Originally posted by: mechocoholic
Ok..here goes my attempt in explaining my issues regarding them....
1. They just fell for ech other wayyyy too fast...it was like they came in, saw each other, and that was that....like other's didn't exist....it seemed fake.....the whole purpose of the show was defeated in the very beginning for them.... What is the purpose of the show? Wait till the last day of the last week... like Pooja to decide if she fell in love or not??? I don't think we should just hate Pribir just because they liked each other early???
2. They never tried to explore any possiblities what so ever with anyone else.....I know pri supporters think that when u have found undying love u don't need to look further...but that's childish...is this a movie??????? this is real life...where u have to use ur head along with ur heart.....u meet several diff ppl in life, u don't just marry all of them do u???? if they never tried to go out with anyone, how would they know, who is more suitable for them???? I never heard show ppl say that u MUST meet all of the guys and girls. It was a subjective choice. You could meet all of them and decide, but was not mandatory.
3. Pri seemed clingy, desperate and possesive about raj from the beginning......at the very start, several girls could be seen mentioning that pri was making comments or eyes if they so much as spoke to raj....right from the very beginning it seemed like pri was trying to keep girls off of raj....like hands off girls he's mine...i mean in like ONE meeting...that was insane....if i were to do this to every guy who showed an ounce of interest in me , i would have to marry like 10 guys by now...ridiculous....
Throughout the show, I have only heard proyanka say that yes, you can meet somebody else. When they both like each other, it kinda hurts to see that guy or girl going with somebody else. But, at the same time, she controlled her emotions and told Raj to know other girls too. Other girls always made things up. Show me any episode where Priyanka told other girls to stay away from Raj. All she said was that if their relationship is strong enough, than no matter how many girls Raj meets with, it will not affect Pribir relationship.
4. They never discussed anything serious about their future, or life choices......every single meeting they had was a lotttttttttttttt of blushing, endless gazing into each other's eyes, and hand holding....that's all....nothing more....reminded me of some of the first dates i had as a teen....and when it's all cute and all....it's not realistic..these are not 2 teenagers, they are over 25 both of them...they are here to get married....they should discuss some realities of life as well, where they r gonna live after marraige? how many kids they want? who's gonna work after marriage? do they live separate, or in a joint family?? discuss about family issues? nothing, zilch, nada, zero.....disappointing....i got married fairly early and was a few years younger to pri, but to think back i was a 100 times more mature about my decision, rather than pri was in her's..... They said they like each other. They both wanted their family's content to their relationship. Even though, Pribir wanted to be life-partners, they wanted to hear the final decision from their parents. If parents wouldn't agree, they would have to convince them or something. They can't just plan their future like this..how many kids and all that. I don't think it is important to talk about kids and work after marriage when your parents didn't give their consent yet. To me discussing that would be immature, not what they did do.
5. They seemed like a mismatch....i know this is subjective....but that's a point where their supporters and opposers disagree i guess....so he's wayyy of the charts good looking...and she's a plain jane....mismatch...she's pursuing MBA..and his qualification is TYBA....what is that..does it mean he's an undergrad???....mismatch... Like you said, subjective. I don't think love should be decided on what degree does the other person have. They are both educated. They can live a good life. What type of degree, how many years of study, school they attended and all that... it shouldn't matter. Its not like one has MBA and the other one is high school dropout.
Phewwww...that was long..there may be a couple of more reasons...but i think these are enough for now....😳
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