i think arjun and purvi are not made for each other dt note pg11

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m_masti

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

100% agree with Topic: ArVi not made for each other

while in love Purvi said, she won't work after wedding, she will take care of DK and kids, but now Puriv hardly has time for DK and Kids, she is always behind maika just like her mom archu, the difference is Arjun is speaking here, but Manav couldnot speak and Archu's maika snatched ArMan's everything

ArVi love story is just a love story which is based on chemistry and fascination

there is always a better solution to solve the situation, but Archu-Purvi never want to take do anything in the perfect way, they want to do it in Sanskar/Mahaan/Taagi way...

everyone has their own ego and satisfy it, but no lead in this show cares about bottom of the line in the relationships

in past the fault was thrown on Savita and now its thrown on Manav, but the true fault is always between wife-husband relationship caused by wife's maika and wife's priorities about maika...

its the same way archu gave priority to varsha, and now purvi gave priority to soham...archu stood against Manav and sulo protected her ladli Archu, and now archu is protecting her ladli Purvi...and same preggo track both times...

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persistence-win

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Arvi are clashing Only because because of their Utter disregard for others Opinion, Clashes occur among every couple- Its Natural! But Are they understanding or Trying to Understand each-others point of view, Arjun demanding Purvi to act as Kirloskar bahu and Purvi demanding Arjun to behave like Deshmukh Damad, All they are doing Mera- Parivaar, Tumahara-Parivaar- They will keep on their Utter Boorish and disrespectful Behaviour Till somebody from that 'Unwanted Deshmukh Pariwaar' will come and sort them Out or it will lead to some Disaster- which would again be dumped on Somebody!Because this ArviI cannot be Wrong- Ever.

Archana told Purvi in clear cut terms Not to involve herself in Soham matter, But Purvi as usual in a complete dis-regard to others Opinion sheltered that Criminal, which resulted in Arjun's arrest, But that was again somebody else's fault Because this Purvi Cannot be Wrong Ever.

Deshmukh and especialy Archana should have danced or played Dandiya after knowing Purvi's PMS and her Baby-swapping act and they should accepted her, Evil Savita should be all arms for her after knowing what she had done to her own Grand-daughter. But how many days it took Archana to Forgive her and plonk her In that same 'Dysfunctional Deshmukhs' house and soon everybody were treating Her as a princess and baby-sitting Pari while she was on her Merry way with Arjun.

Manav forgiving Spoilt Princess Ovi- WOW now inspite of topic which read- Are Arvi made for each other? Ovi who have no business in their Matter is being sucked in, Now if somebody try to defend Ovi it will become a Purvi bashing thread and pages will be counted- sighting People's Desperation, Where she would be Labelled too important to not to be ignored- Whether you Love her or Hate her And people of Other Opinion would be Just Haters who have No life of their own. SAME OLD STRATEGY👏

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m_masti

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

awesome posts persistence-win and varsha di

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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

All marriages, even the happiest face issues at times, a good marriage is not one without problems but one that can weather a storm.

Arjun and Purvi are a young couple, with a young baby and another on the way, she is pregnant and Arjun needs to be understanding of her especially so at this time. Also, there have been major family upheavals, there is bound to be friction, needs to be seen if they have the common sense and foresight to work out these minor differences.

Love is never enough there is something called old fashioned commitment that refuses to throw in the towel. Ovi did not have that however much she loved Arjun, so the point of them being suited to each other is moot.

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pallavi25

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

If CVs separate ArVi before the leap, it will just prove that they are the LEAD couple after ArMaan ...by separating them, CVs will show them pining for each other which has more dramatic/emotional value than showing a happy couple romancing which gets boring after a while!

Before it was ArMaan's Lambi Judaaii...now its ArVi's turn!

Anyway, all couples fight abt maayka and sasural! Thats the most realistic thing shown in this unrealistic show! Much more realistic than Ovi's baby appearing out of the blue, without any pregnancy or belly evident during any of her numerous visits to India! 😆

Purvi is more attached to her maayka than Ovi ever was so she will try to help them! Thats been her folly all along! Bothering abt Archu and Manav all the time, thats why she let herself be blackmailed by Ovi in the first place! She shd stop caring so much abt the Deshmucks!

