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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Ishana-


To be honest, and I mean this in the nicest way possible, Meher strikes me as a girl who would rather have a dating relationship than marriage


Hmm... Maybe😆 Are you thinking she wouldn't want marriage because it would interfere with her independence or more that it would hinder her life goals? I think it could go either way with her.

I think Meher has a lot of intimacy issues... it would be tough for her to truly let someone in for fear of abandonment. Keeping it to a dating relationship allows you to keep control over it and not let yourself become too dependent on anyone else.. I think that's why it hurts her so much-- because she did let him in completely and became dependent on him. That's why she is so vociferous that she doesn't need him anymore, that she has learned to take care of herself.

But at the same time, I think she was someone who squashed her childhood fantasies to fulfil her aspirations but its not that she didn't have the same aspirations as other girls. That's what her diary monologue was about.


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: malikakas



Hmm... Maybe😆Are you thinking she wouldn't want marriage because it would interfere with her independence or more that it would hinder her life goals? I think it could go either way with her.

I think Meher has a lot of intimacy issues... it would be tough for her to truly let someone in for fear of abandonment. Keeping it to a dating relationship allows you to keep control over it and not let yourself become too dependent on anyone else.. I think that's why it hurts her so much-- because she did let him in completely and became dependent on him. That's why she is so vociferous that she doesn't need him anymore, that she has learned to take care of herself.

But at the same time, I think she was someone who squashed her childhood fantasies to fulfil her aspirations but its not that she didn't have the same aspirations as other girls. That's what her diary monologue was about.




Also coming from a home with a broken marriage, she must've lost hope on that too. Plus yes, as you mentioned dating allows one to have some space, which she wanted.

Abeer paints her as the villain of their story. But I'm dying to know her side. Did she really take that alimony?
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Posted: 10 years ago
You guys still here? 🤔
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

You guys still here? 🤔


Main yahaan hoon yahaan hoon yaahaan 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Ishana-

Main yahaan hoon yahaan hoon yaahaan 😳


Janam dekh lo, mit gayi dooriyan 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: asmaanixx



Janam dekh lo, mit gayi dooriyan😳


That movie was depression 😭
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Ishana-

That movie was depression 😭


Try thinking of DDLJ instead. That one is pure love <3
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: -Ishana-



Also coming from a home with a broken marriage, she must've lost hope on that too. Plus yes, as you mentioned dating allows one to have some space, which she wanted.

Abeer paints her as the villain of their story. But I'm dying to know her side. Did she really take that alimony?


Yeah-- but she also paints him was the villain😆. Twice she brought up how he left her. In the first episode, she asks him how can he say she was the one that wanted to break up. And that he signed the divorce papers first.

She also said how insulted she felt that Kuber signed a cheque for her... so I don't know if she used it or there was some huge majboori that she had no other choice?

Whatever it is I hope the writers actually have this part mapped out.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Loll, yup! 😆

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