'All is happy' - really Manav?

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Posted: 12 years ago

I can't believe the dialogues of Archana and Manav regarding the family. Manav commented on how it's good to see everyone so happy. Archana interjected with - except...(I was truly expecting her to say something about missing Ovi and having no idea what her state is like a caring mother)..Purvi and the ugency to get her married. I mean sure she's faced's some troubles but they are much less pressing compared to the forgotten daughter of D clan.

Here we have a girl with her whole family and even another home of her grandmother Sulochona if something goes wrong. A girl with 2 homes. She has a career. She also has a daughter to live for. What does Ovi have to live for? We have Soham disappearing and Archana is worried sick, but no thought to a girl who lost everything and has no support system. Sure you can blame Ovi for leaving but at times it is better to leave a situation that suffocates you (finding out that the child she took care of is her husband's nishani with another woman). It does not mean she can't use company to help her through it. How hard is it to hop on a plane when you have so much money? Why can't Archana go see her or even send Teju. I am also very disappointed with Manav for not even thinking about the welfare of his daughter and being blinded with love for his teenage wife.

It seems to me that Ovi is erased from the minds of D Clan and only brought up for specific purposes. Ovi going to the doctor's for stress-related pain signals to me that she has taken it hard. It would be of some help if her family came to visit her (minus Purvi since it would bring back too much pain). Even when she went to India she could not stay with her own family since the situation she has been avoiding was living right under the same roof. She had to live off a hotel without her family. This is a case of a girl being booted out of her family and no one is batting an eyelash - not even Savita who raised and protecter her like a lioness.

I would really hate to be a daughter of the Deshmukh's if it means getting the treatment Ovi is getting.

Edited by PandorasBox - 12 years ago

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swati gaikwad

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Posted: 12 years ago

i agree with u...😊

good post...👍🏼 👏

m not going comment on d n k clan members n armaan too...after sushant quite...armaan dead...bcs woh kab kya sochate hai, kya karte hai, kya bolte hai, kiss disha mein jaate hai...kab kisko sar pe bithate hai n kab kisko jameen par la patakte hai yeh toh unko khudko pata nahi chalta...🤣🤣🤣🤣

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sherma

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Posted: 12 years ago

archana and manav r d most disgustng parente ever,a child shld b an orphan but nt parents like dem.archana very conveniently frgot abt ovi,if purvi needs her family then wat abt ovi.i have nt seen purvi depressed evn 10 percent of wat ovi is,ovi is in depression cause of her baby,fail marriage etc.wat did armaan did?they dint evn bthre to b wid her?or send sum1 wid her,nor do i see the d clam missing her,it seems purvi again took her place.yestrday archu was telling soham hw she wants her all children togethrmso wat abt ovi.instead of helping ovi they are again tryng to do things in haste way,d way archi did befre

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relentless.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ovi herself chose to "stay away" from the Deshumukh clan isn't it! No one forced her out of the house. She has her own issues and insecurities and this weird complex that no matter what happens, she will always sulk, crib and be unhappy. So how is it anybody's problem that she stays away from the house?!?! When she Herself has chosen this path. ArMan did stop her and so did Arjun, but stubborn that she is, did not listen, she rather decided to fly back to Canada.

And come on, they have given Ovi enough space and thought to settle down in life, ArVi need to be given equal thought by the elders. So do Teju, Sachin and Soham. Ovi is no goddess 😆

Edited by KiShaholic. - 12 years ago

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sherma

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: KiShaholic.
Ovi herself chose to "stay away" from the Deshumukh clan isn't it! No one forced her out of the house. She has her own issues and insecurities and this weird complex that no matter what happens, she will always sulk, crib and be unhappy. So how is it anybody's problem that she stays away from the house?!?! When she Herself has chosen this path. ArMan did stop her and so did Arjun, but stubborn that she is, did not listen, she rather decided to fly back to Canada.

