I might stop watching

Originally posted by: cool_kriti

The way the story is going I might stop watching BD😭😭. I am not liking anything in the show.😕

1) The Abeer I liked in season 1 confident and full of attitude is lost and all he does is keep begging for forgiveness and gets insulted in return. The charm of the character is not there. He has no self respect. I dont think I'll be happy even if Abeer marries Meher now. From being a passionate love story this story is turning out to be AAshiq Abeer running after chudail Meher with no feelings (Sorry for the language).

2) Meher has absolutely no feelings for Abeer. She was even laughing happily for whatever jokes the wedding planner can crack 😲. Like Abeer says, she does not say anything being kissed by AKshat but pushes ABeer away when he comes near.

3) From the episode I feel even Madhvi is not gonna tell the truth to Abeer

4) Sasha is going to be hurt 😔

5) Even if Abeer marries Meher I will not be happy now because it would be like Abeer losing his self respect. Despite being insulted so badly , marrying Meher ? Its like one cant totally change oneself for someone's love. Then its not called love. Its called compromise.

Sorry for a depressing post. 😆😆 But I just could not help it...

Don t jump into conclusions dear, wait and watch let the story unfold.have faith in tiwariji .he would be definitely learnt a lesson from rangrasiya he will not disappoint us cheer up

Originally posted by: Sumithraramesh4

Originally posted by: Mages

there is lost love b/w Mehbeer...8 yrs is long...very long...and meher has suffered alot including her pregnancy...the world looking down upon a single mother who is divorced...she has gone through more than we imagine...the hurdles has made her rock solid...she loves abeer...but she doesn't want to go back into the life...where only got pain...insulted and humiliated...her main priority now is ishu and only ishu...the kiss b/w akshat-meher was just a friendly gesture...all mothers thinks the well being of their kids...she is using her brains rather than her heart to decide...she has her own mysterious issue to stay away from abeer...to keep ishu away from abeer...kuber-taiji one of the main reason...the next reason is abeer's unpredictable behaviour...temper issues...drinking habits which has got worst after meher left him...his obsessive behaviour...picking up fights...she is protecting her son future...which is at the moment...most important for her...she is just trying to move on in life...she has the rights to move on in life...if she doesn't want to go back to abeer...she may not love akshat...she still loves abeer but akshat can give her and ishu the simple life she dream abt...

as for abeer...there is difference b/w season 1/2 abeer...the abeer in season 1 had grudges and so called hatred for meher...his revenge was to irritate her and make her feel his pain...how painful when heart breaks by the person you loved the most...he wanted meher to feel his loneliness...he wanted meher to know he is lifeless now...nothing can affect him...not even meher...he wanted to prove that he can live w/o her...that abeer was living in a trap of MU created by kuber-taiji which make him MU his wife...the current abeer has fallen in love with meher again...he realises her worth and importance in his life when he was loosing her to death...loosing her forever...thats when he realise...the revenge was a mask on his real feelings for meher...he always loved her...there was no revenge at all in his mind...he was irritating her big time becos he loves her...he wants her back in his life...he is trying his best to win her heart again...but with akshat's entry...he has become obsessive for meher...the fear of loosing her again made him obsessive...once again he is doing impulsive things...its his fear of loosing meher forever...he loves her too much and it has gone to obsession level...he wants meher back by hook or crook...abeer is a person who listens to his heart...thus those humiliation and insult doesn't matter to him...any person who uses brains to think might think abt self-respect...but a person who listens to heart only listens what the heart says and follow it...and abeer's heart leads to only meher...even if she insults and humiliates him...all he wants is her...becos his heart set the road towards meher only...when its the matter of hearts...brains are not used...thats why they say 'pyar dil se hota hai...dimaag nahin...aur jo dimaag se pyar karein woh pyar nahin'...

Originally posted by: Chessy

Hey Kriti, I think you are rushing... take a deep breath and relax 🤗 My thoughts on the matter...

The Abeer at the beginning thought he hated Meher as she took money from his father and ditched him. He behaved quite rudely with her in those days. Will any girl like to put up with such a guy? I would think not... The Abeer of college days is a total carefree romantic boy who loved Meher but he seemed to be the stronger person in that relationship. However, at present, Meher has faced quite a lot of challenges in life all alone. It roughens the person.

Unlike Abeer she is not ok to give him a chance... she says she made the sacrifices for Ishaan. We dont know what those are... if it was good enough to convince Madhavi then those should be valid points... so lets wait for tomorrow and take a call on this point.

