my take on ovi-purvi-arjun DT note pg6 - Page 4

Originally posted by: rithika2012

hi im back after a long time making a post (i took lot of courage as i know what will each post turn out to be😉)

i have seen many posts in this forum sympathesing with ovi's chracter and blaming arjun and purvi for all that happened in her life... but here is my take on each one...

there is a quote that U WILL REAP WHAT U SOW... this phrase just doesnt mention the actions we do it even includes our motives or intentions behind it... lets see what each one did and what did they get in return...

the same implies in these three characters...

ovi married arjun knowing that he was madly in love with purvi.. this man who took 2 bullets to save her and who worked as a mechanic to win her mother's heart to marry her... with this cant ovi understand how much he loved purvi... she didnot and entered into a forced relation by blackmailing her sister with her mother's love... what did she get in return..

no love from her husband... always doubting him even when his love left him and doesnt know where she is... even when she saw purvi with arjun first time in onir's house after 6 months she accused them of having an affair shows her insecurity and the strength of the relation.. coming to the baby it was really sad for her that lost her baby but it might be like God has punished her for what she did.. she made a deal out of one's love to a mother and deal on her own mother... so dont u think that's the worst thing any daughter can do to a mother by making her a part of the deal for her love.. and she never cared for the baby she had when she had it in her womb.. she was rectless and tortured the baby with alcohol and not taking medicines and taking over stress over the issues which were not even important wasnt that worst for a mother to do her baby.. she was failed both as a mother and daughter in my view and probably that was why she might have been punished by God... and i too feel very bad for her for that but that was her fate.. since she now started to think something in senses she realised what the mistakes she did and what she can get and what she cant and moved out of arjun's life and is trying to move ahead...

purvi.. her biggest mistake was to force arjun into marriage with her sister.. but she have no choice and did it just to get her mother who gave her a life back to her family... but she paid for it by staying away from the family whom she wanted to be with and loved alot for 6 months and if onir was not her husband probably she would have lived always away from them... though her actions were not correct her intentions were good and that is why though she away ftom her family she got a man who understood her and supported her and accepted her...

for the mistake she committed by getting intimate with her love before marriage didnt she face enough mental torture in hiding the truth from all and also from other people like vinay who camt to blackmail her and all..she gave the baby to ovi though i wont support it any situation but her intention was good... she was herself paid a lot of pain to herself by seperating form her baby and longing for it after ovi never allowed her near pari wasnt that a punishment for her mistake.. and since her intention were good she got back her baby back but even she faced a lot of humiliation from the family and after being thrown out and all wasnt that the punishment she got for her actions which she did... even today she loves arjun but can never admit it.. is this not a kind of internal punishment...

since she always thought good for others today her huusband is himself helping her in finding her love back than forcing her in a love less life...

arjun- he did a mistake by marrying ovi on purvi's words did he pay enough for it.. he lost his love and lived a loveless life with ovi and beared her tantrums for the sake of the baby and did what she want.. he couldnt forget his love was that not enough for a man who loved truly to die each day.. he did mistake and paid for it... even today he wants to live with his daughter who brought light in to his life but cant.. he wants to be with his love but can never express it openly.. is this not a kind of punishment.. he faced the most emotional torture among all.. he can for get his love and his daughter.. he was more tortured between ovi and pari and purvi.. wasnt this enough.. since he never thought bad about ovi or purvi today he is on his way to get back to his daughter and love...

with all this i just wanted to say that when u do a mistake or commit a wrong action u will get punished in some or the other way.. if ur intention in doing an action is bad then u will face with the worst things in your life and when ur actions are good and intentions are good even beyond a mistake u commit unknowingly then u will get happiness even after facing the worst times in ur lives...

ovi purvi and arjun did mistakes in their own way and with their own intentions and paying for it...

ovi started to realise what is good for her and others and that is why though divorce is not correct in everyone's view she is gonna have a good life ahead.. as arjun and purvi realised their mistakes which they did unknowingly or knowingly are atlast gonna be together...

PS: pls who ever want to bash keep away as this is just my POV and not intended to hurt anyone and i might appear harsh at times but i just thought in the way of karma that we need to pay for everything we do though in thoughts or actions...