And come on, they have given Ovi enough space and thought to settle down in life, ArVi need to be given equal thought by the elders. So do Teju, Sachin and Soham. Ovi is no goddess 😆

Ovi doesnt want to stay away from her family,she wants to stay away from arjun and purvi,if ovi dint listen to armaan ,so did soham wanted to stay wid dem,still dey frced him,and wat was archu dialogue i will also leave the house wid u.where is dis mamta fr ovi,oi is dis only valid fr purvi and soham.ovi is in depression,bth armaan daughter hav fail marriage,purvi is so cool abt u,cause from one mans hand she immediatley gt another man for him,but for ovi her own parents just left hher.although they knew she cant handle stress,they just left her alone in canada.does it make sense.

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_notinuse_

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: KiShaholic.
Ovi herself chose to "stay away" from the Deshumukh clan isn't it! No one forced her out of the house. She has her own issues and insecurities and this weird complex that no matter what happens, she will always sulk, crib and be unhappy. So how is it anybody's problem that she stays away from the house?!?! When she Herself has chosen this path. ArMan did stop her and so did Arjun, but stubborn that she is, did not listen, she rather decided to fly back to Canada.

And come on, they have given Ovi enough space and thought to settle down in life, ArVi need to be given equal thought by the elders. So do Teju, Sachin and Soham. Ovi is no goddess 😆

See this is where the problem lies. Anyone else who just went through a divorce can escape the pain by going to their family. Ovi can't because there is a reminder of her broken marriage, her dead child, and everything painful. She wanted to escape the pain, not her family. She needs her family's support and it's really disappointing that they are so aloof with her. Archana only told her that if she needs to talk she can call anytime, really? Is that all she can do as a mother? I feel that Ovi has been kicked out of the family. They are only her family by name.

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Posted: 12 years ago

A good parent is one who can give support to their child at their most crucial time, regardless if the child asks for it or not.

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soniiyaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

Ovi was just a tool to create drama in the leads lives and now that drama is ending, no use of her. Sachi and teju have no use either.

Unfortunately Cvs are unable to create a story with all the characters and show them as an actual family. They just don't know what to do with so many characters. So they use and throw away as needed. They can only write one pathetic story at a time with the leads.

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jklp

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: PandorasBox
I can't believe the dialogues of Archana and Manav regarding the family. Manav commented on how it's good to see everyone so happy. Archana interjected with - except...(I was truly expecting her to say something about missing Ovi and having no idea what her state is like a caring mother)..Purvi and the ugency to get her married. I mean sure she's faced's some troubles but they are much less pressing compared to the forgotten daughter of D clan.

Here we have a girl with her whole family and even another home of her grandmother Sulochona if something goes wrong. A girl with 2 homes. She has a career. She also has a daughter to live for. What does Ovi have to live for? We have Soham disappearing and Archana is worried sick, but no thought to a girl who lost everything and has no support system. Sure you can blame Ovi for leaving but at times it is better to leave a situation that suffocates you (finding out that the child she took care of is her husband's nishani with another woman). It does not mean she can't use company to help her through it. How hard is it to hop on a plane when you have so much money? Why can't Archana go see her or even send Teju. I am also very disappointed with Manav for not even thinking about the welfare of his daughter and being blinded with love for his teenage wife.

It seems to me that Ovi is erased from the minds of D Clan and only brought up for specific purposes. Ovi going to the doctor's for stress-related pain signals to me that she has taken it hard. It would be of some help if her family came to visit her (minus Purvi since it would bring back too much pain). Even when she went to India she could not stay with her own family since the situation she has been avoiding was living right under the same roof. She had to live off a hotel without her family. This is a case of a girl being booted out of her family and no one is batting an eyelash - not even Savita who raised and protecter her like a lioness.

I would really hate to be a daughter of the Deshmukh's if it means getting the treatment Ovi is getting.

Excellent post. I'm with you. Very well said. No one is bothered about Ovi, just thinks about that Purvi & Arjun.😡😡😡😡😡😡😡