The current Abeer is similar to the college Abeer, he loves Meher to pieces as he realizes what happened to her during and after marriage was really unjust and the fear of loosing someone that you loved deeply will change you at a deeper level. That's why he is soft. But he is not all that soft and still yells at her (remember the Ishaan episodes in the begining)... he still shows Akshat who has the upper hand. He was still able to see what's running in Meher's mind (remember the laptop scene today) She didnt let Akshat into her cabin, didnt want to meet him and hid Abeer from Akshat. I think she cares... Chudail Meher... we will know tomorrow. Meher is not emotionless, you will see her melting in Abeer's arms soon.

I think Madhavi will tell the truth to Abeer. Mehbeer's marriage is going to happen next week. This is my prediction.

Sasha will be hurt but imagine what she will go through if she married Abeer. She would have ruined her life, a little hurt is better than life long sorrow and unhappiness.

Tomorrow scene will change your views as the secret is going to be revealed. If you notice, Abeer opens up only with Meher and ditto with Abeer... so where is self respect? In a very close relationship you dont look at self respect all the time... there are times when you do let that go.

Change is the only thing that is permanent. If Abeer is changing for good whats wrong with it? Dont husbands and wife change all the time in a relationship? We dont act in a marriage like we do with our parents... so Change is good. Meher does not want Abeer to change upside down... she only wants him to be mature and responsible... even if Sasha marries Abeer he would still need to change.

Well call that my bit of wisdom or rant and hope its convincing to you...

Originally posted by: Mages

there is lost love b/w Mehbeer...8 yrs is long...very long...and meher has suffered alot including her pregnancy...the world looking down upon a single mother who is divorced...she has gone through more than we imagine...the hurdles has made her rock solid...she loves abeer...but she doesn't want to go back into the life...where only got pain...insulted and humiliated...her main priority now is ishu and only ishu...the kiss b/w akshat-meher was just a friendly gesture...all mothers thinks the well being of their kids...she is using her brains rather than her heart to decide...she has her own mysterious issue to stay away from abeer...to keep ishu away from abeer...kuber-taiji one of the main reason...the next reason is abeer's unpredictable behaviour...temper issues...drinking habits which has got worst after meher left him...his obsessive behaviour...picking up fights...she is protecting her son future...which is at the moment...most important for her...she is just trying to move on in life...she has the rights to move on in life...if she doesn't want to go back to abeer...she may not love akshat...she still loves abeer but akshat can give her and ishu the simple life she dream abt...

as for abeer...there is difference b/w season 1/2 abeer...the abeer in season 1 had grudges and so called hatred for meher...his revenge was to irritate her and make her feel his pain...how painful when heart breaks by the person you loved the most...he wanted meher to feel his loneliness...he wanted meher to know he is lifeless now...nothing can affect him...not even meher...he wanted to prove that he can live w/o her...that abeer was living in a trap of MU created by kuber-taiji which make him MU his wife...the current abeer has fallen in love with meher again...he realises her worth and importance in his life when he was loosing her to death...loosing her forever...thats when he realise...the revenge was a mask on his real feelings for meher...he always loved her...there was no revenge at all in his mind...he was irritating her big time becos he loves her...he wants her back in his life...he is trying his best to win her heart again...but with akshat's entry...he has become obsessive for meher...the fear of loosing her again made him obsessive...once again he is doing impulsive things...its his fear of loosing meher forever...he loves her too much and it has gone to obsession level...he wants meher back by hook or crook...abeer is a person who listens to his heart...thus those humiliation and insult doesn't matter to him...any person who uses brains to think might think abt self-respect...but a person who listens to heart only listens what the heart says and follow it...and abeer's heart leads to only meher...even if she insults and humiliates him...all he wants is her...becos his heart set the road towards meher only...when its the matter of hearts...brains are not used...thats why they say 'pyar dil se hota hai...dimaag nahin...aur jo dimaag se pyar karein woh pyar nahin'...

Originally posted by: Sumithraramesh4

Mages u can be one of the cvs for bd.then it will do wonders in HS.very well expressed emotions in ur post.hope thecvs will read if posts

Originally posted by: cool_kriti

Thanks for writing 😃

I am not denying change is bad. Everybody change in a relationship. But changing so much that you dont remember who you were would only lead to disaster. You can change 50% for a person, you can change 80% for a person ... But if you change 100% for a person then you are no longer yourself. You are somebody else' prepared wish.

What I was upset about was Meher's lack of feelings for Abeer. You cant force somebody to like you. If Meher does not like Abeer and wants to move on... Then there is little Abeer can do😆