i think arjun and purvi are not made for each other dt note pg11 - Page 6

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Posted: 11 years ago
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its Arvi's mutual understanding which is making them look not compatible with each other...
but many in the forum doesn't want to accept that but just want to make themselves happy by posting ArVi are made for each other, and Ovi is bad for drinking and leaving preemie in canada...

I am glad that Ovi is not the reason for ArVi fighting and egocentric behavior...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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When Ovi was angry at Arjun, she started drinking during her pregnancy...but that is approved of and defended!
But Purvi just went out for a walk and shes bumping into cars?
PRICELESS! 😆

All couples fight with each other, ArVi are just a normal couple having their usual spats! Tera parivaar VS mera parivaar! Very normal between MOST couples! 😆
Of course in India where families are involved, these marital fights sometimes go out of hand as happened in ArMaan's case! Its the apavitra rishtedaars who mess up a married couple's happiness! Thats been proved again and again in ArMaan's lifetime!
Everytime a couple fights means they are incompatible? What a joke! 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Have no idea or comment on who's made for whom, but looks like things suddenly falling place for the PH has made the story with so many loopholes. The younger cast's sudden decision of staying and finalizing the initial cast for the leap seems to have suddenly moved the story forward and the CVs want all the characters to get in the place they want before the leap happens. They either don't care or hope the audience forgets all the nonsensicalities. That's why Ovi suddenly has a baby there was no sign of before this. They need this development to move the story forward but can't go back and change things they have already shown.
Regarding arjun and purvi, their marriage will work only when either they don't have any problems so no cause for conflict (which seems impossible since they have a knack to inviting trouble) or if one of them completely submits to the other (like arjun did until his marriage to purvi). There doesn't seem to be any kind of middle ground for them. So long term, would say it's difficult for such a marriage to be successful unless both compromise to some extent that is agreeable to both of them. And no, it will never be over even if all the Deshmukhs are out of the picture. Both of them will find something else they are passionate about, or stubborn about, and they might not always be the same things.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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That Soup drama was way over the top, the K's being a wealthy family and had professional chefs working for them and they didn't knew how to make a vegetable soup😆, But on the hind-sight one have to admit that it was no ordinary soup, afterall it containned all the - sanskaars, care, emotions, sacrifices, love, pure-heart and all the good-intentions of the world. I was surprised DK didn't got up and beat Usain Bolt after having that soup😉.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Opposites attrract..that's for sure. But it is like-mindedness that makes a relationship last. There are many psychological studies where it was shown that couples who are more similar to each other, have longer-lasting relation.

I remember my first year psychology teacher mentioning that while opposites attract, after a while the differing characteristics starts to get on the nerves of both parties. Say for example an introvert and an extrovert start being attracted to each other. At first the difference in their characteristic will attract - the quiet one will admire the confidence and adventure, whereas the loud one might like how their respective spouse is insighful and a good listener. It is different from how they are. Eventually after a while the same characteristic they liked so much about each other is the very same that irritates them. The quiet one might find their spouse wreckless and too carefree whereas the loud one might find their spouse boring. That's why people who are more alike have a more satisfying relationship in the long run. They might not attract each other initially but later on they have a solid bond.

Purvi and Onir were more alike than Purvi and Arjun. Purvi and Onir were both brough up in a middle-class life with similar values. Onir was patient with Onir as well. Arjun and Ovi were more alike...they were both a bit immature in the relationship front. THey also had a similar upbringing and had the same circle of friends and went through life events together. In reality, I don't see many Indian guys brought up in Canada, America wanting to go to India to get married to a native there. Most desi guys here would want someone from Canada so it's a bit surprising.

Arjun-Purvi fighting now that they are married shouldn't shock anyone. I know bollywood portrays couples fighting when they first meet and then falling madly in love and living happily ever after but that's not how it happens. In reality, 2 people who started out fighting so much isn't gonna fair well getting married, despite how much they turn each other on. We can see the difference of the dating and married stage when reality sets in.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

When Ovi was angry at Arjun, she started drinking during her pregnancy...but that is approved of and defended!

But Purvi just went out for a walk and shes bumping into cars?
PRICELESS! 😆

All couples fight with each other, ArVi are just a normal couple having their usual spats! Tera parivaar VS mera parivaar! Very normal between MOST couples! 😆
Of course in India where families are involved, these marital fights sometimes go out of hand as happened in ArMaan's case! Its the apavitra rishtedaars who mess up a married couple's happiness! Thats been proved again and again in ArMaan's lifetime!
Everytime a couple fights means they are incompatible? What a joke! 😆



absolutely agree with u pallavi 👍🏼
What ever Ovi does is been defended but whenever something is done by purvi she is bashed..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ovi drinking out of Arjun's behaviour was considered BAD and EVIL and Purvi response to that supposedly cold-shoulder by Arjun for sending him to jail and lying to him his considered as Emotional, thats also PRICELESS. What one suppose to encounter when one walk- around on middle of mumbai busy roads-Roses and the same interferring Onir saved her, brought her home, called Arjun and sorted them out- But he too is bashed! Well nothing NEW. In India tera parivar- mera parivar occurs, fights happens but Both of them had to adjust, its a bi-party affair and their lies compatability,But they are trying to out-do each other in this ridiculous game of one upmanship and surely that is A JOKE. This Arvi can be labelled as One Hot Pair- who can sing around Rains, can have eye-locks till cow comes home, can make-out in Jhopda or in a suit! all those things which are rosy they surely excel.l But when faced with problems which requires Both of them to step forward and make a contribution they usually CHICKEN-OUT.
Edited by persistence-win - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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if Arjun and Purvi are bad and evil then Ovi is also not a saint..
She herself kept her baby life at stake by drinking alcohol during her pregnancy...
Her drinking killed her baby and also she never wanted this baby..she was just keeping this baby so that she can control over arjun life ..she didnt even cared for her baby when it was in her womb so how could she be a good mother
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Purvi is pregnant and all preggy women are more emotional than ever!

Manav, Arjun, all of them shd consider her condition and not put her through so much stress and conflict!
And of course Purvi shd take it easy and relax at home and look after Pari and herself!
But Ekta's heroines are always out conquering the world in delicate condition!
Of course she can work, all pregnant women can work if they have a normal pregnancy but definitely shd avoid stress...especially others shd take care not to give her stress! This is a special time for her and Arjun and they shd enjoy the moments instead of fighting abt the Deshmucks!


Lolzzz.. We all knows that purvi doesn't need any particular situation for be emotional..nyways her intension is good but again she has nt any ability to take any correct decision on correct time..dats why every time others needs to think about her...why can't she herself understand that now she is nt deshmukh... Again due to emotions she is going to do mistake nd fighting with Arjun..if in future they will parted away than again she become kind hearted nd ovi nd D clan members will be considered as reason for separation...no one will going to think abt her own decision power.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

if Arjun and Purvi are bad and evil then Ovi is also not a saint..
She herself kept her baby life at stake by drinking alcohol during her pregnancy...
Her drinking killed her baby and also she never wanted this baby..she was just keeping this baby so that she can control over arjun life ..she didnt even cared for her baby when it was in her womb so how could she be a good mother


Ovi WAS not a saint... She made mistakes than wat abt purvi???? Baby ko football bana diya... So how could she also be a good mother?????

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