What was wrong in pri and raj relation???????? - Page 2

I want to see today after raj is out of the house.....i just hope she takes it graciously, and in a composed manner....also i wonder how she will interact with pooja...i remember rumpa trying to be just on pri's case after gaurav's ouster.....so we'll see what pri does today....

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

Ok..here goes my attempt in explaining my issues regarding them....

1. They just fell for ech other wayyyy too fast...it was like they came in, saw each other, and that was that....like other's didn't exist....it seemed fake.....the whole purpose of the show was defeated in the very beginning for them....

2. They never tried to explore any possiblities what so ever with anyone else.....I know pri supporters think that when u have found undying love u don't need to look further...but that's childish...is this a movie??????? this is real life...where u have to use ur head along with ur heart.....u meet several diff ppl in life, u don't just marry all of them do u???? if they never tried to go out with anyone, how would they know, who is more suitable for them????

3. Pri seemed clingy, desperate and possesive about raj from the beginning......at the very start, several girls could be seen mentioning that pri was making comments or eyes if they so much as spoke to raj....right from the very beginning it seemed like pri was trying to keep girls off of raj....like hands off girls he's mine...i mean in like ONE meeting...that was insane....if i were to do this to every guy who showed an ounce of interest in me , i would have to marry like 10 guys by now...ridiculous....

4. They never discussed anything serious about their future, or life choices......every single meeting they had was a lotttttttttttttt of blushing, endless gazing into each other's eyes, and hand holding....that's all....nothing more....reminded me of some of the first dates i had as a teen....and when it's all cute and all....it's not realistic..these are not 2 teenagers, they are over 25 both of them...they are here to get married....they should discuss some realities of life as well, where they r gonna live after marraige? how many kids they want? who's gonna work after marriage? do they live separate, or in a joint family?? discuss about family issues? nothing, zilch, nada, zero.....disappointing....i got married fairly early and was a few years younger to pri, but to think back i was a 100 times more mature about my decision, rather than pri was in her's.....

5. They seemed like a mismatch....i know this is subjective....but that's a point where their supporters and opposers disagree i guess....so he's wayyy of the charts good looking...and she's a plain jane....mismatch...she's pursuing MBA..and his qualification is TYBA....what is that..does it mean he's an undergrad???....mismatch...

Phewwww...that was long..there may be a couple of more reasons...but i think these are enough for now....😳

very nicely explained, that's what even I tried to explain in the beginning that there is a difference between infatuation and love, right now Raj and Pri are in the dreamland but when reality hits them hard , they will realise that its not that easy. Pri has been clinging right from start, she even told Raj(when he came with the ration) that she is scared and that he should talk to his family about their relation. Probably Raj's dad could see that how come a girl is so desperate that she seems to be in a hurry to get married whereas the boy has maintained little silence. Raj was never shown telling Pri that he wants to get married right away after the show. Pri is way too pressurizing him every moment and we can all see that. Marriage decisions are very delicate and noone is considered sensible until both the parties know each other well, it's merely infatuation.

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

I never thought it was too good to be true, i found them immature, and childish, it was like a teen romance, not a mature love....and teen romances can fade away, but mature love will be forever.......i too hope that they do get married soon, i'm not against that, but i also hope that the decision they've made is indeed the correct one..and doesn't turn out to be a mistake in future.....😊

I again agree with mechocoholic. Pribir were rushing way too fast in their relationship and that's something the main member of raj's family also mentioned(his dad). He said that they should give each other time and should not rush, Moreover, pribir both know that they are on national tv and so they are also careful, who would want to show their bad side, now dont say that Hitesh is showing bad side, but his love story didnt even start with a commitment, whereas pribir relation had some commitment which has brought both of them at a stage where the insecurities are coming out as Raj's family has not given the final verdict and the fear is mentioned by priyanka in today's episode when she meets Raj in gulabi mahal for last time. Raj may be a calm person, but priyanka's reasoning for eliminating Gaurav didnt even make sense when she said that he is too good for her. She didnt even give a chance to any kunwar, so on what basis did she take her decisions. It shows how immature she is. Gaurav mom would have loved priyanka and in fact Gaurav would have been the best choice for her, but she just pounced on the first opportunity she got and now she is scared for her own relationship. She should have given chance to every kunwar and analysed as to who is better for her. According to me, Vivek and Gaurav are the best, but woh kehte hain na ki jab dil aaya gadhi par to ab roye kya pachtaaye. this saying is true for raj.

Originally posted by: dimple_usa

very nicely explained, that's what even I tried to explain in the beginning that there is a difference between infatuation and love, right now Raj and Pri are in the dreamland but when reality hits them hard , they will realise that its not that easy. Pri has been clinging right from start, she even told Raj(when he came with the ration) that she is scared and that he should talk to his family about their relation. Probably Raj's dad could see that how come a girl is so desperate that she seems to be in a hurry to get married whereas the boy has maintained little silence. Raj was never shown telling Pri that he wants to get married right away after the show. Pri is way too pressurizing him every moment and we can all see that. Marriage decisions are very delicate and noone is considered sensible until both the parties know each other well, it's merely infatuation.

Originally posted by: mechocoholic

I never thought it was too good to be true, i found them immature, and childish, it was like a teen romance, not a mature love....and teen romances can fade away, but mature love will be forever.......i too hope that they do get married soon, i'm not against that, but i also hope that the decision they've made is indeed the correct one..and doesn't turn out to be a mistake in future.....😊

opposite things attract.no1 can find similiar partners who look like them or who are equally educated.shayad tumein love ka abcd bhi nahi pata apart from going on dates with guys.isliye aisi baat kar rahi hon.sab soch ke jaan ke level,status,educaton jaan ke karte hain kya woh pyaar hota hain if u think thats luv i pity u.pehle pyar ka matlab samjo phir pyar ke bare mein relatons ke baare mein comments dena.