i think arjun and purvi are not made for each other dt note pg11 - Page 4

Originally posted by: pallavi25

If CVs separate ArVi before the leap, it will just prove that they are the LEAD couple after ArMaan ...by separating them, CVs will show them pining for each other which has more dramatic/emotional value than showing a happy couple romancing which gets boring after a while!

Before it was ArMaan's Lambi Judaaii...now its ArVi's turn!

Anyway, all couples fight abt maayka and sasural! Thats the most realistic thing shown in this unrealistic show! Much more realistic than Ovi's baby appearing out of the blue, without any pregnancy or belly evident during any of her numerous visits to India! 😆

Purvi is more attached to her maayka than Ovi ever was so she will try to help them! Thats been her folly all along! Bothering abt Archu and Manav all the time, thats why she let herself be blackmailed by Ovi in the first place! She shd stop caring so much abt the Deshmucks!

On the other hand, Arjun shd be more understanding abt her situation as shes caught in the middle and also shes pregnant and shd not be under stress because of family wars!

Well post Pallavi Di.

Originally posted by: vasu_2013

TM, I strongly disagree. If you conclude that a good relationship exist between husband and wife only when the wife becomes a mouth piece of her husband and does not have a mind of her own, then you are wrong. You have two strong willed individuals here in Arjun and Purvi who have slightly different sense of priority in what is more important to them. They both are successfully running their own businesses. Just because their opinions do not coincide, you cannot deem them as not made for each other.

In fact, there is nothing wrong in good healthy arguments and expressing individuals difference of opinion. It happens in all the families. End of the day, the partners should respect each other and should understand and acknowledge the rationale behind each other's actions. That's what matters the most in a relationship.

We have many real-life cases of husband and wife who run successful businesses and most of them are family owned. Some of them involve rivalry between siblings, cousins etc. ending up in conflicts but the partners keep the business going on their separate ways ignoring all the family drama that happens in between. My dad worked in one such hugely successful business and I have observed the business-cum-life partners in close quarters. Of course, this is a TV drama and hence there will be unions and separations , not to forget - the babies too, at the drop of a hat.

On your conclusion that Ovi is a better mate for Arjun, the least said the better. First, she never shown to do anything productive in business and cared for neither Arjun or her parent's feelings. Forget about her parents, she did not even care about her own baby. All that ever mattered to Ovi was just Ovi. So, God help 'made-for-each-other' couples if they have to be modelled after Arjun-Ovi.

Very good post Vasu. Totally agree with U.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Ovi is clearly mentioned in the topic, so obviously she will be discussed! 😛

Manav doesnt really consider Purvi his daughter, if he did he would not disown her totally when she was in dire straits! If Sachin or Ovi or Teju are in dire straits he would rush to help them, even if they were at fault in the first place! Manav only goes along with Archu so he pretends where Purvi is concerned! When Archu was in a coma, he threw out Purvi from their lives like an outsider!

Real Parents cannot ditch their children even if they disappoint them with their mistakes!

ArVi will have arguments, both are strong willed and stubborn! Both wont budge an inch in their stance! Thats typical Ekta! She always shows two strong willed people fall in love, they fight and struggle yet cannot stop loving each other!

Arvi were disaster from the beginning- Acts of Purvi in intial Office days was just BAD-banging files at the desk of your Boss, defying his Orders at every step and throwing Office rules out of the window and Arjun playing his Bit in that stupid Cat-fight was icing on that smelly cake and All this was considered Romantic😲. This Boy meets Girl first they fight and then fall in love Idea has been done to death and more or less the makers Just forget to draw lines! More Combustion means More Chemistry and More Chemistry means More Craving, but the sense of realism is lost. Arman intial simple story with no Mills and Boons formulla was more REAL (I am not comparing so No ARMAN vs ARVI stuff PLZ), they were Compatible before Archana ruined it in Her Righteous Behaviour.

Originally posted by: vasu_2013

Most of our thoughts have coincided. Though I have had issues with Manav in the past, I have also been thankful for fulfilling a big longing of Purvi's of her dream dad.

But I was totally disappointed in him today. He was sitting and coldly calculating how Purvi could get his projects moving without ever a thought occurring to him about putting Purvi through a turmoil by involving her. I too feel that Purvi has an obligation to Manav that she cannot just drop the projects that she started without a proper handover but as Purvi put herself in Manav's shoes, Manav never wasted a second putting himself in her shoes. And this will never happen if he had behaved like a real dad in mind and spirit. I was even disappointed that Archana did not step in at that moment and reminded Manav of this.

the only reason their relationship worked before marriage was because arjun stopped thinking about himself and made purvi his priority. She left and humiliated and forced him to marry someone else and consummate with her and he did all that to make her happy. But purvi is not the type to compromise. Arjun clearly said it is not the money that is important to him but the fact that his father needs him is important. he is going to canada to be a rock for his father and of all the people purvi should understand that but instead purvi wants him to attend her brother's wedding.

Originally posted by: vasu_2013

Most of our thoughts have coincided. Though I have had issues with Manav in the past, I have also been thankful for fulfilling a big longing of Purvi's of her dream dad.

But I was totally disappointed in him today. He was sitting and coldly calculating how Purvi could get his projects moving without ever a thought occurring to him about putting Purvi through a turmoil by involving her. I too feel that Purvi has an obligation to Manav that she cannot just drop the projects that she started without a proper handover but as Purvi put herself in Manav's shoes, Manav never wasted a second putting himself in her shoes. And this will never happen if he had behaved like a real dad in mind and spirit. I was even disappointed that Archana did not step in at that moment and reminded Manav of this.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

the only reason their relationship worked before marriage was because arjun stopped thinking about himself and made purvi his priority. She left and humiliated and forced him to marry someone else and consummate with her and he did all that to make her happy. But purvi is not the type to compromise. Arjun clearly said it is not the money that is important to him but the fact that his father needs him is important. he is going to canada to be a rock for his father and of all the people purvi should understand that but instead purvi wants him to attend her brother's wedding.

If arjun can sacrifice his own happiness for purvi and her family then why cant she be a little too. Purvi and arjun are very different people and the only way their relationship could work is through compromise which purvi will never agree to. If she wants something her way then it has to happen and she doesnt care how many people she hurts in the process. she is completely failing as a wife, mother and DIL but she is winning as a good daughter.

Yes Manav threw Purvi Out! Glad he did, If Purvi weren't continouselyl ying about Paternity of Pari that wouldn't have happened, If Purvi didn't Swapped those Babies that wouldn't have happened.There something called Karma. BUT didn't Manav took her back when Purvi left Onir? Didn't Manav got this Arvi married? When Purvi is punished for her deeds she becomes a Sauteli but if she taken care off that goes unnoticed. Purvi just doesnot know the meaning of the word Balance Its either her way Or the free-way. Archana need to remind 'Selfish Manav' that Purvi is now a Kiloskar And this simple fact is conveniently forgotton by Purvi but even then she is considered Caring Purvi. A parent should shower all the love and care on their children But if they expect anything in return they become an Eyesore. Manav allowed Purvi to work in His and DK's company after she walked out on Onir. Didn't he supported her in every which way? and now if Manav is expecting Purvi to help in his difficult times He should just Keep Off. Hmm WHATEVER.

Purvi is pregnant and all preggy women are more emotional than ever!