Rumpa moms real PROB:Viewbie's note PG10 - Page 4

Originally posted by: priya09876

1) who knows if hitesh as a flirt or not. he said he had frnds who were intersting in getting married but at that time , he wasnt interested in getting married coz of he was too young maybe

2) he never flirted with any one on this show , he was always commited to one person at a time, never even spoke to any other girl toehr than the Interest,

3) i think Rumpa's mom is reacting the way any mom would react seeing the kind of guy Rumpa is dying to marry

i agree with her concirn, but theres a way of saying things, why are to bringing hiteshs family and insulting them if ur daughter is crazy abt marrying him. she need s to tok to her daughter any way she wants, but theres something manners, u dont speak to anyone like this, about sone ki murgi, trying to give lalach to others. these are cheap tactics.

4)Plus she doesn't want Rumpa to change and not eat non veg and all.

no one has forced rumpa for changing, if shes happy doing that then , prob solved,

most of you guys are liking rumpas mums attitude coz its against hiteshs mom, but had she shown this kind of mannerisms with others , then everyone would have said, how the hell is to toking to others,

hiteshs mom maybe dominating, manipulative, but she has rarly spoken to anyone like this. she never spoke about dowry and cheap things like this.

Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

This is simmilar to what we were discussing yesterday when everyone jumped on to say that Gur and Rumpa were right and they speak upfront. The problem is when someone comes with brute force it is not easy to take thats the reason I was saying that manners are very important in evry aspect specially how or what you speak. Speak the truth and what one feels but not with such a force that people starts getting hurt.

Yesterday Priyanka was at the receiving end of what other two girls thought about her and today it was Rumpa and Sudeshraniji. I hope people now understand that what speaking the truth in a well mannered fashion is and an insulting or derogatory fashion is.

Originally posted by: Xserial_queenX

Priya, you claimed he has never flirted with anyone in the show...truee but seriously, who wanted to flirt with him?? 😆😆😆

As for rumpa's mom, she's definetely concerned and she was right to talk to hitty's mom that way because she tries to be manipulative secretly. She probabbly already figured out what kind of a control freak gulabo is. Since gulabo's a politician so she knows how to act calm while she has a billion opposing thoughts going in her head. She never really gives a chance for others to speak so there's no other way to "discuss" things other than being extremely straightforward. Rumpa's mom was very straightforward about how she feels.

Originally posted by: priya09876

i dont agree wtih u

the way she put across things were cheap, sone ki murgi, paisa chaiye to ghar kaa kaam kaise karege, gehne de doongi, demand kya hai, u dont tok to ur would be samdhi. u cant say u are my damaad and behave like this with his mother,,. i am not questioning her concern about her daughter, i would have done the same, considering hitesh has come across very voilent, and whatever we see on tele. but u cant talk to his mom like that, just that her way of talking was irritaing and kind of cheap,

people may like her coz she opposed hitesh and mom, but in civilized world these kinda women are not easy to have relationship with.... i dont want my daugther to ever give up any thing she loves for sm one. but if she is happy doing that, then i would be more than happy to support her, i will never provoke her against her future family,(when i know that she has publically gone that far) coz thats a bad sign.

Originally posted by: Xserial_queenX

hmm true, if she was talking to me like that I'd be like 😕 😡 but a part of me thinks that rumpa's mom came here with the sole purpose of trying to break off the marriage because she has HUGE doubts about hitesh. So she did all the things she could to annoy hitty's mom.

Originally posted by: priya09876

i dont agree wtih u

the way she put across things were cheap, sone ki murgi, paisa chaiye to ghar kaa kaam kaise karege, gehne de doongi, demand kya hai, u dont tok to ur would be samdhi. u cant say u are my damaad and behave like this with his mother,,. i am not questioning her concern about her daughter, i would have done the same, considering hitesh has come across very voilent, and whatever we see on tele. but u cant talk to his mom like that, just that her way of talking was irritaing and kind of cheap,

people may like her coz she opposed hitesh and mom, but in civilized world these kinda women are not easy to have relationship with.... i dont want my daughter to ever give up any thing she loves for some one. but if she is happy doing that, then i would be more than happy to support her, i will never provoke her against her future family,(when i know that she has publicly gone that far) coz that's a bad sign.

Originally posted by: maggie131984

For the first time ever, I agree with you what you have written in the quoted messaged. I like that Rumpa's mom is definitely on the look out for her daughter, but she sould have said it in a better way with better words. She might have come with a set mind and probably is taking it out.

but I didnt like how Rumpa behaved with her mother. Even if she has a problem with her mother, she should try to talk it out with her once she calms down. She knew her mother was angry. For the first time, Gurpreet said something sensible to Rumpa which is what I appreciate.

The situation which happened today was not because of only one person,but all. Hitesh's temperament,his volatile nature, his zid, his mother's dominating nature, rumpa for not asking her mother, or not understanding her. (its her mother, she should know how to talk to her and sort out the issue) and on the top of that her fears not being sorted out...