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Posted: 12 years ago
#51
Excellent Posts Julie D and Venesa!!

However, we know that the only reason the Adini fans want Reva with Vikram, is of course to get Vikram out of their way.
I feel sad to know how cold hearts can be towards another human being. Hence the cvs write such a story and some viewers support. No wonder this world can never be a better place.

Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Utter Nonsense!!!! I hate those people who say to their daughters that " mar ke he ana ab wapas" We are living in 21st century but SHAME ON US we are becoming bigger and bigger hypocrites ,on one side we defend immorality and on the other side we defend how to stay in an unhappy marriage. This generation has loosing all morality for their convenience only but they will not leave a chance to make a havoc if anybody wants to move on and gets a divorce. Just stop making divorce a SIN and Stop glorifying the bakwas concept of "ek dafa shadi ho gyi to bina mare nahi khatam hogi" For God Sake open ur brains and let the fresh air come to in. Don't let us feel like that this generation is good for nothing.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by ulakmini
If marrige is broken the how hubby and wife lives under one roof...?
Reva turned up from the dead and has made it very clear to Vikram that she wants her future secure, so she will not budge from his house.
I do not like to put my viwe or any famouse viwes in a open foeum about Boliwood star marriges... I know about Sri- Bonny marrige and Sanjay's history too...Richa sharma, Riya pillai and the person you mentioned is 3rd one?
Whether she is the 3rd wife or the 10th one the fact remains she has brought stability to his life. I quoted bollywood stars coz they are famous and you would know their stories. If i quoted the middle class or the poorer section marriages you would not know them.
But the Normal and middle class socity we lives in. the married person having an affair with another person is wrong...legali wrong..ethically wrong...
This sentence of yours proves your knowledge on the problem. an illicit affair in any class of society is wrong be it Society Celebs, Middle class or the poor it is wrong. Vikram is not having an affair with Sugni he fell in love with her when he knew his wife was dead and now cannot turn off the emotion so he intends divorcing his wife and only then marrying Sugni where is the question of an illicit affair. An affair is when you sleep around with the person or are having a live in relationship.
Last 10 years i am working as counsellor ...I worked with most of social catogories...I worked in India and Nepal too with unisef...there is no big diffrent in SL, Nepal or India...people can not leave their hubby or wife because he or she is unhappy with that person...do you know the low about marriges and divorce...? In India are they giving devorce only for the reason that hubby is not happy with my wife...?
When you question a person on the laws of divorce you should understand that divorce is very common not only in any of the european countries but also in India. Even the common Indian man is generally aware of the basic laws of divorce. As far as i am concerned i have witnessed not just Hindu divorces happening but also christian and that too of just one sided appeal for a divorce with the other person refusing to do so, so me not being aware of the law is out of question and even if i did not have the experience any sensible person would know that a computer savy person can find any information on Google so what is Indian Law. As far as my experience with counsellors is concerned i have known them to give a practical view coz every inidividual is different and has different approaches to a situation i have noticed counsellors complicate things more than solve them.
Edited by Saviosaraff - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54
I am sorry I was under the impression that counsellors are meant to remian neutral when providing support?
Edited by payal7 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Payal that was alot of people's assumption!! But now we stand corrected. 😆😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56
i say find a new girl for Vikram, and get them their own show ASAP 😃

Honestly they have butchered Sugni's character beyond repair...i really only watch this show for the Vikram scenes
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Ulakmini

So you are saying that a person cannot divorce if they feel unhappy with a person? One thing I know we have in this world as humans and that is 'Free Will." Whether you like it or not, even marriages can be broken for the most mundane reasons, as you perceive.
However, being unhappy with a wife is "not mundane." If you are a counsellor as you say you are, you must know that unhappy parents cause unhappy children, who feel rejected, and this rejection makes them have self-esteem issues, selfish thoughts and behaviour, they are troublemakers on their jobs and in their friendships with others, they become thieves, murderers, serial killers, you name it. They become socially inept. All of this can be as a result of a marriage between Vikram and Reva. Reva is a manipulative, cruel, selfish and greedy woman. She pretended to be dead for a year, and as soon as she found out Vikram has moved on emotionally, she reappears. What kind of marriage is that? Not to mention the fact that he was 'never' happy with her to begin with.
So, even if you don't want Vikram with Sugni, say so, but don't try to rationalise Vikram staying with Reva, inspite of the horrible existence of this fallacy of a marriage.
This is what ruins this world and makes it so horrible to live in for many persons. If you are not the perpetrator you are the victim. Vikram has that God Given right to "Choose," to Not be a Victim to Reva.

Ever so often, women go into marriages with this falseness of a good person that never existed and have the gall that they have this God given right to be loved by imperfect human beings inspite of their evil ways. They bring forth evil children who makes the rest of us suffer at the hands of their continuous evil acts. I may not be able to do anything about the world and make a change, but I am not going to watch this show, whether fictious or not and blind my eye to the real intentions of Reva and say she deserves to stay married to a Good man like Vikram. Nor am I going to be silent and let young viewers believe that what you and the others like you say, is correct and they have no God give right to choose to be happy. You and your like minded viewers, do not have that right to Dictate what Vikram must do with his pursuit of happiness.

Just because some people have this blind belief that marriages must not be broken even if it is not benefiting all parties involved, does not mean Vikram must stay in this marriage. She does not deserve Vikram or any good man, because she is a liar and a fraud and she does not have the ability or decency to be in a wonderful and serious commitment such as marriage.

