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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655
I would like to comment 😊 I am curious what did Yashdeep's mom exactly say so horrible to Gurpreet face to face that came off as attacking her? She was asked so amny times for an answer and bechari has to give an answer. Why can't we just value her opinion and realize it is her life. If Gurpreet doesn't like she should simply walk away and never deal with again, atleast that's what Yash's mom wants to do.

you do not say " what is this? you are done with your talking and leaving?" Atleast not in that manner. And you also don't say " I don't think anyone in this world would want to be a bahu in her family". She already has a bahu and there are girls in the house who like her a lot. That is downright disresepctful. If Pooja didn't gel with Hitesh's mom so well she wouldn't want her a bahu. Priyanka is close to Rajbir's mom yet she is not so close. Vrinda is closer. She is trying to pair vrinda and Raj. All moms are doing it. Moms want a bahu they like. I hate how yashdeep's mom is shown as a villain. Not everything should be taken at a face value without 2nd thoughts.

We as the audience are dealing with situation much worse than Gurp and yash's mom.

she basically said that she is immature and not good enough for her or her family....yash's mom needs to get herself off what ever petal stool she has herself on...and it wasn't just face to face it said in the show that a lot of stuff has been said about her that she is hearing from other mothers or the girl what yash's mom is saying....gurpreet said in the ep when he came over for dinner that she is walking away....it was his mother that called her over to talk and basically just ripped into her....she was right in saying that if you are able to dish is out you should be able to sit there and take it back as well and not try to run off....I get all the moms are doing that but unlike this mother not all the moms are insulting the girl their sons like and making them cry....she's shown a a villain cause she is one.

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: yyyy

Sorry Yash's mom never insulted Gurpreet but it's other way round..I have never heard Yash's mom saying anything bad about her on TV..she expressed her opinion in front of her husband in a decent way.Infact it was Gurpreet who crossed her limit by saying no girl would like to marry Yash, how would Gurpreet feel if Yash had said the same thing to her mom.

how did you not her this she said it to the mothers and her that she doesn't like her and thinks that she is immature doesn't have a good enough job for her and doesn't think that she is good enough for her family.

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sunandshine

@sunandshine

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: yyyy
There is a limit for everything and i feel Gurpreet has crossed her limits .I agree Yash's mom doesn't accept her as her DIl but what's wrong in that everyone have their own choice and preferences ..she has every right to voice her opinion and that's why moms are being part of this show.

Nahi yaar, she is 21, usse shaadi kaun karega baaad mein..agar Yash nahi mila to😳😆

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sunandshine

@sunandshine

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655
I would like to comment 😊 I am curious what did Yashdeep's mom exactly say so horrible to Gurpreet face to face that came off as attacking her? She was asked so amny times for an answer and bechari has to give an answer. Why can't we just value her opinion and realize it is her life. If Gurpreet doesn't like she should simply walk away and never deal with again, atleast that's what Yash's mom wants to do.

you do not say " what is this? you are done with your talking and leaving?" Atleast not in that manner. And you also don't say " I don't think anyone in this world would want to be a bahu in her family". She already has a bahu and there are girls in the house who like her a lot. That is downright disresepctful. If Pooja didn't gel with Hitesh's mom so well she wouldn't want her a bahu. Priyanka is close to Rajbir's mom yet she is not so close. Vrinda is closer. She is trying to pair vrinda and Raj. All moms are doing it. Moms want a bahu they like. I hate how yashdeep's mom is shown as a villain. Not everything should be taken at a face value without 2nd thoughts.

We as the audience are dealing with situation much worse than Gurp and yash's mom.

That way I find Pri so much respectable than Gur! She never attacked Raj or his mom in that manner when Raj's dad suggested Raj to meet other girls!Even today, she appeared so considerate and respectful when asked by Shekhar, Amrita and Malaika!! BTW, What do Gur's parents have to say about all this?or they just dont care for their daughter?

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Marium

@mimarain

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#15

she is way better off with some other guy then yashdeep

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charmer

@charmer

Beginner

Posted: 15 years ago

#16

I think the issue is being dragged becos everyone wants to knw whts happening with gur, yash n his mom.....like yest Farah wanted to knw n today on the show they r discussing it(these channel people r also no less.......aag ko chingaari de rahe hain n then r trying to sympathise with the girl)......becos of which this issue is getting highlighted more than necessary......she does not like her...PERIOD...... good thing is tht she is not bitching abt gur behind her like hitesh's mom bitches with everyone n brags abt it (I am not supporting anyone, its just my POV)...... n taali ek haath se kabhi nahi bajti.......something might have happened which made yash's mom not like her n v don c then 24/7 as they do............... n it is not necessary tht everyone u meet HAS TO LIKE U...... gurpreet has a rt to defend.....but she should do it politely n not trying to b rude(if she is rude then there is no diff b/w her n yash's mom).......i guess this is where maturity comes in.....in this aspect Vrinda is much better, cos she has decency to talk politely when faced with such a situation. This is my opinion n am not trying to hurt anyone.....😊

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mursal

@sal44

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: yyyy
There is a limit for everything and i feel Gurpreet has crossed her limits .I agree Yash's mom doesn't accept her as her DIl but what's wrong in that everyone have their own choice and preferences ..she has every right to voice her opinion and that's why moms are being part of this show.

