saira Banu) found love irregardless of age and they lived happily after. One of my colleague, he is 76 years and is going to marry a 27 year old. So for me I don't find it a problem. I have lived in Canada for 49 years and here it is very common with old/young relationships
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think u not watching this show since beginning, when vikram met to sugni he thought his wife has died in an accident last year,not only he even his whole family have accepted that his wife is dead, even his sister was trying to convince him for marriage to a high-fiy girl.. ..
we all always saying that he was wrong when he hide the truth that his dead wife came back, but ..he wanted to divorce rewa but great adi and sug din't let him ...
we mad because we r not able to accept a relationship btw a nephew and his mama's GF, even nephew was very much engaged, with his own wish.. and that girl was very nice always support to sugni.. and nephew knew 'how much his mama love to sugni,..
and vikram never try to harm her or use her, and rewa want only status, not his love, she attempted to kill him twice, so if he wanted to give divorce this kind of lady, me not think this is crime..
infront of adi,sug ,gulbiya ..vikram is saint.. these trio always insulted him, humiliating him in the public, but he never.. he is now became devil but before he was an angel..
in this drama if any body suffering the most ,that is vikram.. his life's 2 most important people deceived him, 1st his love of life 'whom he loved more then life and 2nd is his nephew whom he raised like son.. every body got what they want but he got nothing... except pain..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey Vidya,
I have a question for you. I agree with your post that he is married and should not be chasing her. But given the facts we were shown, that his relationship started when he thought his wife to be dead. And he is convinced that he is /was totally in love with Sugni...
Is it right in the way Sugni is treating him...being in front of him and flaunting her relationship. Would it not be more compassionate , for all the love she claimed to have for him...to be away from him with her husband??? I have no problems with Sugni being married to some one else , what I have a problem with is her insistence on staying there, it is like she is inviting trouble because
1. she is not giving him a chance to forget her and move on
2. her presance will not help his marriage.
Please share your thoughts on this!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: croziaxx

i think u not watching this show since beginning, when vikram met to sugni he thought his wife has died in an accident last year,not only he even his whole family have accepted that his wife is dead, even his sister was trying to convince him for marriage to a high-fiy girl.. ..

we all always saying that he was wrong when he hide the truth that his dead wife came back, but ..he wanted to divorce rewa but great adi and sug din't let him ...
we mad because we r not able to accept a relationship btw a nephew and his mama's GF, even nephew was very much engaged, with his own wish.. and that girl was very nice always support to sugni.. and nephew knew 'how much his mama love to sugni,..
and vikram never try to harm her or use her, and rewa want only status, not his love, she attempted to kill him twice, so if he wanted to give divorce this kind of lady, me not think this is crime..
infront of adi,sug ,gulbiya ..vikram is saint.. these trio always insulted him, humiliating him in the public, but he never.. he is now became devil but before he was an angel..
in this drama if any body suffering the most ,that is vikram.. his life's 2 most important people deceived him, 1st his love of life 'whom he loved more then life and 2nd is his nephew whom he raised like son.. every body got what they want but he got nothing... except pain..

You're right he thought she died BUT when he found out he had the chance to tell Sugni but did not
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Posted: 12 years ago
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he did try, but she said i will die if rewa is alive.. so that was his weakness we accept this he was wrong.. but there was no need to marry to her lover's nephew its utter disgusting...🤢
and she snatched amrita's love but never regret..
and as i said he made only one mistake, but others making blunder but never punished... all rules only for vikram..
Edited by croziaxx - 12 years ago

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