The ARVI exit:Mod note pg10 - Page 13

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Your purvi would be dead today if not for Ovi
If ovi didn't teach her daughter good things about arvi

then purvi would be dead today and no one would know 😆

Originally posted by: adishri

why should ovi try to sort out the differences between arvi ? by this logic even onir will be blamed for not clearing the misunderstandings. now a doctor should be devoting his life to the good health of common people or go around sorting out the mess which his ex wife created by her own whims. gossh seriously !!

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Your purvi would be dead today if not for Ovi
If ovi didn't teach her daughter good things about arvi

then purvi would be dead today and no one would know 😆

Originally posted by: ashvik202

LOL IF MAHAAAN PURVI HADNT ACCEPTED D DEAL DEN OVI WUD HAV COMITED SUICIDE LONG AGOOO AFTER ARVI MARRIGE...TO FIR PIYA ATI HI NAHI...

I HOP U REMEMBER DAT

LOL if mahaan purvi had not accepted dat deal than don't know ovi had been died or in coma watever situation...but one thing was very cleared that it was arvi's wedding day so they were together after rituals nd not only that but number of messes like ovi ko bv ka haq do,imagination world of arjun for purvi,sad eye talks of arvi...and atlast due this lovestory,divorce wid ovi due to loveless life had never come in picture as more mess...

ovi was mad but purvi was smart employee right? but still she invited number of mess in arjun and ovi's loveless life only to secure her aai's life...

atlast she got a title of ideal beti...but arjun paid a price of this title by accepting loveless life with ovi...

actually true sacrifice for archana is done by arjun who said yes for that loveless mrg.so dats very clear that price of aai's happiness was to inviting number of messes in arjun and ovi's life...specially to arjun...

ovi was mad for arjun...but how can purvi do injustice with arjun for her aai sake??? wat a demanding love...to prove ur true love plz accept loveless life with my sister ...becoz i don't care which type of married life you will get after this loveless mrg but most important thing is my aai will get family back...wat a injustice with arjun😡

i hope u understand injustice with arjun here. though it was arjun's amar prem so poor guy accepted his lover's wish but yeah dats for sure injustice with dat guy by his lover.

Originally posted by: nikki1591

by that logic if ovi never hid the truth about the baby, arvi misunderstandings would not have occurred and there would be no need to save purvi today. 😃

Originally posted by: ashvik202

LOL IF MAHAAAN PURVI HADNT ACCEPTED D DEAL DEN OVI WUD HAV COMITED SUICIDE LONG AGOOO AFTER ARVI MARRIGE...TO FIR PIYA ATI HI NAHI...

I HOP U REMEMBER DAT

Oh please , ACCEPTED THE DEAL ACCEPTED THE DEAL
Ovi proposed the deal, Purvi accepted the deal
But Purvi shouldn't have agreed to marry Arjun in the first place knowing her sister loved him all her life

Originally posted by: nikki1591

bc ovi was involved in the misunderstanding. her hiding her pregnancy caused misunderstanding. if iam involved in creating a misunderstanding, then i must try to explain it. if nothing else, its called having good manners. if people dont want to understand after the attempt to explain, thats on them. whether ovi has tried to explain, we have yet to see. so can't judge her on that

agree... ovi was involved in misunderstanding...both the girls hide their pregnancy due to their own reasons and both made same mistake...till this point i can agree..

but in next point you are talking about manners than is it good manner that first hide your baby's truth than with watever intention exchange it with your sister baby???? i can't consider this in mannerism list.

regarding your explanation point than if person is not ready to listen your word due to their emotional trauma...if husband fail to clear misunderstanding with his beloved wife for 20 years than how we can expect from third person?????? now in rare condition suppose i expect that third person should clear misunderstanding regarding my husband than which type of trust is this where you are unable to trust on your husband's word due to watever reason but you are willingly trust on dat person's word who was never your wellwisher.

if as a wife i was at purvi's place than i surely give preference to my husband's word nd never bother to listen that person's word who was never my wellwisher...

here purvi is having valid reason to not listen ovi's word or not giving her any chance to explain as she was never purvi's well wisher but wat about arjun?????? again she is having her own reason to not to trust on arjun too.

so for misunderstanding part ovi is not main problem...main problem is purvi was failed to listen complete story from her husband...purvi failed to trust on her husband due to her own reasons...purvi give more preference to third person than her husband and simply left him without giving any chance of explanation...

why this much importance to third person's word nd not a single chance of explanation to your own husband????? which type of mentality is this where i am not ready to listen my husband but i am expecting that third person should come to clear her side...if you are failed to understand clear side of your own husband than how can you see clear side of third person???why preference goes to third person's word than your own husband??? why there is not any explanation chance to husband but wait for clearence of third person's side...

lol...as a wife i can't imagine this much preference to third person over my husband.

