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hi im back after a long time making a post (i took lot of courage as i know what will each post turn out to be😉)
i have seen many posts in this forum sympathesing with ovi's chracter and blaming arjun and purvi for all that happened in her life... but here is my take on each one...there is a quote that U WILL REAP WHAT U SOW... this phrase just doesnt mention the actions we do it even includes our motives or intentions behind it... lets see what each one did and what did they get in return...
the same implies in these three characters...
ovi married arjun knowing that he was madly in love with purvi.. this man who took 2 bullets to save her and who worked as a mechanic to win her mother's heart to marry her... with this cant ovi understand how much he loved purvi... she didnot and entered into a forced relation by blackmailing her sister with her mother's love... what did she get in return..
no love from her husband... always doubting him even when his love left him and doesnt know where she is... even when she saw purvi with arjun first time in onir's house after 6 months she accused them of having an affair shows her insecurity and the strength of the relation.. coming to the baby it was really sad for her that lost her baby but it might be like God has punished her for what she did.. she made a deal out of one's love to a mother and deal on her own mother... so dont u think that's the worst thing any daughter can do to a mother by making her a part of the deal for her love.. and she never cared for the baby she had when she had it in her womb.. she was rectless and tortured the baby with alcohol and not taking medicines and taking over stress over the issues which were not even important wasnt that worst for a mother to do her baby.. she was failed both as a mother and daughter in my view and probably that was why she might have been punished by God... and i too feel very bad for her for that but that was her fate.. since she now started to think something in senses she realised what the mistakes she did and what she can get and what she cant and moved out of arjun's life and is trying to move ahead...
purvi.. her biggest mistake was to force arjun into marriage with her sister.. but she have no choice and did it just to get her mother who gave her a life back to her family... but she paid for it by staying away from the family whom she wanted to be with and loved alot for 6 months and if onir was not her husband probably she would have lived always away from them... though her actions were not correct her intentions were good and that is why though she away ftom her family she got a man who understood her and supported her and accepted her...
for the mistake she committed by getting intimate with her love before marriage didnt she face enough mental torture in hiding the truth from all and also from other people like vinay who camt to blackmail her and all..she gave the baby to ovi though i wont support it any situation but her intention was good... she was herself paid a lot of pain to herself by seperating form her baby and longing for it after ovi never allowed her near pari wasnt that a punishment for her mistake.. and since her intention were good she got back her baby back but even she faced a lot of humiliation from the family and after being thrown out and all wasnt that the punishment she got for her actions which she did... even today she loves arjun but can never admit it.. is this not a kind of internal punishment...
since she always thought good for others today her huusband is himself helping her in finding her love back than forcing her in a love less life...
arjun- he did a mistake by marrying ovi on purvi's words did he pay enough for it.. he lost his love and lived a loveless life with ovi and beared her tantrums for the sake of the baby and did what she want.. he couldnt forget his love was that not enough for a man who loved truly to die each day.. he did mistake and paid for it... even today he wants to live with his daughter who brought light in to his life but cant.. he wants to be with his love but can never express it openly.. is this not a kind of punishment.. he faced the most emotional torture among all.. he can for get his love and his daughter.. he was more tortured between ovi and pari and purvi.. wasnt this enough.. since he never thought bad about ovi or purvi today he is on his way to get back to his daughter and love...
with all this i just wanted to say that when u do a mistake or commit a wrong action u will get punished in some or the other way.. if ur intention in doing an action is bad then u will face with the worst things in your life and when ur actions are good and intentions are good even beyond a mistake u commit unknowingly then u will get happiness even after facing the worst times in ur lives...
ovi purvi and arjun did mistakes in their own way and with their own intentions and paying for it...
ovi started to realise what is good for her and others and that is why though divorce is not correct in everyone's view she is gonna have a good life ahead.. as arjun and purvi realised their mistakes which they did unknowingly or knowingly are atlast gonna be together...
PS: pls who ever want to bash keep away as this is just my POV and not intended to hurt anyone and i might appear harsh at times but i just thought in the way of karma that we need to pay for everything we do though in thoughts or actions...
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