No offence, but your argument is unreal and lacks compassion for your fellow human beings who are good. Being a counsellor is being compassionate and looking at all sides. Being a counsellor is looking at humanity through the eyes of another person, especially the person who you are judging.

Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: venesa


let me make it clear
a person may not get divorce on basis of hez not happy with his spouse when its his individual opinion and other partner objects 2 give divorce
but vikram can easily get divorce on this basis and points
1)reva was away whole 1yr dont knw with whom she was and wat she did in whole 1yr
2)reva came all of a sudden when tvs want 2 marry,how?
3)reva lied and acted as insane when she is properly sane
4)reva even attempted 2 kill him twice acting as insane
forget about divorce shecan be jailed for murder attempt,cheating and vikram can not only divorce but also can get her punished and jailed.

we all know law properly and perfectly there is no need 4 any lawyer/consultant for such basic things 2know about.all the adults do knw and are educated abt it.

first i have to tell that Rewa also can prove those reasons you have given are fake...and Vikram also can get punidhed , besause he attakced Gulabia..Rewa and Vikram both are mentally down
Vikram is creazy because he is going to loosing his love
Rewa in creazy because she is going to loosing her husband...
Both of them are acting agressive and behave creazy ways to recover their fears...but the peoblem is you all Vikram fans are justifying V and fogetting Reva...
my question is IF he ended with the relationship with his wife, why he kept her hide in that menssion...why he has hidden it from the world...? I watched this show from bigining...As i know Rewa got to know about this Sugni- vikram marrige when she was in Rewa menssion...After gulabia found Rewa in that menssion ,she challenged vikram that she will never let happen this marrige. she left to saying " teej ke din tum aur Sugni ka shaadi nahi honge"..Rewa listned it in behind...that is the time she got ro know about this V-S relationship...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hillydee

@Ulakmini


So you are saying that a person cannot divorce if they feel unhappy with a person? One thing I know we have in this world as humans and that is 'Free Will." Whether you like it or not, even marriages can be broken for the most mundane reasons, as you perceive.
However, being unhappy with a wife is "not mundane." If you are a counsellor as you say you are, you must know that unhappy parents cause unhappy children, who feel rejected, and this rejection makes them have self-esteem issues, selfish thoughts and behaviour, they are troublemakers on their jobs and in their friendships with others, they become thieves, murderers, serial killers, you name it. They become socially inept. All of this can be as a result of a marriage between Vikram and Reva. Reva is a manipulative, cruel, selfish and greedy woman. She pretended to be dead for a year, and as soon as she found out Vikram has moved on emotionally, she reappears. What kind of marriage is that? Not to mention the fact that he was 'never' happy with her to begin with.
So, even if you don't want Vikram with Sugni, say so, but don't try to rationalise Vikram staying with Reva, inspite of the horrible existence of this fallacy of a marriage.
This is what ruins this world and makes it so horrible to live in for many persons. If you are not the perpetrator you are the victim. Vikram has that God Given right to "Choose," to Not be a Victim to Reva.

Ever so often, women go into marriages with this falseness of a good person that never existed and have the gall that they have this God given right to be loved by imperfect human beings inspite of their evil ways. They bring forth evil children who makes the rest of us suffer at the hands of their continuous evil acts. I may not be able to do anything about the world and make a change, but I am not going to watch this show, whether fictious or not and blind my eye to the real intentions of Reva and say she deserves to stay married to a Good man like Vikram. Nor am I going to be silent and let young viewers believe that what you and the others like you say, is correct and they have no God give right to choose to be happy. You and your like minded viewers, do not have that right to Dictate what Vikram must do with his pursuit of happiness.

Just because some people have this blind belief that marriages must not be broken even if it is not benefiting all parties involved, does not mean Vikram must stay in this marriage. She does not deserve Vikram or any good man, because she is a liar and a fraud and she does not have the ability or decency to be in a wonderful and serious commitment such as marriage.

No offence, but your argument is unreal and lacks compassion for your fellow human beings who are good. Being a counsellor is being compassionate and looking at all sides. Being a counsellor is looking at humanity through the eyes of another person, especially the person who you are judging.

o.k...I will tell you one thing ..when a child came to mental treatments for stress or any issue that regads with mental balance...because of parents problems... how can we give the soliution to parents that you should get divorce...? divorce is the worst part that child can have bad effect...we csounsellors always try to save marriges...i am working as an chils psychiologist in National child peotection Auhtoeity of Sri lanka...same time mental hospital in Colombo too...NCPA is the organizatin to prevent child abuse...according to our staticticse 20% of children here got mentally, psycically and sexullay abused . we provide them to recover and we are conducting peograms to make people awear about prevent c of child abuse...this is not related with PSH forum..but the isse came about divorce and counsellors' role...When it came to children we always try to reunite parents...we made 2 divorced couples to remarry for childtens sake..
IN here V and R relationship i always looked both sides...TVS and Rewa both are same..
Both are liers..both are agressive, both are not in under controll...how we can say one is bad and one is good..?
Edited by ulakmini - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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So u meant to say that reva never had an idea before that vikram is going to marry sugni then why she was behaving mentally sick and attacked on vikram? According to u she heard and ran from the mansion but what i heard is she said clearly to her borther that she ran from the mansion and came to niranjan it was niranjan who told her about vikram sugni marriage.So basically she got to know after meeting her brother not before. then he suggested her to act as a mad woman. Then before knowing the truth she still was violent and mentally sick what was that? Why the hell she acted mad and attacked on vikram even before knowing the truth? Being a fan of adi-sugni u 're just trying to change the facts nothing else.

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