On the other hand, Arjun shd be more understanding abt her situation as shes caught in the middle and also shes pregnant and shd not be under stress because of family wars!

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Arjun-Purvi never had respect for each other's opinions to begin with...Its that by luck somehow the attraction threw a curve ball between them..See if they had that basic understanding from the get go I can see them resolving their issues now. No couple is above arguments and debates. At the end of the day we all communicate and come to some understanding and compromise. Marriage is WIP = Work in progress..

Here they are letting their family be more important than their own marriage or 3 of them.

Archu and Purvi are doing same things ...Have not learned enough...Once a woman or a man is married they must take care of their own marriage and family...Fighting for their other respective families will do nothing but tear them apart.

Totally agree on how every topic w/o a cause Ovi's name is brought up for many thngs. Bashed to death than they play innocent victim calling Purvi is being bashed..

Masti fab post...Totally agree..

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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: pallavi25
If CVs separate ArVi before the leap, it will just prove that they are the LEAD couple after ArMaan ...by separating them, CVs will show them pining for each other which has more dramatic/emotional value than showing a happy couple romancing which gets boring after a while!
Before it was ArMaan's Lambi Judaaii...now its ArVi's turn!

Anyway, all couples fight abt maayka and sasural! Thats the most realistic thing shown in this unrealistic show! Much more realistic than Ovi's baby appearing out of the blue, without any pregnancy or belly evident during any of her numerous visits to India!😆
Purvi is more attached to her maayka than Ovi ever was so she will try to help them! Thats been her folly all along! Bothering abt Archu and Manav all the time, thats why she let herself be blackmailed by Ovi in the first place! She shd stop caring so much abt the Deshmucks!
On the other hand, Arjun shd be more understanding abt her situation as shes caught in the middle and also shes pregnant and shd not be under stress because of family wars!

Pallavi, rightly said. 👏

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pallavi25

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Ovi is clearly mentioned in the topic, so obviously she will be discussed! 😛

Manav doesnt really consider Purvi his daughter, if he did he would not disown her totally when she was in dire straits! If Sachin or Ovi or Teju are in dire straits he would rush to help them, even if they were at fault in the first place! Manav only goes along with Archu so he pretends where Purvi is concerned! When Archu was in a coma, he threw out Purvi from their lives like an outsider!

Real Parents cannot ditch their children even if they disappoint them with their mistakes!

ArVi will have arguments, both are strong willed and stubborn! Both wont budge an inch in their stance! Thats typical Ekta! She always shows two strong willed people fall in love, they fight and struggle yet cannot stop loving each other!

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vasu_2013

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Posted: 11 years ago

#29

TM, I strongly disagree. If you conclude that a good relationship exist between husband and wife only when the wife becomes a mouth piece of her husband and does not have a mind of her own, then you are wrong. You have two strong willed individuals here in Arjun and Purvi who have slightly different sense of priority in what is more important to them. They both are successfully running their own businesses. Just because their opinions do not coincide, you cannot deem them as not made for each other.

In fact, there is nothing wrong in good healthy arguments and expressing individuals difference of opinion. It happens in all the families. End of the day, the partners should respect each other and should understand and acknowledge the rationale behind each other's actions. That's what matters the most in a relationship.

We have many real-life cases of husband and wife who run successful businesses and most of them are family owned. Some of them involve rivalry between siblings, cousins etc. ending up in conflicts but the partners keep the business going on their separate ways ignoring all the family drama that happens in between. My dad worked in one such hugely successful business and I have observed the business-cum-life partners in close quarters. Of course, this is a TV drama and hence there will be unions and separations , not to forget - the babies too, at the drop of a hat.

On your conclusion that Ovi is a better mate for Arjun, the least said the better. First, she never shown to do anything productive in business and cared for neither Arjun or her parent's feelings. Forget about her parents, she did not even care about her own baby. All that ever mattered to Ovi was just Ovi. So, God help 'made-for-each-other' couples if they have to be modelled after Arjun-Ovi.