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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know many people think Naren is acting selfish n now he is d bad guy. But if i put myself in his place, imagine i love my boyfriend madly, lose my memory, my parents get me married to someone else, n after 2 years i gain my memory n forget everything, n the love of my life is in front of my eyes n i still love him madly...in such a scenario, i will do the same, it wont b easy for me to accept another person in my life suddenly, who will b a complete stranger for me, Naren still loves pari n technically it isn't his fault as he isn't cheating anyone.
I feel bad for Ankita but somewhere she is at fault too. She married him knowing he is madly in love with another girl, n without even knowing tht this girl is dead or alive she agreed. At first she did marry him for money, i couldn't find any oher reason, so thts a truth. I never liked what she did with Shashank, she gave him d reason tht his mother dislikes her, but the same was d case with Mansi, shashank's mom wasn't ready to accept Mansi either, still they got married.

Now she is torturing d baby too, dunno y. I feel bad for pari too, as if in case later they know bot the kid, her life will b totally affected.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you, he might not be acting selfish.
Loving somebody & wanting that person in your life when both are in love is not wrong but Naren has failed as a mature person. He must have tried to understand the situation atleast.
His love for Pari is genuine & its lovely to see how much he loves her & cares for her but his indifferent attitude towards Ankita is not justified.
I feel bad for Pari as for no reason she is guilty.
Pari has got back to Naren & i dont feel she is at fault.
As far as Naren is concerned he will become more disgusting as now it looks like he might leave Pari.

Till now whatever Naren has done can be justified by saying that he doent remember anything. He ditched Ankita as he doesnt know the truth. But the day Pari will get hurt because of him that day surely he will be at fault for emotionally destroying two ladies-Pari & Ankita.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think any of them wants to hurt anyone.
Naren's wanting to get closer to Pari and distant from Ankita is understandable totally.

But why does he have to insult Ankita so much? He has heard from everyone how Ankita saved his life. Why can't he appreciate how much she has done for him (even if he thinks it was for money)? That is something that is really not nice.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nothing justifies his obnoxius behaviour to Ankita.
Saying that i was ill and all that is ok but the way be pursued Ankita in that condition is known to everyone especially his family. Blaming Ankita only is the easiest way out for all of them but each individual is responsible for the present situation, not just Ankita who was told by everyone that Ahana is most probably dead.
Ankita took a practical decision at that point and is paying a high price for it, unlike all these rich escapists who are not taking any responsibility and are content in letting Ankita suffer. The least Naren can do is be civil to Ankita. And I would want Ankita to get away from this man, who cannot even behave properly and is so full of himself.
And yes, i cannot understand what kind of "love" it is that prevents people from telling their names to each other, and not even helping their " love" when trouble strikes. If this nonsense is justified, then Ankita's decision is more than justified. At least she is fully prepared to face the consequenses of her decision, unlike the genius Naren.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: muse10

I don't think any of them wants to hurt anyone.

Naren's wanting to get closer to Pari and distant from Ankita is understandable totally.

But why does he have to insult Ankita so much? He has heard from everyone how Ankita saved his life. Why can't he appreciate how much she has done for him (even if he thinks it was for money)? That is something that is really not nice.




I agree with u completely muse10, I dont think any of them want to hurt anyone and Naren wanting to get closer to Pari is understandable since he loved Pari and not Ankita but i dont quite get why he is always insulting Ankita so much, since Ankita risked her life for him. He does not have to love Ankita but at least he shud appreciate what Ankita has done for him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Naren's behaviour to ankita cannot be justifed in any way. Especially since his mother and family knows exactly how and why they got married. So why yell and shout at only Her? To add to all this is Rushali's lie.Her story needs a dignified closure from Naren's side before he moves ahead. Not this kind of mistreatment.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I disagree. I think in every situation, Naren actions are understandable. Lets take a look
1) He finds out Ankita is his wife and tells her she cheated. Why wouldn't he? Lets be practical. Would anyone marry a madman if they hadn't known and loved him before he turned mad? For money only, In this case, Naren is correct in believing that Ankita cheated him because she married him for money. She may have begun to love him, but only initially married him for money. Naren did not consent to the marriage bc he as a madmen is incapable of consent. In addition, he pursued her thinking she was Ahana, not Ankita. So if we lose our memory and find out someone married us in our mad state, of course we would think bad of that person since they only married for our money.

2) He thinks Ankita cheated Ranaq. Why wouldn't he? Ankita herself admitted she married for money. Why would he believe her over his mother and his brothers wife, after this kind of admission. People accuse him of blindly trusting his mother. Why wouldn't he? If we have a loving relationship with our mother, why wouldn't we blindly trust them over some girl we never even remember meeting. And yes he believed Kinnari, someone who he also couldn't remember. But he trusted not Kinnari, but his brother, because he could not believe his brother was capable of such action. He does not have memory of his brother getting fired due to sexual harrassement. He trusts his own blood over some girl. How many of us wouldn't do the same?

3) He threw Ankita out of the office in front of everyone. Again, how many of us wouldn't do the same if we believed our brother was falsely imprisoned? in fact, we would probably beat them to pulp if we believed they had framed our relative?

4) He accused her of being bad when she said the company was in her name. Okay, if in our mad state somebody took our property ( the company) away from us, wouldn't we think someone to be deceptive at the highest level. Wouldn't we call them names?

Naren is not disgusting. He is just not as timid as he used to be. The new Naren is confident and bc he was beyond nice before, it comes across as arrogant. He knows how to apologize and ask for forgiveness when he is wrong. He apologized to Ankita after he believed her to be her caretaker. He offered her a job because she was talented despite knowing that she only married him for money. We see in the precaps that he will apologize for his behavior in front of his whole staff just as he humilated her in front of the staff. It takes a lot of guts for the boss to apologize in front of the whole staff. Usually they just apologize behind closed doors. He does so in front of the staff and expresses his humility. Naren is not bad.Naren is just not Mahan. He is not willing to throw away his love for a marriage he never consented too. But at the same time he can admit his mistakes


Edited by nikki1591 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Did Naren even think once if he had married Ankitha were there any chances of he got closer to her and Ankitha pregnant as a result. He says he is a genius. But failing or refusing to think this simple thing. He can't deny the responsibility towards the child.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No, Naren is not justified in behaving so badly even if he is thinks that Ankita cheated him. He is quick to think the worst of her and think the best of anyone seen opposite to her. That is because subconsciously he WANTS her to be bad so that he can be justified in behaving badly with her. He is not listening to anything positive people say about Ankita but is willing to believe anyone who has anything bad to say without even giving her a chance to explain.
This is NOT human behaviour. This is NOT balanced behaviour. Especially getting physical , insulting her and calling her names without even letting her speak.
Edited by vishwap - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Naren is behaving like a spoilt brat. Raunaq's flirtatious nature was known to everyone in the family, so Naren should have at least bothered to find out the truth before pushing Anikita around. He should remember that even though he may think she married him for money, she kept her side of the contract and he has recovered fully. I don't see any justification for his animosity. And pushing a woman and humiliating her in front of everyone just shows his true nature.

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