Ovi and Purvi! - Page 3

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

Thank you, dear. Frankly, all this bashing and counter bashing tires me! I am at a loss to understand why we need to resort to unparliamentary language, even if it is to express our disapproval of a character's stance. I thought it would be nice if we can indulge in a constructive exercise for a change! Look forward to your comments. Btw, I have always found yours to be among the saner voices on this forum. Even when you are clear in your support of one character, I do not see blind love! And I do not see blind hatred either.

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

So you want to tinker with the combinations! That is a thought!

Originally posted by: A HUGE FAN

Ovi deserves love, Onir can give that to her!

Purvi deserves happiness, Arjun can give that to her.

Originally posted by: sashashyam

You forget, he has already said that he is her jeeja and thus like an elder brother. There is thus no question of an Onir-Ovi combination. The storm it would set off would trump the jeeju-saali one hands down!😉

Why can poor Onir not be left alone? Does he have to be saddled with one or the other of these plaguey females?

All he needs is his licence back, and Balaji can swing that by suddenly waking up to the Medical Council of India having the sole jurisdiction over such medical malpractice cases (which is true, by the way), and declaring the court decision null and void. Then the MCI can give him a slap on the wrist and send him back to caring for the poor of Kolkatta.

In time, he will thank the Almighty on his knees for this liberation from the Tar Baby of his Mishti, and her behen as well.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Shyamala, it might actually not set off a storm. People might be happy if Ovi finally got someone who will love her the way she deserves to be loved and happy that Purvi is free of the emotional guilt of separating Arjun from Ovi if Ovi finds happiness elsewhere. I do hope it does not happen this way but doing my favorite thing, playing devil's advocate. 😉

Originally posted by: sashashyam

You forget, he has already said that he is her jeeja and thus like an elder brother. There is thus no question of an Onir-Ovi combination. The storm it would set off would trump the jeeju-saali one hands down!😉

Why can poor Onir not be left alone? Does he have to be saddled with one or the other of these plaguey females?

All he needs is his licence back, and Balaji can swing that by suddenly waking up to the Medical Council of India having the sole jurisdiction over such medical malpractice cases (which is true, by the way), and declaring the court decision null and void. Then the MCI can give him a slap on the wrist and send him back to caring for the poor of Kolkatta.

In time, he will thank the Almighty on his knees for this liberation from the Tar Baby of his Mishti, and her behen as well.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

Edited by sashashyam - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sashashyam

Janhvi, I do not know about the others, but I hope Poor Onir (capital intentional!) does not end up with the other sister. It is distasteful, after he has said he sees her as a sister. One cannot change that.

Secondly, what would you bet that if there was any such move, Onir's ex-Mishti would turn a nice shade of pea green?😉 With Shalini, my reading is that what she felt above all was good old jealousy. She had been used to having Onir on a string, and any successful competition for him raises all her hackles! Nothing like a good dose of that to help her find out what, if anything, she actually feels for these two lallus in her life.

My own conviction is that Purvi loves neither of them, but only her aai's parivaar, and Jyothi's delightful list of priorities in the pre-Onir days, where Arjun came in at No. 11, still holds!😉

Shyamala.

I wouldn't like Onir with Ovi either because he does seem to harbor brotherly feelings towards her and she did/does consider him as an older brother, even that flashback of Onir's where Ovi tells him that she is moving to Canada and at that party, she never did accuse Onir did she of the baby swap? So, yes, I too hope not.

As for Purvi turning a nice shade of green, I think unbeknownst to her, she has fallen for the man who calls himself a bigamist. Arjun was her first love (that airport scene where she kept bemoaning the fate of her first love, remember?), Onir may end up being her mature, all abiding love. Who knows what the CVs have in store for us if the SBS segments are to be believed!

If it were left to me, I would rid all men from the lives of both these girls for the time being until they were both not as wet behind the ears, of course, that would be wishful thinking.

Edited by soapwatcher1 - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I wouldn't like Onir with Ovi either because he does seem to harbor brotherly feelings towards her and she did/does consider him as an older brother, even that flashback of Onir's where Ovi tells him that she is moving to Canada and at that party, she never did accuse Onir did she of the baby swap? So, yes, I too hope not.

As for Purvi turning a nice shade of green, I think unbeknownst to her, she has fallen for the man who calls himself a bigamist. Arjun was her first love (that airport scene where she kept bemoaning the fate of her first love, remember?), Onir may end up being her mature, all abiding love. Who knows what the CVs have in store for us if the SBS segments are to be believed!

If it were left to me, I would rid all men from the lives of both these girls for the time being until they were both not as wet behind the ears, of course, that would be wishful thinking.

Originally posted by: sashashyam

Janhvi, I do not know about the others, but I hope Poor Onir (capital intentional!) does not end up with the other sister. It is distasteful, after he has said he sees her as a sister. One cannot change that.

Secondly, what would you bet that if there was any such move, Onir's ex-Mishti would turn a nice shade of pea green?😉 With Shalini, my reading is that what she felt above all was good old jealousy. She had been used to having Onir on a string, and any successful competition for him raises all her hackles! Nothing like a good dose of that to help her find out what, if anything, she actually feels for these two lallus in her life.

My own conviction is that Purvi loves neither of them, but only her aai's parivaar, and Jyothi's delightful list of priorities in the pre-Onir days, where Arjun came in at No. 11, still holds!😉

Shyamala.

Originally posted by: ..aastha..

Both should take sanyas for the sake of peace.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Thank you for that :) The two girls have royally messed up their lives but guess that can happen when one is young and have not much guidance from the elders.

Great idea to induce some constructive effort and thinking on the fates of these two females.

I would want for them what Amelia and Shyamala have hoped the girls could achieve.

Purvi - should stop thinking of yourself as responsible for the world's problems, come down to earth, focus on the child and yourself for a change. Get back to school, get a job, don't hesitate to take child support from Arjun, he is the father and partly responsible for where you stand today. Do not get back with Arjun or any guy for a long time to come. Learn to stand on your own feet, financially and emotionally. Attend to Pari, make yourself someone Pari can look upto as a role model, someone strong, someone who made mistakes but picked herself up and moved on, someone who does not need a man as a crutch but can hold her head high because she believes in herself. Family is important, loving them is important but you have to give them space to fix their own issues.

As for Ovi - get over Arjun, do not fret after a man who does not respect you. He is not worth your time simply because he can never love you as you want to be loved. Self respect and confidence in yourself is more important than hankering after a man who does not care for you. Every girl deserves to have someone who puts her above everyone else, he doesn't, he cannot, move on, please. It is okay not to have everything you want, this way, you will learn to appreciate what you do have. Yes, you too, get back to school, concentrate on your career, if you do end up having a child, raise her/him with pride and no regrets. In time, you will meet a man who loves you as much as you love him, time enough for that, find yourself first.