Originally posted by: pallavi25

@TM: Very good post and I agree with every bit! 👏

Thats what we have been saying all along, that even though she made blunders, Purvi's intentions were always good, meant to make someone else's life better, Arjun's intention was also selfless and he sacrificed a LOT! His own love, happiness, peace of mind! So now they deserve to get back together and find happiness.

Ovi's intentions were selfish and self-centered, thats why she got what she deserved, cant see her as a victim, except as a victim of her own selfish nature. She could have made her marriage work, but even there, her selfishness and insecure nature undid her future. Truly said, You Reap what you Sow!

Originally posted by: sunflower52

Ovi, bought him as a piece of thing. Arjun was just a doll to Ovi and she did made him into one. sucked all life out of him.

Ovi never understood or cared what Arjun felt. At least Arjun tried to understand Ovi's feelings, but she made it difficult for him to let go of his past. Thanks to her insecurity and jealousy.

The difference is there are some people who make you want to live and make you feel alive. That is what Purvi makes Arjun feel, alive.

So I do not understand this squarely putting blame on Arjun and absolving Ovi of her mistakes , to me Ovi and Arjun are both at fault.

So is Purvi for succumbing into emotional blackmail of Ovi, who at that time was not right frame of mind. Purvi was supposed to be a sensible one.

Arjun suffered the most in this deal's of Ovi & Purvi. Ovi the buyer and Purvi the seller.

How can you sell or buy someone emotion's. These 2 girls sold Arjun's emotions and his dreams. Neither understood or cared.

Still Arjun forgave Purvi & Ovi for ruining his life. This takes courage.

This is my take on all 3 characters.

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

i agree arjun has suffered bcz one girl sold him and the other bought but why did he so foolishly give in to purvi's demand. he shud have told her clearly... that purvi..if u dont want to marry me..ok dont, but u cant force me to marry ovi. i love u only and will always do.

but did he do that.. no . instead he thought abt purvi only at that time... purvi ne kaha to marry ovi, toh he blindly followed it.. why? is he a 2 year child? doesnt he know what is marraige.. hw cud arjun and purvi be so selfish. why to give archana happiness they want to play with ovi's emotions? did he even think that if i marry her but then cant love her, how will she feel?
as for ovi.. i agree she was stupid, over possessive and immature. but purvi toh archu ki samajhdar beti hai na.. then y dint she use her brains.. may be she wanted to make ovi luk like a villian...😡
everyone says ovi dint make the marraige work due to her insecurity and jealousy... but what can a person do if hundred times in a day your husband thinks of his ex lover and cant get over with it ...?

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

ovi the character shruti kanwar played is a honest , blunt and faithful modern girl who loves her childhood friend completely madly... yes, she was self centered, but who isnt? but arvi fans so full of hatred that they feel whatever ovi got she deserves...😡
whatever mistakes she may have done.. did she deserve a dead stillborn child? did she deserve that her husband has a child with her isister? purvi is sitting happily at deshmukh house with archu manav's love bcz ythey think her husband cheated her.. so doesnt the same logic apply to ovi? wasnt she cheated of her baby? does she deserve this? and now leaving everyone she is staying seperatelly in canada.. does she deserve this...
and still if u think yes.. then it shows that how heartless you all are...😭

Originally posted by: Rashmi31

Very good post Pallavi,one more incidence which shows Ovi's obsession When Arjun was
hospitalised after getting 2 bullets while saving Purvi from goons,Ovi was not allowing
Purvi to enter ICU to see Arjun .But Arjun pulled Purvi towards him infront of Manav,DK,
Ovi & Teju he did not even look at Ovi,which angered not only Ovi but Manav as well. After that
incident which girl with selfrespect would chase that guy for marriage & try to get him by hook
or crook.

Originally posted by: Rashmi31

Very good post Pallavi,one more incidence which shows Ovi's obsession When Arjun was
hospitalised after getting 2 bullets while saving Purvi from goons,Ovi was not allowing
Purvi to enter ICU to see Arjun .But Arjun pulled Purvi towards him infront of Manav,DK,
Ovi & Teju he did not even look at Ovi,which angered not only Ovi but Manav as well. After that
incident which girl with selfrespect would chase that guy for marriage & try to get him by hook
or crook.