Originally posted by: nikki1591

oh plz. based on the circumstances at the time, the stress was not imaginary. she saw arjun/ovi together, saw his name on birth certificate, called him and he lied and yets she still is supposed to assume that there was nothing going on. the justification is worse than the initial statement. never have i ever heard in my life that a woman needs to apologize for a miscarriage. i would not even ask this ovi and not based on her drinking but based on her imaginary stress during kolkata when she saw purvi with onir and arjun in purvi house and assumed they were having an affair. when she knew that arjun had invited her along and why would he do such a thing if he knew purvi to be there. and yet she threw a tantrum and was hospitilized-imagainry stress

i dont even blame her for the hospitilization despite the fact that she knowingly and willingly had sex with arjun knowing he was in love with purvi, he said he would try to make it work but she knew that he wasnt over it at that point and still went and had sex with him resulting in pregnancy both times. she knowiling kept the kid despite not even wanting it just bc she thought it would bring her and arjun closer and became jealous of her own kid bc arjun actually cared about it. but i would still nvr blame her even if she had a miscarriage based on stress (but not drinking though) bc that is despicable. i would also nvr ask her to apologize. also if you stopped watching the serial, then how can make these statements and in such detail without properly watching the serial?😆

agree ... During first child's case she was very careless nd not even ready to carry that baby...but after seeing pia and pia's nature must say she rectify her mistakes 180 degree as a duty of mother in pia's upbringing by not saying any false story to pia regarding arvi...by not passing any negativity for purvi in pia's mind.in pia's upbringing she left that bitter past before 20 years were two sisters where fighting for same man,where one put deal and other exchange baby without any acknowledgement ...main thing is she never convey any story of how her daughter that how her engagement broke or how her first child was exchaged...becoz she buried that bitter past nd don want shadow of that past on her second child...

is it not good thing to rectify your mistake which you have done during ur first pregnancy???? its better to rectify your mistake with time rather than just asking for apology for first mistake.

in purvi's case she had exchange pari with good/bad watever motive...but to hide the truth of other's baby is it good thing????? m not at all blaming purvi for ovi's dead baby...what m saying is why she never feel sorry for her this deed???? here again m not saying that she should say sorry to ovi for baby exchange without informing ovi...but atleast she herself feel bad for this action...but she was never having any guilt for exchanging baby becoz due to her nature of high emotional level she failed to understand about her own mistake...so as per purvi's prospective she was doing bhalayi and watever she had done with ovi was perfect but for other's prospective its very wrong to xchng baby and after even not having any guilt for deed.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

with the same logic, Purvi should have listened to her LOVER and husband before doubting him

I mean if she lacks trust in her husband, it's not Ovi's fault
And why should Ovi tell Purvi or Arjun about her baby? What does she owe them?
in two months between their divorce arvi were dancing in rain and purvi joined his office 😆
So if Arjun didn't go and try to stay at Ovi's place then this wouldn't happen.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

agree ... During first child's case she was very careless nd not even ready to carry that baby...but after seeing pia and pia's nature must say she rectify her mistakes 180 degree as a duty of mother in pia's upbringing by not saying any false story to pia regarding arvi...by not passing any negativity for purvi in pia's mind.in pia's upbringing she left that bitter past before 20 years were two sisters where fighting for same man,where one put deal and other exchange baby without any acknowledgement ...main thing is she never convey any story of how her daughter that how her engagement broke or how her first child was exchaged...becoz she buried that bitter past nd don want shadow of that past on her second child...

is it not good thing to rectify your mistake which you have done during ur first pregnancy???? its better to rectify your mistake with time rather than just asking for apology for first mistake.

in purvi's case she had exchange pari with good/bad watever motive...but to hide the truth of other's baby is it good thing????? m not at all blaming purvi for ovi's dead baby...what m saying is why she never feel sorry for her this deed???? here again m not saying that she should say sorry to ovi for baby exchange without informing ovi...but atleast she herself feel bad for this action...but she was never having any guilt for exchanging baby becoz due to her nature of high emotional level she failed to understand about her own mistake...so as per purvi's prospective she was doing bhalayi and watever she had done with ovi was perfect but for other's prospective its very wrong to xchng baby and after even not having any guilt for deed.