There is also a limit f0r Yash's mom and she also crossed it. She has a say in her sons marraige but not to the extent where it l00ks like she's getting married. She needs to give her son the right to choose because guess what? HE'S THE ONE GETTING MARRIED NOT HER. At the end its Gurpreet and Yash who will live together and raise children. If they arent happy then whats the point?

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sachadev

@sachadev

Beginner

Posted: 15 years ago

#18

I am from London watching this hirlarous program, firstly I think all the guys needs to wake up and smell the coffee.

I saw the antics of Gurpreeet and yash on the net, as in London we are behind in the viewing of episodes.... Read more

I had totaly different view of Yash Mother, but what I seen now really does shock me but no suprise as India is still in the mummys world.

The Yash guy its a totally Mummy's boy, and I quote his mum saying" That Yash is immature and not old enough to decide, " So can I ask you, WHAT THE HELL ARE THEY DOINGON THE SHOW, why should they be on the show if he is not mature enough to marry. Marriage in not 1 day affair, its a lift time. Going forward in life as A couple you have your life and need to make bold Decisions on many things. It seems that his mum wants a Slave , that's how it seems.

I think people need to stop bashing Gurpreet girl and stop bring relgion into this. The girl has the right to STAND UP to anyone, whether a person is young or old, NO one has the right to keep insulting anyone. Yash Mother went far to far.

If Gurpreet had any respect , I would say walk out of this show. As there is loads and loads of Guys and better familes out there.

If india cannot move with the time, then this show is seriously the wrong one. Things changed , and times have changed. Where parents chose the bride or groom. These days its about the bride and the groom, why as they have to live with each other for the rest of their lives, not the mother in law or etc.. etc..

I been to india and I seen people got no respect towards each other, I am glad I am born in UK and we have some culture and respect but we also been brought up to stand up for what we beleive and fight for it.

If a Man cannot stand up and fight what he really wants, then those girls must be made to even consider him or a mother in law like that.

I think Pooja and priyanka are both fake and playing the game, Pooja has no geninue interest in Hitesh , she probably use him.

i have much more to say, but lets see what the forum audience has to say.

Ciao
London UK

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sachadev

@sachadev

Beginner

Posted: 15 years ago

#19

firstly I dont hate indians, and secondly its not true about sleeping with other wives, that happens in India. What I am trying to get out, that this program is not ready for India. As there is over 80% still living in the darkage, when one of the mothers said she only wants a fair looking girl, I think that is wrong, why should one judge on the appearance of someone, I got married to a girl in India. I am happy guy. I felt very strongly in my view that the lady was truly out of order and she should be pulled for her actions, I hope that gurpreet does leave the show , as she is far too good for those low life guys on there.

Sorry i did not mean to insult any indians in India. My parents are from Africa not India but my ancestors are.

I must say back In UK , its 90% girl and guy choice and it ends there. What i am seeing is wrong, its should not be the mother choice. They should respect the son's choice and make it work or at least give it a try. Yash mother is not willing to budge, which is wrong ethics and upbrining.... Read more

I hope you understand its not about insulting any indians, I am hindu and indian and proud of it and also a British born which I am also proud of that.

India is slowly moving forward but not enough for show like this. I think its turning into a PERFECT daugther in law show not perfect bride!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope you you understand and once again my apology.

I watch the show as its entertaing but also something to learn and see how things are.

My wife likes the show so I watch it.
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When I went to India on holiday I came across my wife . My parents asked me straight up if you say yes we are yes. As end of the day I have to live with her not my parents, even though I live with my parents. Future is between the guy and the girl. If a mother behaves the way she is, I would not even Iwould be rather worried for any girl in that house.
As the guy cannot even stand upto his mum.

He is older enough , if his mums says " HE IS IMMATURE ETC.. " THEN WHY ARE THEY ON THE SHOW. he is not fit to be married yet.!!!! END OF

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#20

**Viewbie's note
:I already said it 50 times that direct bashing or using the "B" or "S" word whether spelt fully or with a star(its one and the same) is not allowed as per IF's COC...I hv no choice but to increase the WL of the topic starter...Closing this topic now as already there r some 20 topics on more or less the same Gurpreet matter**

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