There goes insensitive Archana again - Page 2

Originally posted by: -LiveLaughLove-

Ahh I see yes definitely Archana was insensitive during those scenarios. I don't know why she has to pick one thing. She doesn't know BALANCE. Always one thing over another.

Just because she wants one thing doesn't mean everyone else does. The way she was talking to Manav and Damodar after finding out the Ahaana truth really angered me. She had no sense of pity for Pari nor did she commend her on trying to move on in such a difficult situation.

For Archana it's about picking favourites between her children - she doesn't realize that she can be equally compassionate to both of them and the situation will be handled in a more mature way where pointless sacrifices won't be made and a lot of drama can be saved - but if the CVs made her character like that, there would be less scope for drama in this show. 😆

Originally posted by: -LiveLaughLove-

Nura I can't agree more!

This makes no sense whatsoever to me!

If you can't balance it out don't have more than one kid!!

So many issues could have been avoided.

a) waiting for Ovi's state-of-mind to get back in control before ArVi's marriage

b) annulling the deal marriage

c) Soham's heart break

d) forgetting about Teju in all of the mess

Archana has always been insensitive, she is the worst mother/wife/grandmother ever in PR, she never bothered to get in contact with Ovi-Teju in their first 18 yrs of life, gave Soham away to Varsha knowing Varshas condition, when Soham came back she never bothered to reform him and kept throwing the Sachin-Gauri marriage in Sohams face, shes also the worst wife ever, always mistrusting Manav and doing court case against him just for trying to improve the chawl peoples lives and give them new flats, and now shes being such a terrible grandmother to Pari. She didnt even look at anything from poor Pari's POV or try to see how Pari must be feeling. Its true Ankita doesnt have anyone but this doesnt mean Pari isnt going thru any pain, Archana doesnt even care for Pari, shes only looking at things from Ankita's POV which is good but she needs to be neutral, and understand both of them. Shes not guiding Ankita correctly either and encouraging her to sacrifice, shes not helping either Ankita or Pari but making it worse for both of them. The way she pushed Pari to go in the Karmarkar Home and say its her own battle was very cruel of her.

Originally posted by: Ashlaika

Why only stupid ppl cry over break ups?! Thats an unfair generalisation and disrespectful to the people who actually suffered through and felt real heartache and pain.

Yes, her love for Manav was real and SHE too DID cry as was shown in many episodes. So I guess she too falls into the stupid ppl category by your own yardstick.

As for what the TM is saying, yes... I agree, Archana is sometimes insensitive to the point that it comes off as stupidity. She is however lead of the show, so they probably think its being "mahaan".

I understand it is hard to get over break ups but in my opinion it is wrong to act like devdas and make life miserable for the people around you.of course archana cried but she never let her pain affect her family even on the next day of her divorce she continued to live her life as she used to live before when she was unmarried though she was deeply hurt inside.

Originally posted by: ilovepyaar

Exactly, Archana is very insensitive if you look deep into her character. From the whole Varsha track (giving her baby to her sister), to being blind to Ovi's - her daughter - suffering, to even the way she handled the Soham/Gauri situation, she has come off as insensitive.

Now she's just emphasizing the already clear character trait with this whole Pari thing. She doesn't even know that Ankita is her grand daughter yet, so who is Ankita doing this for? A stranger who conveniently has the same face as you? Okay fine, even if you're doing it as a good samaritan, is it a very "mahaan" thing to see your own grand daughter go through heartbreak?

With Varsha, she didn't give two damns about Manav. For Ovi, she kept on rubbing it in her face that the man who she was crazy about was getting married to her sister - where was the compassion for her daughter?! Even when Ovi left for Canada, she was shunned for hiding her pregnancy when her other daughter did the same thing and was treated completely differently. Once the truth was out, it was still the same jaap for Purvi - as far as I remember, there was no such scene where Archana confronted Purvi and told her that the assumption Purvi made was wrong, and because of Purvi's assumption, Archana had to live away from her daughter, Pari had to live away from her father, and Purvi had to separate from her husband for 20 whole years. She acts like she's so fair to all of her children and gives lectures all the time, but where did the lecture go then?

Now she is putting Pari is in this situation where she has to go back to the boy she has been trying to forget for the last two years for Ankita's sake. Why would you send your own daughter to a slaughter house, knowing that she was in love with Naren? All Pari would get from this is a daily reminder that she will never get Naren back because he's in love with someone else, and she's just being raised as a pig for slaughter. Once Naren realizes his marriage and accepts Ankita, she would have to walk out of his life with the biggest heartbreak ever. =/

Originally posted by: BeautifulNegi

Waah Archana Waah kya baat hai aaj tumhe dhikayi dhiya ki Ankita is alone

but where are you at that time when ur stupid daughter told u to through Purvi out of Deshmukhs house when she was pregnent and where are you when bcz of your dumb daughter Purvi have to leave Mumbai at that time she was not at all anone Kyaa???

Atleast Ankita have her Siblings but Purvi ko toh koi nahi tha

toh us time apni Psycho daughter ko kyun nahi sikhaya jaise aaj Pari ko Bhashan de rahi ho

so this topic is dedicated to bash archana as much as you can. 👏

Originally posted by: sonalak

so this topic is dedicated to bash archana as much as you can.

Originally posted by: sonalak

so this topic is dedicated to bash archana as much as you can. 👏

Originally posted by: sonalak

so this topic is dedicated to bash archana as much as you can. 👏