Dear , it's not necessary that every one turn cold , with some disastrous incident happened in their life . Let's take it l this way , if Mehbeer are not separated , and if still Abeer remains same , we all think and praise Abeer as a naughty husband . As u said he might look childish , but to be notice is , he is not a man who speaks big words at any point , but his actions always proves he is sensible and matured . An example is Tunnu scene in yesterday's episode . When tunnu called Meher Kados didi , he corrected him saying how much she cares him . If u just go back and rewind , there were leads who looks matured , they might have made fun together with tunnu .that is Abeer !!
In first few episodes , I too felt he is an angry man . He was angry , bcz he was hurt . He didn't want her to leave. She left him and when she returned , anger and hatred he developed for her was his armour . he showcased anger ,let in her know that's how he survived .but with every passing day and with minute of her presence in his life again , his anger washed out. though he denied he still loved her and he couldn't stay angry on her .
.As far as his humour and immaturity , if u ever notice , these qualities will be out only when he is around his loved ones , either Nissar or mehers family or his mother . It's longing of a neglected son . Since childhood his father never appreciated , never pampered him and he seeks this from his loved ones .
I have seen people who remained humorous regardless of their age with little maturity , maturity charecter growth was due to promoting as father / mother , Taking responisibility as a father It's not age that brings maturity , it's happenings in life that adds maturity to charecter .
And Abeer is denying to break about his broken marriage too, he doesn't want to look hurt . And he thinks he being old Abeer is correct . When a person doesn't have happiness , we find ways ways to get happy and he feels , it's his humour that makes him smile . every human does that .
U can take it this way too, he didn't choose wrong paths to get happiness in those 8 years . He is just sticking to quality he possess that can make him smile . He loved her sincerely and he didnot want to move on either .
When we don't possess something , we strive hard to get that back into lives , he wanted to be happy and he is working on it in his way . I find him realistic , in fact it's little refreshing to see lead like Abeer , it's a msg to people around , to not loose ourself for others.
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