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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: altuphalu

OMG, can Purvi do anything right!! How about some objectivity, at least sometime??.


I want to agree with you, but I find it difficult when you always find everything wrong with her or her fault.


What will I do if she does everything wrong 😆
I don't think I agree with leaving an infant with a friend while you go crying in the rain 😆
I am not personal on my dislike towards purvi
I applaud her when she does things right
Unlike others I think Archana did the right thing standing up for purvi
And Manav did the right thing by calling her home
But I don't agree leaving an infant with a friend
No mother no matter how heartbroken she is can do that

And I don't even understand what she is upset about
She doesn't even love onir 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

For all those people saying she needs time for herself a baby isn't a doll you can just leave anywhere

She needs to fed milk, change diapers
Now that she decided to weep in rain
She should at least think of going home and crying
So she can reach to her baby fast
But of course who has time for that 😲
Isn't this the same woman who was like I will never leave pari again
Now she leaves an infant with a very responsible gauri
I am sorry but I don't see what she is weeping about
It's like not like she gave her taan and maan to onir
It was only a namesake marriage
You think he lied , apparently they were friends so just walk out and let him be happy with his wife
But no she has to be the bechari here 😆


oh for gods sake guari is a doctor. i think she would know how to take care of
an infant better than most people. she left the child for a few hours not weeks or even days
most new mothers allow others to take care of their child while they catch up on sleep or
go to work. is that also irresponsible? she needed time to herself. havent u ever wanted time
alone w/o worrying about others. or does becoming a mother not allow u to stew on your own
thoughts for a while. whats with this shaming of mothers for not being around their kid 24/7. i dont recall anyone shaming arjun when he left pari to go to work. so y purvi or anyone for that matter who leaves to
deal with their issues for a couple of hours.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: sur_aur_taal

purvi hasn't really had time to feel the shock of the fact that her husband is not really her husband. anyone in that position would like some time alone to think through things. the fact that she has a college friend to help her out with her baby is good for her. i don't see the problem in this. like soham said, she wouldn't go out and do something rash because she has her daughter to take care of.



Completely agree with U. I not find any fault what Purvi doing now. Bot Gauri & her mother take care well Pari.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: nikki1591


oh for gods sake guari is a doctor. i think she would know how to take care of
an infant better than most people. she left the child for a few hours not weeks or even days
most new mothers allow others to take care of their child while they catch up on sleep or
go to work. is that also irresponsible? she needed time to herself. havent u ever wanted time
alone w/o worrying about others. or does becoming a mother not allow u to stew on your own
thoughts for a while. whats with this shaming of mothers for not being around their kid 24/7. i dont recall anyone shaming arjun when he left pari to go to work. so y purvi or anyone for that matter who leaves to deal with their issues for a couple of hours.



@nikki1591 Great answer. I like the way U reply.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Waneeka, she is not nursing the baby like Ovi was so Purvi can leave the baby with Gauri. Gauri is responsible and a doctor at that. Also being a mother doesn't mean you are tied to the baby 24/7. I wouldn't have lasted if that were the case :)) there should be no hue and cry about Purvi leaving Pari with Gauri for a bit while she clears her head. She was married to the man (Onir) and did trust him so when that trust is broken, it is a shock whether one loves that person or not. Plus she is not the one creating the scene, she came to the party with Onir, kept up the charade and even danced with him in order to avoid hurting her mother and having a showdown. The scene is being caused because her mother is worried about her and is looking high and low for her. Purvi has no idea that the D clan is even looking for her. As far as she knows, she is dead to them.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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some people like creating scenes out of nothing unlike some who prefer to send some time alone n think further n make decisions
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Waneeka, she is not nursing the baby like Ovi was so Purvi can leave the baby with Gauri. Gauri is responsible and a doctor at that. Also being a mother doesn't mean you are tied to the baby 24/7. I wouldn't have lasted if that were the case :)) so there should be no hue and cry about Purvi leaving Pari with Gauri for a bit whole she clears her head. She was married to the man (Onir) and did trust him so when that trust is broken, it is a shock whether one loves that person or not. Plus she is not the one creating the scene, she came to the party with Onir, kept up the charade and even danced with him in order to avoid hurting her mother and having a showdown. The scene is being caused because her mother is worried about her and is looking high and low for her. Purvi has no idea that the D clan is even looking for her. As far as she knows, she is dead to them.



Completely agree with U Janvi Di. I not found anything wrong Purvi now alone sometime & left her Pari with Gauri.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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You can't just leave your baby whenever you want, because you have problems, a baby is not handbag. A responsible Mother would put aside her problem and take care of her baby,. not runaway and turn off her mobile.
Even if Gauri is a doctor and Pari got sick, wouldn't she still want to know?

Purvi has shown that she is an irresponsible Mother.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dumppurvi


You can't just leave your baby whenever you want, because you have problems, a baby is not handbag. A responsible Mother would put aside her problem and take care of her baby,. not runaway and turn off her mobile.
Even if Gauri is a doctor and Pari got sick, wouldn't she still want to know?

Purvi has shown that she is an irresponsible Mother.


as opposed to what. ovi who drank while pregnant. seriously this is a joke. just bc ur a mother doesnt mean u have to be up your baby butt 24/7. do u also slam mothers who work and leave their child. or how about the father. do they not have an obligation to stay attatched at their babys hips bc its irresponsible as a parent. if pari gets sick, Gauri the doctor is even a better person to take care of then purvi bc she is a doctor!!!. even if purvi became mother teresa u would still criticize her. i dare u to go tell any real mother that they are irresponsible bc they left baby alone for a couple hours. lets see the answer u get
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikki1591


as opposed to what. ovi who drank while pregnant. seriously this is a joke. just bc ur a mother doesnt mean u have to be up your baby butt 24/7. do u also slam mothers who work and leave their child. or how about the father. do they not have an obligation to stay attatched at their babys hips bc its irresponsible as a parent. if pari gets sick, Gauri the doctor is even a better person to take care of then purvi bc she is a doctor!!!. even if purvi became mother teresa u would still criticize her. i dare u to go tell any real mother that they are irresponsible bc they left baby alone for a couple hours. lets see the answer u get



Nikki Superb Job. Completely agree with U. I also waiting what answer back.

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